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Forgiveness - 8/7/2008 9:54:13 PM
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cblueiis
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I ask for prayer to be able to know that my son has forgiven me for not being the kind of mom I should have been to him. He is 23.... I was an alcoholic single parent and he being the oldest caught most of the raw deal......Tonight he came to visit with my stepgrandchild and he raised his voice to her. I asked him not to and he said "You did to me....." He silenced me as he is right I did and I was at times abusive to him. I prayed and asked God to show me how to deal with this. My younger child has had a much easier life altho she is his bio sister, she is much younger and by the time she was born I was divorced and beginning to get my life together again. I have asked God to forgive me for my son's not so good early life but how how do I ask my son to forgive me? I cannot change it but it hurts so much. He has missed out on so many of the things my daughter has been privy to. Please help do I ask mmy son for forgiveness as I don't want him to raise his children the way he was raised. He knows I am changed and he knows that I live for God now....Please please pray for me......[
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RE: Forgiveness - 8/7/2008 10:17:23 PM
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"*Hey There, My Dearest Sweetest Bestest *Prayer and Praise RePorts* SisterFriend in Our Wonderful Lord & Saviour, Jesus Christ of Earth, Heaven, & Us, CBlueIIS, First of ALL, I Don't Think that There are Any so-called Perfect Parent's, & then Go On to Say that I Know WithOut a Shadow of a Doubt Some of the Feelings that You are Feeling, b/c My Dearest Sweetest Bestest Hubby & I were in the Partying Scene for ABout 1/2 of Our 29 Years of Marriage, & Now I will Lift You UP^ to Our God's Throne of Grace, Healing, Mercy, Forgiveness, Etc. Asking Him to Please Help Your Dearest Sweetest Bestest Oldest Son to Forgive You for NOT!  Being a Most Perfect Example as a Mother, In His Precious Son, Jesus' Name, AMen, AMen, & AMen, AGain, AGain, & AGain, to Say the Least, AnyWay?!*"  
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RE: Forgiveness - 8/7/2008 10:20:18 PM
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cblueiis
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Thank you my dear sister.....you have brought tears to my eyes. I thank you so very much for understanding and not condemning.......God Bless you
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RE: Forgiveness - 8/7/2008 10:43:09 PM
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gowiththeflow
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"*Hey There, My Dearest Sweetest Bestest *Prayer and Praise RePorts* SisterFriend in Our Wonderful Lord & Saviour, Jesus Christ of Earth, Heaven, & Us, CBlueIIS, First of ALL I'll Say that You're Very Welcome, & Then I'll Go On to Say that The Most Difficult Part of It is Forgiving OurSelves, b/c Satan/Old Slew Foot as My Dearest Sweetest Bestest Hubby Calls Him Shoots His Firey Darts InTo Our Heads/Minds Condemning Us Over, & Over, & Over, AGain, & AGain, & AGain, so We just Have to Learn to ReBuke Those Thoughts by Using Our Authority in Our Wonderful Lord & Saviour, Jesus Christ, of Earth, Heaven, & Us, to Say the Least, AnyWay?!*" 
Love Ya, Susan (Psalm 23)
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RE: Forgiveness - 8/7/2008 10:50:36 PM
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love4theLord
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I am praying for you..You are on the right track though, you can just talk to him and now
that he knows you have let the Lord into your life and things are changing for you, just ask
him if he wants to sit down and talk. Tell him that you are a changed person and you love him
very much, ask him if he can forgive you for whatever happened in the past. Tell him you
want to have a better relationship with him and make thing right. But, I am sure he already knows that now....
I am praying for you my friend!
amen
kc
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RE: Forgiveness - 8/7/2008 11:03:51 PM
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OneJohn410
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ORIGINAL: cblueiis
I ask for prayer to be able to know that my son has forgiven me for not being the kind of mom I should have been to him. He is 23.... I was an alcoholic single parent and he being the oldest caught most of the raw deal......Tonight he came to visit with my stepgrandchild and he raised his voice to her. I asked him not to and he said "You did to me....." He silenced me as he is right I did and I was at times abusive to him. I prayed and asked God to show me how to deal with this. My younger child has had a much easier life altho she is his bio sister, she is much younger and by the time she was born I was divorced and beginning to get my life together again. I have asked God to forgive me for my son's not so good early life but how how do I ask my son to forgive me? I cannot change it but it hurts so much. He has missed out on so many of the things my daughter has been privy to. Please help do I ask mmy son for forgiveness as I don't want him to raise his children the way he was raised. He knows I am changed and he knows that I live for God now....Please please pray for me......[
Cblueiis,
I pray peace in you about your past, and courage and sensitivity in approaching your son to talk to him about the past, and if it is all 'water under the bridge' or if there are things he needs to hear from you on, and also things you would like to hear from him on. I'd encourage you to just be strong and courageous. This should help dispell any feelings of doubt you are having, and help you feel you both are on the same page.
