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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 10/15/2006 4:43:07 PM
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redcarpet
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Im here! come get me!
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 10/15/2006 8:29:18 PM
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Sc1t0r
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ORIGINAL: agapemami
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I am not going to stop until this matter is finished.
sc1t0r, you cant leave the singles forum ever. What would we do? Its too much to go back and forth to the marriage forum!
I hope all is super! and that youve found a love approved by God. Still praying for ya! woohoo!
Hehe, thanks.
:) All is super for sure. :)
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 10/15/2006 11:07:29 PM
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redcarpet
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This is to someone who could possibly be the one, but i wont get carried away. Ill call him crush #2:
I think I found you tonight! Maybe. dear husband: Yes, Im getting carried away, its my nature! thats what I do!
I spent 1.5 years in turmoil, being brutally rejected, yet loving unconditionally crush #1. and tonight, dear husband, God showed me that Crush #1 will never be my husband. I loved crush #1 unconditionally and because of that I thought he should be my prize! God should give him to me. Ive been sick over this love! Its got to be him! Why would God allow me to endure such unrequited love? Love him unconditonally and have him not be it! Well, dear husband! I got my answer tonight: I am to love all man unconditionally, regardless of how I am rejected or made to suffer by them.
I was saving all the unconditional love for one human being. Surely there is enough to go around -I am of God and God is love. My love shouldnt have any boundaries!
and so I call you crush #2 dear husband. ... I mean if you are to be my husband. Anyway, tonight while I got this new revelation about crush #1, I thought of you. I said you know, that guy...hes so pleasant. Please God, let me just see him tonight. Not for anything, Id just like to see him. I enjoy his presence so much. Ive had a bad week, just let me see this person. God answered my prayer tonight and i saw you. and you invited me out!
Just last week, I was thinking...dear God. Crush #2 is the perfect one for me. and I said no matter how much it would hurt, Id let go of crush #1 right now. crush #2 is a much better fit -if you were to ever put it in his heart to love me. and i know hes read "barbarian way" and understands fully that path! (my last request from one letter I wrote in here).
So, crush #2, dear husband: I already know how to love unconditionally, so I already love you! Its a generic love. not yet specific to you as a husband. how much more delicious will our love be when it becomes less generic, specific, intimate and precisely just for you.
Im in no rush. We will have eternity.
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 10/15/2006 11:31:26 PM
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Hon, I'm hungry!
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 10/16/2006 3:10:04 AM
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fub.pasha
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I would like to say this to my future wife . .. . . . . good luck.. .. i will pray for u without ceasing, because anyone who is going to marry me. . . . . needs the patience of a rock, the love of a saint, and the perseverance of a pitbull 
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 10/16/2006 1:50:21 PM
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jeuill
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Fix my dinner woman and run my bath water!!! Just kidding. 
Here's something I wrote last year to my future wife (whoever that may be.)
"The mercy and grace of God has overtaken me as I witness my enduring journey of solitude come to an end. The Lord of my life has spoken to me a word of deliverance through you, his beautiful child. He has shown His love through you and my soul rejoices as the joy of the Lord rushes in and takes hold of me. This is a love that has God's fingerprints all over it. Only He could orchestrate something so pure, true, and strong. The blessings of the Lord makes one rich, and He adds no sorrow with it. There is no sorrow with you. I feel like the richest man in the world.
The Lord has blessed me many times over, for you are very beautiful to me. Your eyes pierce my soul and spark the flames that burn within. Your smile warms my heart and lets me know that you are happy and secure. Your body is lovely to behold. A body that the Lord has fashioned just for me. Your heart is molded from the love of God. Your mind contains a portion of His wisdom. Your soul is like gold refined in the Refiner's fire. You are as precious as the sapphire and the jasper. You are more precious than the onyx and the ruby. Your worth is more than all the most precious diamonds found in the deepest caves of Africa. I praise the Lord for you. I am not worthy of this blessing He has given me. But I thank God that He does not bless us according to our works, but according to His good pleasure. It is through His righteousness, and not my own, that I qualify to receive your love.
