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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/10/2006 5:15:30 PM
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Sc1t0r
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What, if God gave you the chance, what would you tell your future husband or wife, if you believe that you are to marry?
Ok, here's what I'd say:
I have waited my entire life for you, I have saved up blessings for you. I have been through many, many fiery trials for you. Knowing this, alone, I know that you will be a blessing! I will love you so deep and true, my best friend, my kinswoman, my spouse!
If God knew us before we were formed, I am sure it is possible we knew each other then! The choices we made, and God's gentle placement with our parents, in this time and He is leading us together!
God showed me Psalm 128 to challenge my heart to believe. He showed me Ruth 3:7 in a dream, to answer my prayer about how I would know I found you.
"... she came softly, and uncovered his feet, and laid her down."
You will come when I am asleep, not aware. You will do that which is unseemly and quite bold, you will come to me and you will uncover my feet... and lay down at them. You will show your vulnerability, and your humbleness in one move..
I pray for you all the time. I have at times, thought I found you.. but they were imposters seeking thier own ways and glories. You, my love, seek God's glory, and you will stop at nothing to find me so that you and I will glorify OUR Father with every aspect of our meeting and our lives together.
So, come now, and let us knit our hearts, our souls, and our flesh together so that the future generations will know that God has blessed our union, and that God truly is holy, merciful, fierce, wild, and sovreign! They will want to come and taste of His goodness, as we have found!
Haven't read your thread -- only this post. Someone might have already suggested this, but if not, my suggestion is that you write this to her. When time passes and you go through a trial with each other, she can take it out and look at it to remind her of where you both began and how you feel about her. Just a suggestion and one I base on personal experience.
Many blessings.
I think I'll save all of these posts, and one day show her all of mine, and all the others that were written. :)
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/11/2006 9:20:15 PM
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After reading this thread, I need either a tissue or an ax.
Better to have an issue with a tissue than an axe to grind!
I've had my fill of tissues. For now, I'm boycotting them. Long live the ax.
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/11/2006 10:36:04 PM
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After reading this thread, I need either a tissue or an ax.
Better to have an issue with a tissue than an axe to grind!
I've had my fill of tissues. For now, I'm boycotting them. Long live the ax.
I am no mocking bird, thus, thou shalt not kill me, nor give me a tequila!
I see you are being among us "brave" ones and showing your picture. Very good, bravo! Provisimo!
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Hmm.
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/11/2006 11:01:13 PM
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I prayed about you again today, my future wife.
See, I've got to know a few new girls lately. I don't know where YOU are, or even WHO you are. Do I know you?
I had a female friend pour her heart out to me last night. I've known her for years. She acknowledged, affirmed that I've always been there for her...
I smiled, it was a relief to know she appreciated me. I don't get that much. I don't feel that alot.
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I cried for her today. I thought about our long conversation. She wanted to unload on me. Four hours of talking. I thought of her, and I felt God's precense today in a very real and undeniable way. My heart was breaking for my friend, and I thanked God that my heart is not hard and dark again.
I so want to be a loving man to everyone around me. I want to tell others of my Jesus, and to be a blessing in what I do for them, or say to them.
I thoroughly enjoyed talking to that German girl and showing her I felt honored to drive her to her friends house. Her attentativeness to me telling her about Jesus was amazing.. that and the fact that I was the FIRST one to ever tell her of salvation by Jesus Christ! The first ever!
I hope you are attentive to me, and love talking. I hope you know that you can pour your heart out to me.. I hope you see my sacrifices I've made for you.. and that I will make, for you.
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/12/2006 12:24:01 AM
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After reading this thread, I need either a tissue or an ax.
Better to have an issue with a tissue than an axe to grind!
I've had my fill of tissues. For now, I'm boycotting them. Long live the ax.
I am no mocking bird, thus, thou shalt not kill me, nor give me a tequila!
I see you are being among us "brave" ones and showing your picture. Very good, bravo! Provisimo!
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Hmm.
It was an accident 
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/12/2006 9:53:00 PM
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Hello Future Wife,
Hey, my preacher said a special prayer with me tonight near the podium for you..
Hang in there, He's leading us together.
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/12/2006 10:14:04 PM
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I had a female friend pour her heart out to me last night. I've known her for years. She acknowledged, affirmed that I've always been there for her...
