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What kind of woman do you want?
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 10/1/2007 2:35:07 AM
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broyce1981
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OK, I'll start. For me, the qualities I look for in a girlfriend are the same ones I would look for in a wife. Appearance matters, but is not a high priority with me. All I ask is that my wife makes some kind of effort to look good. Personality wise, I have always preferred introverts as I am one myself. Being with someone really outgoing seems kind of scary to me and would likely become frustrating for me. I'm also a big soccer fan, so if my wife had any interest in the sport I'd be thrilled. Really though, as long as she can remember the name of my favorite team and occasionally ask how they're doing I'd be quite satisfied. Also, there are a couple things which would be intimidating to me. Like, I wouldn't want someone a lot taller or smarter than me. All in all, I really just want to find someone who can understand me and allows me to be me.
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 10/1/2007 10:22:19 AM
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ik3900
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Looks are enough to get me interested. It's the personality I fall for though.
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 10/1/2007 3:05:21 PM
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figmentPez
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I want someone I'm attracted to, physically. That doesn't mean she has to impress the rest of the world, but I do want someone who I like to look at. That's such a broad category, though. There is a lot of variety to what I find attractive in women.
Intelligence is also important, however more important is that she views herself as capable. I'm pretty smart myself, and people who don't think of themselves as smart sometimes feel intimidated by me. I want a woman who feels confident in conversation with me.
I'm not a sports fan, but I would like a girl who is athletic in some way. Right now my health is bad, and I'm not dating, but it's killing me that I can't be more physically active. If I'm healthy enough to be dating and marrying, then I'm likely going to be back to enjoying being physically active. I think I'd want a wife who would share that with me. However, there are a lot of degrees and types of physical activity. In the end I'd settle for a woman who cares about her health and takes care of her body and mind.
Introvert or Extrovert? Hmm, I've known too many people who cross those lines I'm not sure which to say. I'm a very personable person, who gets along with almost everyone, but I also don't crave crowds and need a certain amount of alone-time. How a girl interacts with me is far more important than how she acts at parties.
I'm out of time to say more.
However, what trumps all of that is faith. I want a girl who is following Jesus Christ with all her heart, and not just following some religious feeling or some spiritual high. I want a girl who is as passionate about proper teaching and learning about God as I am.
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 10/1/2007 6:46:13 PM
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buckifn
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You left off the most important quality of all to me...a woman that loves God, and seeks Him first daily in her own life, as well as in our relationship.
Everything else is secondary to that for me.
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 10/1/2007 7:13:15 PM
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Konstantinos
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Do you want a pretty girl? Are looks really important to you?
why would i prefer an ugly girl? hahaha so yes a pretty one. im gonna spend the rest of my life with her and sexual attraction and what comes from it is whats the practical difference between marriage and not married.
Do you want an honest girl (surely you do!)?
of course, im definitely not one to prefer being lied to so that i dont get hurt. i get hurt more that way anyway haha
Do you want a clever or smart girl? Or would you rather have 'another dumb blonde'?
being clever myself i'd get tired very fast of the dumb blonde. plus i dont prefer blondes anyway
Do you want to be with an outgoing girl? Or would you rather be with an introvert?
either will do, i'd say sometwhere in the middle. i guess not shy and being able to trust me to tell me ANYTHING and to actually do tell me anything cause thats fun and bla bla. is what i'd want
Do you want a sweet, quiet girl? Or do you want a loud girl who will happily speak her mind when she wants?
sweet loud girl ;) haha
Do you want a creative girl?
eh i dont care much for that
A sports fan? Or athlete?
dont care much for that either, but i'd prefer her to care about her health
Do you want a skinny/slim, average, or a girl with 'a little more to love' ?
average i guess
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 10/1/2007 8:28:33 PM
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Pauley464
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I want:
A woman who is as attracted to me as I am to her.
A woman who is as committed to a genuine and growing relationship with God as I am.
A woman who is intelligent and not ashamed to show her capabilities.
A woman who loves children and animals.
A woman who is friendly and out going.
A woman who loves me enough to tolerate my shortcomings and motivates me to grow.
A woman who accepts me the way I am and won't try to turn me into her vision of what I ought to be.
A woman who will accept what I say the way I say it and not infer meanings that were not implied.