With your love I pledge to love you as Christ loves the church. May I always see you through His eyes. May my compassion be a comfort to you always. May I teach you those things that the Lord has given me wisdom to teach. May He bless me with the ability to provide for you all the days of your life. For the Lord owns the cattle on a thousand hills, therefore His resources are adequate enough for us. I shall heal you with the love and care granted to me by the Holy Spirit when you have been hurt. Never shall there be a time when your words are not important to me. As the Lord listens when we call upon His name, so shall I listen when you call my name. May God grant me the ability to bless you as He blesses me. May I strive to bring you joy and peace as the Lord desires to give us all. I shall be faithful and love you always never forsaking you. For the Lord loved us from the very beginning and has never left us nor forsaken us. I pray the Lord's strength to endure the storms that come our way and may He provide protection through me for you in times of trouble and distress. All I have is yours as the Lord has blessed His children with all He has. I shall fight your battles through Christ so that you won't have to. I will give you rest and peace under the respect of my good name that God has given me grace to earn. May I have a portion of God's love for me, so that I can love you the way you deserve to be loved. Those times when I do make mistakes, I shall repent to you and the Lord and the forgiveness of you and He shall embrace my heart so that I will strive not to make the same mistake again. It is my desire that I never hurt you. But when I do hurt you, I have hurt myself and will feel the same pain because you are part of me. I am not perfect, but I know that god's strength will be made perfect in my weaknesses. Therefore we both shall overcome. To you I give my all even to the point of death, for the Lord died for me. He sacrificed His life for me, so my life shall be a sacrifice for you. My love is unconditional and reaches from the depths of my soul to the very throne of God. For He hears my prayers of thanks and praise for the precious gift of you. I love you today and forever my love, my heart, my soul."
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 10/16/2006 4:39:38 PM
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2Happy4words
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Dearest~
I need a hug!! I have so much I want to say to you today.
Wish you were here!!
Love~
Your Sweetpea
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 11/7/2006 9:19:58 AM
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AlwaysR8chel
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........ Dear Sweets,
Let go of the what if's and trust God. Walk forward in faith and claim the wonderful promises God has for you....
In the meantime.... I will stand and wait.
Love always,
Rachel
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 11/12/2006 3:17:36 PM
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Sc1t0r
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ORIGINAL: brideoffire
WE MISS YOU KEVIN!!! This place ain't the same! 
:) Thanks. Just happened to check up on this thread. :D
Well, I will tell you all that things are going great. There are so many things I could share that'd knock your socks off about her and I and signs we've seen.
I've had dreams of her children all grown up. Her daughter tells me she loves me, her son tells his mom he wants me to be a part of thier family (and he's two years old!) I've had prophetic words given to me from a few of her church members that told me things I've had happen to me that no one could have ever concieved without God. The Pentecostal, Charasmatic, Prophetic things are things I've never experienced first hand before. It was amazing! I've had customers and co-workers bless me and tell me to get down there (to where Jennifer lives) after mentioning a little bit about her and our relationship.
If it weren't for all of that, I'd still have reason to want to continue pursuing her. Jennifer has the most amazing heart. Once she let me see it, there was no way I could avoid wanting to commit to her right away. We have a relationship based on alot of communication. That's important to us. To keep our hearts open and flowing towards each other. I've learned from mine and other people's relationships that communication is paramount, I want to keep that deep level of understanding going! I love and respect her and our relationship. I admit faults, failures, weaknesses.. she brings me to see things within me I had no idea I had. I want to be a big blessing to her and her little ones... In fact that's my current main prayer.I love her very much. Her children are blessings, encouragers, real joys.
The normal fears that I'd cling to in the past are over and done with. I can really see how God has prepared my heart for her... Against all odds and old ways of thinking, I fully put my trust in God that He will deliver, and "bless me immensely" as He's been telling me for half a year...
I will not rest until this matter is finished! :)
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 11/13/2006 1:40:51 PM
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princessreba
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God bless you, Kevin!!!! I pray all goes well for you and Jennifer!
Shalom,
Rebecca
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 11/13/2006 7:32:51 PM
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Resonance
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Honey,
Feel like a cookie?
Love,
Your Sweetie
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 11/13/2006 9:38:54 PM
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quirkydaughterofGod
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how sweet is this --swoon indeed-- what a blessed wife she will be!
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 11/14/2006 9:02:18 AM
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AlwaysR8chel
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ORIGINAL: Instigator
Honey,
Feel like a cookie?
Love,
Your Sweetie
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......... Excellent!!!!!
I was thinkin' more like chicken gizzards!!!! 
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 11/15/2006 9:42:53 PM
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Eagle4Christ
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ORIGINAL: Instigator
Honey,
Feel like a cookie?
Love,
Your Sweetie
Sweetie:
Need you even ask? Oatmeal, please!
Love,
Your Honey
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 11/16/2006 7:44:20 PM
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Happieruth
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Wow I am amazed at these heartfelt letters. I don't even where to start to let my future husband know. But he is going to be an amazing man. He has to be because God has had me wait so long to meet him.
Barb
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