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Hurt and cant let go - 9/10/2008 5:50:21 AM
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Polly08
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Hi all, Hope you are well. iam a new member to this forum and hope we will be a good and big family
I have a prayer request.
My husband cheated on me with women he met on date sites to the extend of having a sexual relationship. He asked for forgiveness and i forgave him. the problem is i just dont seem to let go of the pain he caused me. Every time i think of it all i want is revenge, for him to feel the pain as well. i get a strong feeling of hatred towards him, and wish the worst for him.
He is trying hard to make things better in our marriage. i feel like iam hindering all the efforts he is making. I need prayer to be able to let go and foocus on the future, its just so hard for me to do. It is really affecting every aspect of my life. At times i feel i will always be a sad  person and will never have joy again.
I REALLY NEED PRAYERS, IAM CRUMBLING DOWN
God Bless
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RE: Hurt and cant let go - 9/10/2008 6:22:22 AM
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barbi
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will be praying
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RE: Hurt and cant let go - 9/10/2008 6:36:54 AM
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conrack50
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Polly08,
Please don't get the wrong idea but here's the deal:
You might think about giving this entire situation to the Lord. He can fix everything.
Your emotions in my opinion are wasting valuable energy you could be spending with the Lord.
When I was in my 20's I would do the same thing but now that was me, not you.
Everyone deals with things differently than I do. But I wasted so much time and energy
it was making me nuts....not really but I felt like it.
Lord,
We ask that You direct Polly08 to where she needs to be with You.
We ask that You Lord watch over her mind and physical body.
We ask that You give her total healing from the top of her head to the soles of her feet.
We ask that You teach her to forgive, and forget.
We ask that You teach her how to give it to You Lord and leave it there.
We ask this in Jesus Name, amen
Connie Lou
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RE: Hurt and cant let go - 9/10/2008 9:01:48 AM
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sparkleingsnow
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Welcome to the forums Polly08.
Father, I ask that You would bring healing to this marriage. That You would help Polly08 to have a forgiving heart. We know that as we let go of the pain and anger through Your power, that You replace it with such wonderful peace, and Your joy Lord. This is my prayer request for Polly08, that she can let You help her forgive and feel Your joy and peace. Draw both of them closer to each other Lord, and closer to You, and bless them Father. In Jesus name. Amen
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RE: Hurt and cant let go - 9/10/2008 9:12:44 AM
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peaceofGod
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Glad you are on this Forum
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ORIGINAL: sparkleingsnow
Welcome to the forums Polly08.
Father, I ask that You would bring healing to this marriage. That You would help Polly08 to have a forgiving heart. We know that as we let go of the pain and anger through Your power, that You replace it with such wonderful peace, and Your joy Lord. This is my prayer request for Polly08, that she can let You help her forgive and feel Your joy and peace. Draw both of them closer to each other Lord, and closer to You, and bless them Father. In Jesus name. Amen
This is my prayer, too.
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RE: Hurt and cant let go - 9/10/2008 9:26:09 AM
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Theophile2
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Polly08 -
As my dear Sister-in-Christ, I offer that you have no need to hope we can be family ... God is our Father - we are family. 
You may wish to read a post I just entered. The part that is likely most applicable to you is that I didn't hear you say you and your husband received Christian counseling for this situation. If you are dealing with this on your own, I assure you that in giving this over in prayer to God that He can handle all you give Him and visit your marriage in the power of His Holy Spirit - in His good timing. On the other hand, you might consider making sure that you are not trying to do this in your own strength, and calling someone who has the experience to help.
New Life Live (1-800-New-Life ; www.newlife.com )
A prayer for you:
Lord Jesus, we thank you for every new day of your new mercies and new graces. Help Polly08 to see that today is the day that you have made, and help her to rejoice in it. We praise you Lord, for you are our Strong Tower and Fortress of Refuge, and we praise you for the plans that you have for you creation, for you are the Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, and Prince of Peace.
Lord Jesus send your Holy Spirit to rest upon Polly 08 and her husband and give them then mental, physical, emotional, spiritual, and relational strength to persevere in their marriage and keep their relationship with each other strong as they continue to encourage each other in their relationship with you.
Lord Jesus help Polly08 with a spirit of forgiveness, just as you forgave (Jn 8:6-11).
