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Feeling rejected and allowing emotions to override - 6/9/2008 8:14:35 AM
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plf109
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I am not sure if this is the right place to post or communicate my feelings but I wanted to try and throw this out there for everyone to read and possibly give feedback and their opinions.
How do you feel when you want someone so badly (your spouse), but he is very much into his needs and them to be met just about every day. But when you give him what he so desires, and you feel like you give him everything he wants, what about it when "you" want to have your needs met as well because it has turned you on, made you feel so engertic that you just don't know what to do with all of these emotions racing within you?
What I am trying to get at is, Why is it that a women needs to give detail instructions to a man of what she wants. What happen to having men read their bodies, their actions of lust for them, and take care of their women in ways they love to please her? How do you get your man to understand she doesn't want to always have the instructions, or tell him that she wants to be touch, loved, satisfied, feel that she is the most attractive women he has ever been with or want to be with, feel appreciated, etc..... If I am making him feel those ways, why can't a women feel the same way from her man?
I am getting my feelings hurt when my husband starts to make me feel great, wanting more, then he stops because he is being met with his needs. I don't want him to stop but I hate it when he tells me he doesn't know what I want. Just take it. I hate doing that all the time because I want him to make me feel I am wanted and he wants to love me in more ways then you can imagine. When things goes this way, I start to let him know I am disappointed, and feel rejected, we get into a huge argument and it just doesn't go anywhere. I get more and more fustrated with him. How do I get him to understand I have needs as well as him, but I don't want to have to read instruction manual to him in order for him fulfill the my needs.
Somehow I need to know how to not let my emotions override me, figure out how to get him to understand my feelings, needs, wants, without always going overboard.
We are both loving and caring couple, we love each other's company a great deal, it's just when it comes to what I need and want from my husband, he just doesn't get it without me always feeling like I need to give him instructions.
HELP!!!
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RE: Feeling rejected and allowing emotions to override - 6/9/2008 9:13:52 AM
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ta_mosquito
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Thank you for taking the time to post your topic.
Unfortunately, our Community is not the ideal platform for discussing intimate details regarding this topic and therefore this thread is being closed as per our FAQ.
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