I smiled, it was a relief to know she appreciated me. I don't get that much. I don't feel that alot
I cried for her today. I thought about our long conversation. She wanted to unload on me. Four hours of talking. I thought of her, and I felt God's precense today in a very real and undeniable way. My heart was breaking for my friend, and I thanked God that my heart is not hard and dark again.
I so want to be a loving man to everyone around me. I want to tell others of my Jesus, and to be a blessing in what I do for them, or say to them.
I thoroughly enjoyed talking to that German girl and showing her I felt honored to drive her to her friends house. Her attentativeness to me telling her about Jesus was amazing.. that and the fact that I was the FIRST one to ever tell her of salvation by Jesus Christ! The first ever!
Which planet are you from?????????????????????????????????????????? 
don't mean it in a bad way...just wondering...usually the male species says BACK OFF!!!!!!!
I am a peculiar person, I am alien to the World. :)
One thing is that it's not me, it's He that is in me. I am currently walking in The Word (Jesus Christ aka. the Holy Bible) in this area of my life :).. I am actually applying the Bible to my life. A big verse for me now is 1 John 4:18! This verse has encouraged me to be loving to those that are needing my ear and shoulder.. and to not fear rejection in pursuit of sharing my love, and Christ's love.
I got broken a few months ago , and I have prayed to stay this way. It feels great, though, to now have actual challenges, actualy hearts to minister to. My friend for 16 years, that German girl, and others I've met. A couple of months ago, I met a guy who is a new Christian. He was talking about praying and thinking that obviously other people had worse problems than him, and he felt discouraged from praying. I told him something that God's shown me a few years ago.
God loves us as if we were the only person alive. He said it really made things clear and he felt better about it..
I love being a blessing.. I mean, who doesn't you know? Or who wouldn't that has thier heart on the Lord.
I know I'll have more trials and tests, and I will utterly fail, and fall... but I will get back up and keep marching. I know it's a war, and I am a warrior.
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/12/2006 10:25:17 PM
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OK....reposting something I had deleted. My own  moments....uh....yeah. Anyhoo...
Future Husband,
I seek to push past fear for you, for me, for our children, for our God's glory. I cling to this: that God has worked every screwup in my life despite me and my wholly fallible self for the good of Himself and His bride...and for my holiness. That He can and would use me to help you as you seek Him and His purpose for you (holiness)...awes me. I think I'm having an Isaiah 6:1 moment here.
That God would give me the grace and the mercy to love Him as I ought and to love you in the right order to Him at the same time...
I battle tonight, and I hurt tonight. I wonder...How can I illuminate truth if I am not wholly living it? I need help! (And is the help I think I need/want the help I actually need?) Please come soon...I need your shelter....because I know that through you God will make His sheltering of me that more tangible.
I want to live real life, not hide in the fairy tales in my head any longer. May the fairy tales be burned away and the real life show itself purest silver, like a mirror to reflect the Lord's face.
Pray for me to hold on. To trust Him more... to keep learning... to take those scary but necessary risks... to be able to say, Where you go, I will go. He will provide.
~E~
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/12/2006 10:26:42 PM
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Sometimes the best things are accidents :). I think we should all disply real pictures of ourselves.. there's no harm.. unless you are a high profile and widely known person... then I could see where it could be bad.
uhm....privacy....stalkers...those not-so-nice people who lurk the net...
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/13/2006 12:27:01 AM
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I had a female friend pour her heart out to me last night. I've known her for years. She acknowledged, affirmed that I've always been there for her...
I smiled, it was a relief to know she appreciated me. I don't get that much. I don't feel that alot
I cried for her today. I thought about our long conversation. She wanted to unload on me. Four hours of talking. I thought of her, and I felt God's precense today in a very real and undeniable way. My heart was breaking for my friend, and I thanked God that my heart is not hard and dark again.
I so want to be a loving man to everyone around me. I want to tell others of my Jesus, and to be a blessing in what I do for them, or say to them.
I thoroughly enjoyed talking to that German girl and showing her I felt honored to drive her to her friends house. Her attentativeness to me telling her about Jesus was amazing.. that and the fact that I was the FIRST one to ever tell her of salvation by Jesus Christ! The first ever!
Which planet are you from??????????????????????????????????????????
don't mean it in a bad way...just wondering...usually the male species says BACK OFF!!!!!!!