Lord Jesus, help Polly08's husband do all he can in his responsibilities to heal the damage done in his marriage, submit to your leadership and the leadership of a good Bible-believing church, so that he can have the strength to stand by the side of his wife, and be the Christian leader in their marriage that you would have him become.
Lord Jesus, bless Polly08's desire to remain faithful to the covenant she made with you in her relationship with her husband in seeking reconciliation and healing.
We ask these petitions based on the promises of your Holy Word, that they be done in the power of your Holy Spirit, in your good will and timing, and to the Glory of your Kingdom. In Jesus name ... amen.
Blessings to you, Polly08
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RE: Hurt and cant let go - 9/10/2008 12:40:48 PM
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restinginHim
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Polly, welcome sister. I am also praying for you and your husband. May GOD bless you both. Please don't crumble. Our Father in Heaven, in the name of Jesus, please show our sister Polly that You are her rock and her fortress so she need not crumble. For Your name's sake, please lead her and guide her.
Bow down Your ear to me, Deliver me speedily; Be my rock of refuge, A fortress of defense to save me. For You are my rock and my fortress; Therefore, for Your name’s sake, Lead me and guide me. Psalm 31:2-3 From the end of the earth I will cry to You, When my heart is overwhelmed; Lead me to the rock that is higher than I.
Psalm 61:2 He only is my rock and my salvation; He is my defense; I shall not be moved. Psalm 62:6
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RE: Hurt and cant let go - 9/10/2008 2:12:39 PM
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TorchHeart
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Lord God, I come before you as one who knows the pain of betrayal and the damage that comes with an inability to forgive. I humbly pray, therefore, that you will lookd own upon Polly08, her husband, and her marriage.
Lord, please remove the spirit of resentment and hostility that Polly08 is feeling towards her husband, and replace it with a spirit of mercy and objetiveness. Let her see what her husband is doing and witness for herself that he is trying his best to mend their marriage and repair that damage that he has done. Lord God, also, please give her a spirit of forgiveness so that she might be able to put this painful chapter of their marriage in the past. Let her be able to forgive her husband's infidelity, and finally be able to bring some peace to her inner hurting. Please, God, place your hand upon her heart and lend her your healing touch so that all the damage that was done to her in there might be healed, and the love she feels for her husband might be fully revived.
Lord, take Polly08's husband under your loving wing. May his efforts to rectify things in his marriage and restore his devotion to his wife be honest and true. Show him the proper ways to help ease the suffering he has caused her, and allow him to restore her love and trust in him. Bless him with the ability to admit his errors in this matter, and help him to sin in this manner no longer. Place your hedge of protection around his heart so that it might never again stray to another woman for physical love. Remove his any spirit of decite that might remain within him, and replace it with a spirit of devotion to his wife and to you, oh Lord God. May he be able to forgive Polly08 for whatever faults he finds in her, and realize once again the woman whom he loved enough to marry.
Lord, bless the marriage between Polly08 and her husband. Be with them both, and help to strengthen the bonds that were loosened. Bless them both with love and devotion for one another. Allow them to forgive one another and bind them to each other in love, harmony, and your blessed Word. I pray, God, that their ability to forgive each other and restore their marriage will serve as a beacon for others who are in marital stryfe, and show them what faith in you can do to restore damaged hearts and love. Lord, please let this episode in their lives also strengthen them in their respected and mutual walks with you for the rest of their days.
Lord, we all have sinned at one time or another, and we all have hurt one another. However, we are called to forgive each other for these sins just as your Son died upon the cross so that you would forgive our own sins against you. For this reason, I pray with confidence in you that you will aid this couple in their marriage. May Polly08 and her husband be able to forgive and love in this manner as you taught us, no matter how painful the hurt is that they've caused one another. I pray all of this, with humility, trust in you, and a meak spirit, in the holy name of Our Lord, Savior, and Redeemer, Jesus Christ.
Amen.
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RE: Hurt and cant let go - 9/11/2008 7:32:07 AM
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conrack50
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quote:
ORIGINAL: TorchHeart
Lord God, I come before you as one who knows the pain of betrayal and the damage that comes with an inability to forgive. I humbly pray, therefore, that you will look own upon Polly08, her husband, and her marriage.
