|
Users viewing this topic:
none
|
|
Login  | |
|
RE: Wedding Bells are ringing at Kimberly's Bistro <3 - 2/10/2008 12:27:36 AM
|
|
|
Kath
Posts: 17141
Joined: 2/28/2005
Status: offline
|
{{{MRS KIMMY}}} good to see you back! I can't wait to see all of your pictures and any stories you wish to share. 
quote:
I suggested a PO box to her yesterday...it was a no go for her Too inconvenient for her to change her address more than once.
That comes under the category of "too bad" (said in my best Judge Judy voice) she has known for months and months.
I'm mean, but after a week I'd start writing "not at this address" on the envelopes. Let her pick it up at the PO.
quote:
I also got irked when I found out that at my wedding when people were doing the normal social thing of chatting and asking how they knew us, Marcia was telling people she was my roommate and that I was forcing her to move, and that she had no place to go yet. Arrgghhh.
I know you are trying to be nice, but she really sounds like a piece of work. 
quote:
Between the anger, the guilt, the exasperation, the impatience and feeling manipulated, I've been through an emotional wringer. And that doesn't count having a new husband who's moved into the house, that adjustment, and the house being a complete mess. It hasn't been the best week, to be honest.
{{{Hugs}}}
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Wedding Bells are ringing at Kimberly's Bistro <3 - 2/10/2008 12:33:21 PM
|
|
|
cherish405
Posts: 32454
Joined: 4/11/2005
From: The Land Down Under
Status: online
|
Hi Mrs Kimmie! Welcome back.
Sorry to hear you're having so many problems with Marcia.
_____________________________
*** Gone crazy. Back soon. ***
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Wedding Bells are ringing at Kimberly's Bistro <3 - 2/11/2008 4:54:00 PM
|
|
|
awed
Posts: 9486
Joined: 4/8/2005
From: Wisconsin
Status: offline
|
Praying about the Marcia situation. Praying for you and Andrew, and praying for Marcia.
I agree with the boundary thing. If you are going to allow another month right now, okay, but Marcia should know that there will be no extension beyond that.
I also agree with you Kimberly that Marcia probably isn't "seeing" how unreasonable and manipulative her behavior is.
You have been a wonderful friend to her. And like someone else said...far more patient than I would have been I think.
_____________________________
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Wedding Bells are ringing at Kimberly's Bistro <3 - 2/11/2008 5:18:22 PM
|
|
|
laura...
Posts: 2855
Joined: 3/1/2005
From: NE Ohio
Status: offline
|
quote:
suggested a PO box to her yesterday...it was a no go for her Too inconvenient for her to change her address more than once. I did suggest a temporary forward to her sister's house where she's staying, but that was rejected as well. I don't like to offer her suggestions anymore. They almost always get turned down, and I get told why the particular suggestion won't work for her. It's easier for me to just put up with this for a month or so and not give her a chance to unload on me.
She is displaying passive aggressive behavior. I'm with Kath. Tell her to stop at the Post Office and file a change of address. It isn't that hard. She could even just have them hold her mail for her to pick up until she gets a new address. Normally, I would say it's no big deal to just hold someone's mail for them for a while but she's using this as an opportunity to punish you with her tears and dispair.
quote:
Manipulated is exactly how I feel, but I do believe she's not doing it on purpose, that it's just become automatic and without thought for her.
Nah. She's doing it on purpose. Just like she purposely told people at the wedding that you were kicking her out. Fortunately, she didn't speak to Phil or I and say that. &:)
_____________________________
This is what the Lord says: “Stop at the crossroads and look around. Ask for the old, godly way, and walk in it. Travel its path, and you will find rest for your souls. But you reply, ‘No, that’s not the road we want!’ Jer 6:16
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Wedding Bells are ringing at Kimberly's Bistro <3 - 2/12/2008 9:22:51 AM
|
|
|
laura...
Posts: 2855
Joined: 3/1/2005
From: NE Ohio
Status: offline
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: Kath
quote:
Fortunately, she didn't speak to Phil or I and say that. &:)
Actually it's too bad, because I think you might have set her straight, in a nice way of course. :) I like that about you.
I probably would have told her how I had to kick my niece out when Phil and I married. LOL!!