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RE: Forgiveness - 8/8/2008 6:42:43 AM
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barbi
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praying for both of you
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RE: Forgiveness - 8/8/2008 8:34:29 AM
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peaceofGod
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Father,
Thank you for the change that you have brought about in the life of cblueiis. Help her to talk with and apologize to her son for past mistakes. May her son be a loving, excellent father who follows your example. Please bring about your peace. Thank you. We thank you and ask this in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
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RE: Forgiveness - 8/8/2008 11:16:12 AM
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Father, I ask that You would heal any hurts that cblueiis's son may have from the past. That You would heal cblueiis's heart and that she would be able to forgive herself as You have forgiven her. Help her to talk with her son, and tell him that she is sorry for the mistakes she mayhave made in the past and help him to have a forgiving heart, if he hasn't already forgiven her. Strengthen the bond and love between this mom and son, and heal all wounds Father. Help this son to be a good dad. The dad that You would have him to be. In Jesus name. Amen
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RE: Forgiveness - 8/8/2008 5:06:34 PM
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gowiththeflow
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"*Hey There, My Dearest Sweetest Bestest *Prayer and Praise RePorts* SisterFriend in Our Wonderful Lord & Saviour, Jesus Christ of Earth, Heaven, & Us, CBlueIIS, I Feel Led by Our God to Ask You if You Think that Your Dearest Sweetest Bestest Oldest Son May Be Holding OnTo Any Anger/BitterNess ABout the Way in Which in the World Wide Web that He was Raised, b/c I Know of Many a Person Who in the World Wide Web have Ruined Their AdultHood just by Blaming Their Dearest Sweetest Bestest Parent's on the Way that They have Turned Out, to Say the Least, AnyWay?!*"
Love Ya, Susan (Psalm 23)
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RE: Forgiveness - 8/9/2008 12:14:34 AM
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love4theLord
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I continue to pray for you and your relationship with your son...
amen
kc
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RE: Forgiveness - 8/9/2008 5:31:13 AM
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I am praying for you and your son.
amen
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RE: Forgiveness - 8/9/2008 5:47:14 AM
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Praying for you and your son...What a wonderful thing you have done to recognize that your son was hurt, you have admitted your failures, and are asking the Lord who heals all hurts to intervene. May God speedily answer your prayers.
Mama used to say, "Let bygones be bygones". You can't change the past, but can have a brighter tomorrow.
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RE: Forgiveness - 9/5/2008 3:46:39 PM
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cblueiis
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I am a bit upset at the moment at fritzadmin in the Marshall debate chat room........we were discussing if it is ok for a christian to "date" be with a non-christian and I was privately pm'd to say this is not an appropriate topic to debate in that room. I was asked to move it to the relationship room. Well, I am not looking for a relationship rahter am wondering about the status of my own.....is it ok for me to be with a non-christian and people were giving me Biblical places to look etc. I then attempted to challenge frtizadmin on this however I was ignored....is this the way Crosswalk does things?? I am asking for prayer for frtizadmin may they understand what the true meaning of a debate is..........
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RE: Forgiveness - 9/5/2008 3:58:00 PM
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PopsiLufsJesus
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the Word says not to be unequally yolked with a non-believer
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RE: Forgiveness - 9/5/2008 10:50:27 PM
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cblueiis
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Thank you I am just now able to read the replies. I will do that.take time in my and his busy schedule to sit down and talk....I do not want it to be painful for him. I know he sees God in me in all that I do and say..........
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RE: Forgiveness - 9/5/2008 11:36:27 PM
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kyl
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Lord I lift up cbluis and her son to you.
I pray Lord that they will find forgiveness for each other.
I pray Lord her son be healed from the pain,abandonment and sorrow they have had in their lives.
Lord only through your love can this healing happen so I lay this before you.
I pray Lord her son will break the cycle of pain and strive to be a good father to his children.
Help him Lord to be a loving,caring and compassionate parent
Lord I pray you will draw him to you and he will grow in your love and guidance.
Lord I pray he will respond to the love his mother has.
I pray he will see you through the changes that have been made in her life.
Bless them Lord and help them to heal completely with your peace and restoration.
In Jesus name
Amen
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RE: Forgiveness - 9/6/2008 12:02:45 AM
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Lord, I too pray for cbluiss and her son. I pray You would bring healing and forgiveness to their relationship. Draw them both closer to You and to each other. I pray You would remove any barriers that would keep them from having that strong relationship that You desire for them.
in Jesus name,
amen
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