A woman who respects me
A woman who is honest
A woman who trusts me
A genuinely compassionate woman
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 3/13/2008 3:17:15 PM
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Lion_Judah7
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Girlfriend or Wife ought to be the same, although it's very interesting when one marries one's other partner well one seems to marry someone who will resemble one or the other of parents similar characteristics in one's mate, such as mom or pop, you know (smiling).
Seeing it from out the box, like looking at my kid brother and his life partner (she) has quite a few similarities such as mom is=strong woman, awesome with mathematics, business minded, fast to put on a simple make-up in a rush and out the door (yet looking pretty only when need be (smiling) likes good dress but normally dresses in specific occassions when need be and to him she does marathons and great into sports just as him.
Then there is my kid sister and her life partner, he is strong in character, quiet yet easy to approach with wisdom when it's the proper moment to speak it and has the ability to make his wife happy in little and in the great=emotionally and doing things in the house of course (gentle giant with a good heart).
One man and one woman great with character and great heart felt understanding (hopefully this is making sense to ya'll). I'm speaking by each who have joined our family yet each brings in a glimpse of who each of our parents characteristics with them already.
Front and center with my own craving: "Average built" because there really is no perfection once one passes 35 (I'm 10 lbs over my limit now, smiling) unless one is in training every day of one's week that is. Strong in character=knows herself in reflection to how God sees her. Although I favor for long black hair and blue eyes or black/blond hair with blue eyes/green and brown or amber yellowish color like the sun. Yet in reality it does not really matter what is important is someone who loves Jesus as much or loves Him greater than myself, then I will know that I know it will really stick to working furr-surrre (smiling positively). Height doesn't matter shorter than me or even taller as long as she loves Jesus as I do and those specs or freckles of uncertainty/insecurity she is able to see beyond what other say, but intestead she is able to see what God sees and what I will see in her through what the Holy Spirit will bless me to see!
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I simply enjoy the pretty tom-boyish type that can get there blue jeans scoffed up in dirt or don't mind getting sweatie in out doorzy kinda stuff...you know. If a little more than average as long as it does not disturb her health and is able to enjoy a challenge in hiking or out doors or is able to break the norm in an every week doing something fun outside the couch. Hopefully she loves dogs and taking them for a run or a drive some where where we can all enjoy a memorable outting. And if she has cats as long as her cats are able to make friends with the dog(s) this will make us very happy.
She can be seven years younger than myself or five years older this is my hopes anyway. Oh yeah someone who also enjoys the country as one who also enjoys the beach. someone who can enjoy growing flowers or trees that will one day grow fruit to enjoy our many tomorrows side by side.
My maturity has grown a little more, since now a days I can finally stand to hear all Christian music and I'm able to see beauty in all people of all of God's flavors He has created. God has chosen each one of us with a certain responsibility as to why He chose our souls to be wearing this outter shell that people put so much visual discrimination upon it...you know?! Anyway I've been a Rocker N Roller to Heavy Metal=All within Christian driven lyrics but I've recently matured to handle Rap and all other, all because Christ is Whom it's being sponsored thru it, so I'd say I'm 70% into Rock + 20% Country and 10% Rap all heard on the Christian Station in one of the TBN sponsored programs (most likely I provably can't put it on this site).
That is all for now! Have a blessed Month in Jesus!
Johnny and the Lion of Judah, which I still serve today. Later!
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 3/13/2008 7:43:07 PM
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I have no idea what kind of woman I want. It's not that important for me to know because what I want changes daily. But if I was to say, I'm looking for a woman who fascinates me, stirs up passion within me, and attracts me.
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 3/16/2008 10:25:31 AM
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TomTurn
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"What kind of woman do you want?"
One different than most of the ones I see in my life (-:
The guestion is just too broad for me to answer in an understandable way
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 3/17/2008 5:01:51 AM
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DreadPirateRandy
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I pretty much agree with Tom about articulating a definitive answer to such a massive question. In the end, I want who God specifically has for me. She would be everything that I couldn't do without.
But regardless, I'll go down the list:
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Do you want a pretty girl? Are looks really important to you?
Looks are always important to the individual, despite what anyone might say. I don't think you'd be as drawn to Ugly Betty as you would someone opposite of that. As someone already mentioned, you're spending your entire life with this person. If physical attraction isn't there, then that could make certain things less enjoyable.
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Do you want an honest girl (surely you do!)?
Absolutely. Except when I keep beating her in video games and she uses the excuse that she let me win. 
