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My Wife - 10/6/2008 8:20:06 AM
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oloren
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My Wife & I have been going through some bad times. It's been a roller coaster this year i have lost two jobs and finallly found a part time It helpdesk postion which pays great. But my wife something turns on me and call me names like loser i am not a man and starts to cuss alot. And i play right into game and start fussing at her to and yes i do cuss her. We both want to work on things ,but we end back do the same thing over and over again. She said that all her parnets did was to cuss and phsyical fights. Do you guys think she acted out learned behaver what she saw as a kid. Also, she has told me this ,but i believe that she has been sexually abused. I really need your prayers. The other problem is that we have 18 month baby boy in the picture.
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RE: My Wife - 10/6/2008 8:54:19 AM
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sparkleingsnow
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To answer your question, yes I would think that learned behavior places a part in it. Have you thought about christian counseling?
Dear Father, I lift this young family up to You. First Father, please draw theminto a close personal relationship with You. Help them to put You right in the center of they're marriage. Help them to seek Your will in how they should treat each other, and to seek help to get the tools they need to communicate with each other. Protect this young child from learning this behavior or being hurt by it. Please help them and bless them as they seek Your will in they're marriage and they're lifes. In Jesus name. Amen
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RE: My Wife - 10/6/2008 9:05:00 AM
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Spense
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Dear Lord,
We lift up this man and his family. You know the struggles, anger, hurt, and resentment that they are both facing. I ask that you would release these spirits and bring hope where there is hopelessness. Father, I ask that you protect this innocent child in the mist of all of this. Bring inner peace to each of their hearts, and draw them closer to your Spirit. In Jesus name, AMEN
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RE: My Wife - 10/6/2008 10:38:26 AM
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marstacy
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oloren, in our human condition, learned behavior, selfishness, and immaturity seem to rule. What we all must do is ask for God's forgiveness then turn to Him for guidance every step of the way.
Father God, I pray that you will reach down and touch oloren and his wife in a very special way. Help them to see their need for Jesus. Help them to understand what Your will is for their lives. Please Lord, help them to have a deep personal relationship with Jesus so that they can be the right kind of parents for their child. Protect this family and let them feel Your love and grace.
In Jesus Name,
Amen.
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Psalm 51:10
Create in me a clean heart, O God,
And renew a steadfast spirit within me.
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RE: My Wife - 10/6/2008 11:07:38 AM
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restinginHim
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praying in agreement. AMEN
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RE: My Wife - 10/6/2008 12:28:49 PM
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oloren
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Thanks all you your prayers i know God can work this out.
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RE: My Wife - 10/6/2008 4:04:17 PM
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barbi
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praying in agreement with the others
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RE: My Wife - 10/6/2008 4:18:07 PM
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TorchHeart
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Have you thought about christian counseling?
Don't just limit yourself to Christian counseling. ANY kind of counseling is better than none, and I think that this is a case where your wife definately needs some, and probably you as well.
Lord, please be with this marriage. Help oloren's wife to see the hurt she is causing him with her actions. Help her to come to respect her husband and bring her concerns with him up in a more civil and appropriate manner. Show her how much better it is to express her love for him, rather than only be critical of him so that more peace might come to their marriage.
Lord, also help oloren so that he might not be drawn into fights with his wife so easily. Give him a spirit of patience and restraint during these kinds of situations and show both him and his wife the proper ways to show love to one another.
Above all, God, help both of these people so that their marriage might become one of peace and harmony. Let their son be shown by both of them an example of what a loving marriage between two people who follow you is truly about. May they both put their differences aside for him, and seek help to keep their marriage happy and solid. And may they both shower this young boy with affection and love for the rest of their lives. I pray for all of this, with humility and confidence, in the name of Jesus Christ, Our Risen Lord.
Amen.
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RE: My Wife - 10/6/2008 8:11:20 PM
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feliciacyt
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Lord, please be with this marriage. Help oloren's wife to see the hurt she is causing him with her actions. Help her to come to respect her husband and bring her concerns with him up in a more civil and appropriate manner. Show her how much better it is to express her love for him, rather than only be critical of him so that more peace might come to their marriage.
Lord, also help oloren so that he might not be drawn into fights with his wife so easily. Give him a spirit of patience and restraint during these kinds of situations and show both him and his wife the proper ways to show love to one another.
Above all, God, help both of these people so that their marriage might become one of peace and harmony. Let their son be shown by both of them an example of what a loving marriage between two people who follow you is truly about. May they both put their differences aside for him, and seek help to keep their marriage happy and solid. And may they both shower this young boy with affection and love for the rest of their lives. I pray for all of this, with humility and confidence, in the name of Jesus Christ, Our Risen Lord.
Amen.
In agreement with the above prayer. AMEN!
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RE: My Wife - 10/7/2008 8:56:30 AM
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peaceofGod
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Father,
Thank you that we can come to you for this marriage. Please bless oloren and his wife with your peace. Draw them both into a beautiful relationship you and with each other. We ask that you goodness prevails. May they both participate with you in spreading your love. We pray for them in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
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