_____________________________
This is what the Lord says: “Stop at the crossroads and look around. Ask for the old, godly way, and walk in it. Travel its path, and you will find rest for your souls. But you reply, ‘No, that’s not the road we want!’ Jer 6:16
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Wedding Bells are ringing at Kimberly's Bistro <3 - 2/12/2008 11:24:07 AM
|
|
|
noblesinger
Posts: 880
Joined: 4/11/2005
From: "Almost Heaven"
Status: offline
|
Welcome back,
Andrew & Kimmie!
I can't believe Marcia was saying something like that! What was she expecting? That the 3 of you would be imitating Jack, Janet, & Chrissy? Gimme an everlovin' break!!  She sounds an awful lot like my neice.
Mary's oldest biological sister has a daughter who is bipolar and schizophrenic - when it suits her. Personally, I think that she enjoys the attention she gets when she hears voices or sees things that aren't really in the room. A number of people have prayed for her healing, including some deliverance ministry, but to no avail. I've told her how she can help herself when these things occur by giving her Scripture to quote and things to say to the voices. A lot of times she claims that the voices just keep saying her name over and over again. I've told her to say, "That's my name - don't wear it out! And be gone in Jesus' Name!" But she keeps ignoring my advice! SHEEESH! What'migonnadowidher?!? Anyone got an idea?
Duane
_____________________________
"...the worth and excellency of a soul is to be measured by the object of its love." - Henry Scougal, The Life of God in the Soul of Man
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Wedding Bells are ringing at Kimberly's Bistro <3 - 2/13/2008 9:22:02 AM
|
|
|
noblesinger
Posts: 880
Joined: 4/11/2005
From: "Almost Heaven"
Status: offline
|
I know whereof you speak, Darcy. I've had some of the same sort of rotten thoughts (all in jest) about my b-i-l's new wife. She is never, in mine and Mary's eyes, going to be our s-i-l. Only an outside interloper who is very much unwanted. Well, let me clarify that "never" statement: as long as she remains unrepentant about her past actions, it'll be never. If the day come when she admits to her wrongdoings and and honestly asks for our forgiveness, then Mary and I have no choice to forgive her. Bur it'll take a long time for her to earn our trust back - a very lo-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-ng time. In the meantime, his ex-wife, the mother of their only son, will be our s-i-l. The current one? She's known as " the Bimbo."
Duane
_____________________________
"...the worth and excellency of a soul is to be measured by the object of its love." - Henry Scougal, The Life of God in the Soul of Man
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Wedding Bells are ringing at Kimberly's Bistro <3 - 2/14/2008 11:27:18 AM
|
|
|
cherish405
Posts: 32454
Joined: 4/11/2005
From: The Land Down Under
Status: online
|
Happy Valentines Day!
_____________________________
*** Gone crazy. Back soon. ***
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Wedding Bells are ringing at Kimberly's Bistro <3 - 2/14/2008 5:57:04 PM
|
|
|
Kath
Posts: 17141
Joined: 2/28/2005
Status: offline
|
quote:
Aww fiddle . . . it only shows up as Times New Roman for me.
Do you see either one? Catherine used a really pretty font, and so did I.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Wedding Bells are ringing at Kimberly's Bistro <3 - 2/15/2008 11:38:53 AM
|
|
|
cherish405
Posts: 32454
Joined: 4/11/2005
From: The Land Down Under
Status: online
|
Hope it was a good day for you.
_____________________________
*** Gone crazy. Back soon. ***
|
|
|
|
|
RE: Wedding Bells are ringing at Kimberly's Bistro <3 - 2/15/2008 6:37:32 PM
|
|
|
karlie
Posts: 16957
Joined: 4/10/2005
From: Central California
Status: offline
|
"Marsha, Marsha, Marsha! That's all everyone ever talks about!"
sorry, I couldn't resist...flash back to the Brady Bunch!
_____________________________
1 day of coal...364 days of fun. I'll take my chances!
|
|
|
|
 New Messages |
 No New Messages |
 Hot Topic w/ New Messages |
 Hot Topic w/o New Messages |
 Locked w/ New Messages |
 Locked w/o New Messages |
|
 Post New Thread
Reply to Message
Post New Poll
Submit Vote
Delete My Own Post
Delete My Own Thread
Rate Posts |
|
|
Forum Tools
Printable Version
(grrrrr) 
Happy Valentine's Day to the Newlyweds! 
Proud Army Sister 