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Do you want a clever or smart girl? Or would you rather have 'another dumb blonde'?
That's why I have my smartical brunette. 
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Do you want to be with an outgoing girl? Or would you rather be with an introvert?
Outgoing as in crazy, fun, and entirely enjoyable to be around every moment of your life. Not so much outgoing as in overfriendly with people, especially other dudes.
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Do you want a sweet, quiet girl? Or do you want a loud girl who will happily speak her mind when she wants?
Sweet girl who would always have the need to tell me anything that's bothering her. No loudness plz. I loathe being yelled at.
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Do you want a creative girl?
Mhm!
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A sports fan? Or athlete?
She doesn't have to run a marathon in order to impress me. As long as she can be by my side and help me yell at the ref's for calling stupid decisions, and of course, make fun of them in the process.
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Do you want a skinny/slim, average, or a girl with 'a little more to love' ?
Broomstick skinny is yuck. 'A little more to love' is also highly gross and unattractive. I'll take average plz.
and I'm beyond blessed to have someone that God specifically made to not only fit my needs, but moreso what He knew I needed.
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 3/17/2008 5:57:12 PM
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BabyBray
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Coolness~ Thanks for all your comments guys! =)
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 3/17/2008 11:49:26 PM
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vikingfan
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What I want in a girlfriend and a wife are the same. If I don't see her as wife material, why would I want to date her? Obviously, she must be a Christian and must have the desire to constantly grow in Christ. Without that, nothing else matters. On to the questions...
Do you want a pretty girl? Are looks really important to you? yes, I want a girl who is pretty, but she doesn't need to be pretty to the rest of the world, just to me. Looks are a nice bonus, but I find many different ladies attractive, so it's what lies beneath that decides whether I'm truly interested in her.
Do you want an honest girl (surely you do!)? Of course. If I can't trust her with anything, I don't want to share my secrets with her, and that's what marriage is all about.
Do you want a clever or smart girl? Or would you rather have 'another dumb blonde'? Clever. I want a girl who I can talk about deep issues with and connect with, not a doormat.
Do you want to be with an outgoing girl? Or would you rather be with an introvert? Mix of the two, just like me. Someone who can be both at different times.
Do you want a sweet, quiet girl? Or do you want a loud girl who will happily speak her mind when she wants? Mix of the two...all of one or all of the other are not necessarily good, but some of both is!
Do you want a creative girl? Yes. I want to see what she is able to do with different things.
A sports fan? Or athlete? NFL fan is all...I don't really follow anything else, and she doesn't have to follow it if she doesn't want to. athlete is good, that way, I can do fun stuff with her and the family and other friends and she won't feel out of place.
Do you want a skinny/slim, average, or a girl with 'a little more to love'? Average...skinny just for the sake of being skinny isn't healthy, but neither is being 50 pounds overweight.
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 3/24/2008 10:47:44 PM
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I would look for the same things in both a GF and wife.
Do you want a pretty girl? Are looks really important to you? Pretty girl to me idc what other people think.
Do you want an honest girl (surely you do!)? Yes
Do you want a clever or smart girl? Or would you rather have 'another dumb blonde'? Smart (my favorite shirt CSI=cant stand idoits)
Do you want to be with an outgoing girl? Or would you rather be with an introvert? In the middle.
Do you want a sweet, quiet girl? Or do you want a loud girl who will happily speak her mind when she wants? sweet and quiet.
Do you want a creative girl? yes
A sports fan? Or athlete? As long as they understand what ill be doing during OU games on saturdays im fine, someone who understands the game would be nice too.
Do you want a skinny/slim, average, or a girl with 'a little more to love' ? hmm between slim and average.
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 3/27/2008 2:20:05 PM
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ORIGINAL: Pauley464
I want:
A woman who is as attracted to me as I am to her.
A woman who is as committed to a genuine and growing relationship with God as I am.
A woman who is intelligent and not ashamed to show her capabilities.
A woman who loves children and animals.
A woman who is friendly and out going.
A woman who loves me enough to tolerate my shortcomings and motivates me to grow.
A woman who accepts me the way I am and won't try to turn me into her vision of what I ought to be.
A woman who will accept what I say the way I say it and not infer meanings that were not implied.
A woman who respects me
A woman who is honest
A woman who trusts me
A genuinely compassionate woman
Are you serious??
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 3/28/2008 1:10:16 PM
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BlueGuy07
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Well the kind that I want is the kind I have.