Lord, please remove the spirit of resentment and hostility that Polly08 is feeling towards her husband, and replace it with a spirit of mercy and objectiveness. Let her see what her husband is doing and witness for herself that he is trying his best to mend their marriage and repair that damage that he has done. Lord God, also, please give her a spirit of forgiveness so that she might be able to put this painful chapter of their marriage in the past. Let her be able to forgive her husband's infidelity, and finally be able to bring some peace to her inner hurting. Please, God, place your hand upon her heart and lend her your healing touch so that all the damage that was done to her in there might be healed, and the love she feels for her husband might be fully revived.
Lord, take Polly08's husband under your loving wing. May his efforts to rectify things in his marriage and restore his devotion to his wife be honest and true. Show him the proper ways to help ease the suffering he has caused her, and allow him to restore her love and trust in him. Bless him with the ability to admit his errors in this matter, and help him to sin in this manner no longer. Place your hedge of protection around his heart so that it might never again stray to another woman for physical love. Remove his any spirit of deceit that might remain within him, and replace it with a spirit of devotion to his wife and to you, oh Lord God. May he be able to forgive Polly08 for whatever faults he finds in her, and realize once again the woman whom he loved enough to marry.
Lord, bless the marriage between Polly08 and her husband. Be with them both, and help to strengthen the bonds that were loosened. Bless them both with love and devotion for one another. Allow them to forgive one another and bind them to each other in love, harmony, and your blessed Word. I pray, God, that their ability to forgive each other and restore their marriage will serve as a beacon for others who are in marital strife, and show them what faith in you can do to restore damaged hearts and love. Lord, please let this episode in their lives also strengthen them in their respected and mutual walks with you for the rest of their days.
Lord, we all have sinned at one time or another, and we all have hurt one another. However, we are called to forgive each other for these sins just as your Son died upon the cross so that you would forgive our own sins against you. For this reason, I pray with confidence in you that you will aid this couple in their marriage. May Polly08 and her husband be able to forgive and love in this manner as you taught us, no matter how painful the hurt is that they've caused one another. I pray all of this, with humility, trust in you, and a meek spirit, in the holy name of Our Lord, Savior, and Redeemer, Jesus Christ.
Amen.
Polly08,
I am also praying in agreement.
In Jesus Name, amen
Connie Lou
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RE: Hurt and cant let go - 9/11/2008 9:10:32 AM
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Polly08
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thanks guys, i feel so much better nowing there are people out there who wants the best for others
thanks you for your prayers
iam begining to let go already, and i believe God is begenning a new thing already.
thank you prayer warriors.
MAY GOD GRANT YOU THE DESIRES OF YOUR HEARTS
will keep yuo updated
God bless
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RE: Hurt and cant let go - 9/11/2008 10:16:24 AM
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restinginHim
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Praise the LORD!!  I will continue to you and your marriage in my prayers.
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RE: Hurt and cant let go - 9/11/2008 10:57:06 AM
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kyl
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Lord I lift up this marriage to you.
I thank you Lord that they are fighting for this union to be healed and restored.
I ask you Lord to help each one to heal from the things which have hurt them.
Work in their lives Lord and help them to come together with forgiveness,compassion and true love.
I pray Lord that you will be in their midst and guide them through this healing process.
May their bond become stronger through your love and healing
Thank You Lord that this marriage is in your hand.
In Jesus name
Amen
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O LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer.
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RE: Hurt and cant let go - 9/18/2008 9:23:37 AM
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Polly08
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Hie guys
Its amazing how God works wonders in our lives. I want to thank you so much for your sincere prayers. You committed my marriage into prayer and God is in the process of healing my pain and hurt. I dont know what or where i wld be now, but iam so grateful to God. Like what the bible says that He will restore what the locusts has eaten, God is restoring my marriage to the original position
I have realised my mistakes as well in this marriage, I was not that prayerful and the devil so a little opening and he got in before we cold even see what was happenning. I now understand the fight we are in because the devil will not rest until he destroys and kills like what he came to do.
I have realised i am not wrestling against flesh and blood but by principalities as well in the heavenly places.
Thank you for your prayers they are making me strong each day. Iam even more prayerful and so hungry for God than ever before.
Lets keep fighting, so that in the end we will say I HAVE FOUGHT A GOOD FIGHT.
Love you all
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RE: Hurt and cant let go - 9/18/2008 10:29:59 AM
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restinginHim
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 That's right! Keep up the good fight, Sister!
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