I am a peculiar person, I am alien to the World. :) . 
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One thing is that it's not me, it's He that is in me. I am currently walking in The Word (Jesus Christ aka. the Holy Bible) in this area of my life :).. I am actually applying the Bible to my life. A big verse for me now is 1 John 4:18! This verse has encouraged me to be loving to those that are needing my ear and shoulder.. and to not fear rejection in pursuit of sharing my love, and Christ's love.
Amen to this!!! fear keeps us from doing so much!! walking around, just being wasted potential.............takes alot of courage........going out there again and again and at times and be rejected........I need Jesus'hand to do this everyday... i reached the crossroads, and i had two choices: continue with Jesus or follow the pattern that will make me "fit in"...too bad i am to "spoiled" by His love already....i am offcially a Jesus freak.......   and enjoying ever single minute of it.......
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I got broken a few months ago , and I have prayed to stay this way. It feels great, though, to now have actual challenges, actualy hearts to minister to. My friend for 16 years, that German girl, and others I've met. A couple of months ago, I met a guy who is a new Christian. He was talking about praying and thinking that obviously other people had worse problems than him, and he felt discouraged from praying. I told him something that God's shown me a few years ago.
What a blessing you are to those people!!!! making someone feel loved when they need it is such a beautiful gift .....
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God loves us as if we were the only person alive. He said it really made things clear and he felt better about it..
I love being a blessing.. I mean, who doesn't you know? Or who wouldn't that has thier heart on the Lord.
I know I'll have more trials and tests, and I will utterly fail, and fall... but I will get back up and keep marching. I know it's a war, and I am a warrior.
Right attitude!!!! Way to go!!! What a delight you are in the eyes of Jesus!!!!
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/13/2006 1:22:44 AM
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Sometimes the best things are accidents :). I think we should all disply real pictures of ourselves.. there's no harm.. unless you are a high profile and widely known person... then I could see where it could be bad.
uhm....privacy....stalkers...those not-so-nice people who lurk the net...
Amen Zoey... Amen!
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/13/2006 1:48:13 AM
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Sometimes the best things are accidents :). I think we should all disply real pictures of ourselves.. there's no harm.. unless you are a high profile and widely known person... then I could see where it could be bad.
uhm....privacy....stalkers...those not-so-nice people who lurk the net...
Amen Zoey... Amen!
uh yeah... kinda like those not-so-nice people who hack into computers... highlight your books... fixate on you because you remind them of their ex or something... havoc wreakers the lot of 'em...
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/17/2006 1:12:06 AM
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Sometimes the best things are accidents :). I think we should all disply real pictures of ourselves.. there's no harm.. unless you are a high profile and widely known person... then I could see where it could be bad.
uhm....privacy....stalkers...those not-so-nice people who lurk the net...
Fear of the unknown, it's understandable, for sure.
Ah.. I'll just be one of the brave ones. I know how to deal with the occasional nut job. I got back up, trust me. Hehe.
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/17/2006 1:15:45 AM
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Future wife,
It's only getting closer. I am balancing my desire to find you with my mission of loving my sisters in Christ. I'll not jump ahead too fast, I'll take my time, and on the journey find you, and keep on doing down the path, with my fellow secret agent.
I am learning alot about self sacrifice, and communication. I am being reminded to always let people know what I am doing and why, when it comes to possible deep heart connections..
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/17/2006 10:55:41 PM
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Just one of the many things I'd like to say....
Thank you for waiting patiently for me as I continue to find who I am in Christ!
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/18/2006 12:01:44 AM
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Same here, and also in more ways than just weaponry. :)
cool. I used to take kempo and kickboxing, too. Did I mention I'm a police chaplain?
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RE: Talk to Your Future Wife/Husband (WARNING: Powerful... - 7/18/2006 12:35:54 AM
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Same here, and also in more ways than just weaponry. :)
cool. I used to take kempo and kickboxing, too. Did I mention I'm a police chaplain?
Now that you mention it, I do recall you saying that.
I know many police officers, local, state, and former FBI.
I've been trained in Tae Kwon Do...
I've had to carry a pistol for a situation that could have got ugly. I was only going to aim for the knees. Thank God I didn't have to use it, but it pays to be prepared.
That's nothing compared to what I am talking about though.
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