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A Friendly Look at the Male (single) Brain - 5/7/2008 3:17:34 PM
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AdrianaS
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Well..its probably the highly pollen count and flakes fallen all over the place by nature that inspired me .. but somehow in my observations the air is heavy masculine and I do feel fascinated by the masculine memories I have since small child growing up around small and grown males - and sure still meeting more men in life, of course.. than I went to research about male brain and found the article below that I found interesting based on the book:"What Could He Be Thinking? : How a Man's Mind Really Works. " that i have not read for sure yet.
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Well..as much stereotyping to be avoided and PC apart, there are traits I observe that are highly masculine and highly feminine because of simple biology going on and I sure prefer highly then lower in the case of masculinity traits. Now, it seems that a highly masculinized brain does not rely on much "word productions", as it will sounds like The Terminator guy...few very few words. 
Now for those who are carrying males brains how masculine your brain plays out and work, with all the masculine chemistry inside it? As many boys do grow up and became men, got "trained" to behave more civilized by parents, education, relationships with women (maybe ex-wives) as at least to me still, as much training going on it is just fascinating that males be very masculine expressing thinking beings. Still in my experience little boys were always doing amazing creative things and very energetic! I still highly enjoy those traits in grown up males.
Now if you want to talk about female brains feel free too, as the article do mention the differences in the female brains and etc. If you do not want to say a thing feel free and do not post. 
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RE: A Friendly Look at the Male (single) Brain - 5/7/2008 5:21:18 PM
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Konstantinos
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oh man, finally a girl that understands.
i love you.
and i act out based on my man brain.. like.. uh... idk.. more than most, but still not enough as i'd want
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RE: A Friendly Look at the Male (single) Brain - 5/8/2008 6:38:30 AM
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Thanks for appreciating our differences! Please share this with the other ladies around here..
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RE: A Friendly Look at the Male (single) Brain - 5/8/2008 8:07:12 AM
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I just need time to read it - I promise I will this weekend and comment afterwards.
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RE: A Friendly Look at the Male (single) Brain - 5/8/2008 10:22:03 AM
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AdrianaS
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Well..this thread comes in few lawyers of course..1ts my own perceptions, senses inside my own brain, feminine and highly sensitive to nature stuff, etc plus my own unique experiences as an individual in my family, surroudings culture etc
Then in trying to pin point what I was sensing I found the article that to me translate the pure biology of whats going on as much sciences finds can do and etc The author strech the possibilities of the extreme spectruns of bothe gender brains but we must not forget what we know already that individuals are just unique in many layers, etc
About Terminator exemple is just and exemple about:" Action heroes give us an illustration of the very polar end of masculinization on the brain spectrum. Schwarzenegger is playing a stereotype, of course. Stereotypes generally tend to be the polar ends of spectrums because they are simplistic, and simplistic characters tend to be good ones on which to hinge simple, entertaining tales. Yet even as stereotypes, they are recognizable as the most "masculine" end of the brain spectrum."
I always love biologia and do find fascinating "look" the organism, system, just playing out as it is programed to function etc Now my fascination is with expression of the male exemples I found in my own experience and the predictability of many of their automatic actions, plus the behaviour that I found "typical" from the start of my young life from the boys around me. Now, my olderbrother was into make experiments and the most fantastic ones were about to make little explosions. LOL and in the article it shows that those experiments belongs to males, and really saw that 1st hand growing up as many others cool adventures memories I carry with me to this day. Of course we are very much impacted with our experiences and it just become imprinted our preferences for something. As we grow up we sure are exposed to more and more, still we make choices inside, at least I do, of my strong preferences.
Then the highly masculine above the less or lower masculine, in my preference plays out based own my whole experience as a woman. I do think strongly that I do have a strong balance about highly masculinity because I come from a machist chauvinist society as growing up, but the male system in my family life was very much balanced as males in a macho society. Now, as I experience for a while what is to live in US society where feminist is at your face, plus other groups as homesexual rights thoughts, as kind of "trying to find a balance" for the "new men"- what I do found is that males in these societies are bit confuse and what direction he should go and even how to be a male. PC all over the place..as even if you go research for masculinity in the net, at least to me you find negative, playing down stuff, sarcasm and stuff about the masculine men. Now my personal impression is the approach to conform with "new masculinity" is going to the drain and many males in those mix messages invironment are just getting lost in their identity...when all the time its inside themselves and sure there is need of affirmation for those young growing men from growing men who own their identity as males already, to show "them" the way to be a natural man.
What I do sense is ways of conformism with set of rules into place in society where to be a natural man is not into place, many are just clueless and do find ways to play their confusion by behaving "badly". To me its trully sad as the great amount of young males that lacks direction and the beautiful natural drive of males is put to waste and live below what they were created to be. God created the human system inside and the genders male and female and the chemistry that goes on in the different cromossomes we have and play their part in their natural functions. We are whole persons created by Him, new creation as Christians with Him inside, yes! But still living in a awesome male or female body. As a whole female individual I for sure, again prefer, highly masculines whole males individuals. It just comes very natural to be drawn to the high amounts of it that express on males who are naturally full of it and not notice the ones who have it different...
Its awesome that nature plays it in huge scale and dances in its different seasons, since its beggining of creation. Its an explosion of life in the outdoors scenery! Its poetic and just beautiful the natural process of live systems our God created. 
Ok people..I'm just expressing freely the way I see, feel and many etcs. Summer is comming soon!
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RE: A Friendly Look at the Male (single) Brain - 5/9/2008 5:15:45 PM
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Konstantinos
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what bugs me about it is that.. you can really REALLY see what men and women are supposed to be when they are just children. why do boys like dangerous stuff and girls play with barbies(and when they grow up they hate barbies, but we still like danger)?
its not coincidental, but society and the way the teenager society is.. high school and stuff.. they take you away from those roles and you literally forget them
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RE: A Friendly Look at the Male (single) Brain - 5/12/2008 5:55:32 PM
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AdrianaS
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quote:
ORIGINAL: Konstantinos
what bugs me about it is that.. you can really REALLY see what men and women are supposed to be when they are just children. why do boys like dangerous stuff and girls play with barbies(and when they grow up they hate barbies, but we still like danger)?
its not coincidental, but society and the way the teenager society is.. high school and stuff.. they take you away from those roles and you literally forget them
Well Konstantinos, we have a 20 years gap between our generations, I suppose - but I may understand what are you talking about. And teenagers phase much goes on and many forces do influence nowdays generations, peer pressures etcs. plus is the beggining of growing up to adulthood and etc by the time many growing hormones settles into place and balances in the brains etc things will start become more clear as the time goes by etc. Thank God! 
I for sure as growing up had free acess to both worlds of dolls and girl stuff and boys adventures, I sure enjoyed be and observe my brother but sure I took many breaks from him and I did enjoy my girlfriends and to play theater and dress up and whatever etc plus I had a father very involved into my life what makes a huge influence to a girl's life etc. I do feel much blessed and greatful for my upbringing as a person and by whom influenced me strongly and I do carry with me inside.
What is cool is to feel very confy in our own skin, as we age and etc as me person, I trully enjoy the especific cultural masculine males in my data brain bank, as men who still have a healthy flame of a cool "boy" inside, playful, adventurous, fun very masculine males.....as I am in a point in life that I just know what I trully appreaciate and give no apologies for that, of course. Sure I still learning as I keep meeting people as time goes by and etc but the preference inprinting inside do stand, to this day.
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