Do you want a pretty girl? My wife is Beautiful!
Are looks really important to you? Not so much... I guess I got luckey!
Do you want an honest girl (surely you do!)? It Is a MUST (and she is)
Do you want a clever or smart girl? My wife has her BSN. But sometimes I wonder how she got it. LOL!
Would you rather have 'another dumb blonde'? NO!Do you want to be with an outgoing girl? Would you rather be with an introvert? She is dynamic, she knows when to be outgoing and when to be a wallflower.
Do you want a sweet, quiet girl? Sweet, you catch more flies with honey.
Or do you want a loud girl who will happily speak her mind when she wants? No, any person man or woman needs to use self control.
Do you want a creative girl? Yes, creativity and imagination aid in comunication and keep things fun and interesting.
A sports fan? Only if it makes her happy.
Or athlete? For health reasons at least active.
Do you want a skinny/slim, average, or a girl with 'a little more to love' ? My wife is 5'4" and 110lbs. I think she was perfect when she was 150 lbs and ready to give birth, just as I think she is perfect now.
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 3/29/2008 11:43:34 AM
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Pauley464
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quote:
ORIGINAL: realist_man
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ORIGINAL: Pauley464
I want:
A woman who is as attracted to me as I am to her.
A woman who is as committed to a genuine and growing relationship with God as I am.
A woman who is intelligent and not ashamed to show her capabilities.
A woman who loves children and animals.
A woman who is friendly and out going.
A woman who loves me enough to tolerate my shortcomings and motivates me to grow.
A woman who accepts me the way I am and won't try to turn me into her vision of what I ought to be.
A woman who will accept what I say the way I say it and not infer meanings that were not implied.
A woman who respects me
A woman who is honest
A woman who trusts me
A genuinely compassionate woman
Are you serious??
Yes I am. What's wrong with what I listed? I want specifics and the reasons why you think I'm wrong.
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 3/29/2008 12:36:03 PM
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realist_man
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quote:
ORIGINAL: Pauley464
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ORIGINAL: realist_man
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ORIGINAL: Pauley464
I want:
A woman who is as attracted to me as I am to her.
A woman who is as committed to a genuine and growing relationship with God as I am.
A woman who is intelligent and not ashamed to show her capabilities.
A woman who loves children and animals.
A woman who is friendly and out going.
A woman who loves me enough to tolerate my shortcomings and motivates me to grow.
A woman who accepts me the way I am and won't try to turn me into her vision of what I ought to be.
A woman who will accept what I say the way I say it and not infer meanings that were not implied.
A woman who respects me
A woman who is honest
A woman who trusts me
A genuinely compassionate woman
Are you serious??
Yes I am. What's wrong with what I listed? I want specifics and the reasons why you think I'm wrong.
I apologize for my tone. After 20 years of marriage I've grown too cynical. I hope you find what you're looking for. I think you're being a bit unrealistic, though.
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 3/30/2008 7:22:27 PM
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dinomax55
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a) Physical attraction is important, but not the end-all-be-all.. I don't think it's too much to ask for her to be in decent shape, and a have a good sense of style.. I keep myself in shape, and I would hope she would appreciate that..
b) Honesty and strength of character are the two most important personality traits to me. Of course, she should expect the same out of me!
c) I like intelligence and sarcastic humor in a gal- she should be able to hold a conversation, make a witty observation or two, and not take herself too seriously.
d) I'd take an outgoing girl over an introvert any day. Someone who's not afraid to network, who is good at bringing people together.
e) Since I said I appreciate an extrovert, I will opt for a bold girl..
f) A creative girl is nice.. 'outside the box' is a good thing.
e) I'll take a sports fan and athlete, but I know those are rare, so I'm flexible on this one.. but have some energy! I'm not attracted to the sedentary lifestyle.
f) I like 'em more on the slim side (see answers a and e).
g) I would like to add that she should be compassionate, and it would be cool if she enjoys studying Scripture.. someone who enjoys discussing Sunday's sermon on a Thursday!
But is this too much to ask?
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 6/13/2008 2:27:25 PM
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BabyBray
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Wow! Well.... I have to admit that a lot of girls and women are very picky about the type of guys/men they desire and have certain expectations as well. This is very interesting and good to know. =) Thanks for all your answers and/or comments!
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RE: What kind of woman do you want? - 6/13/2008 2:55:42 PM
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