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Jhud -> RE: lost faith and are happy (4/9/2008 11:11:32 AM)
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It may seem a little confusing. Seeing the worldview of someone else isn't always easy or simple. Worldview of Christians For some people, God is real. All information is interpreted through a Biblical, God-centered lens. The reality of God is not a question; it’s a given. It is in fact the ultimate reality and ultimate authority of reality, and all thoughts or ideas that the individual may create are subject to it. All information is interpreted from a Biblical perspective. If something within or about the Bible or God seems contradictory, the person defaults to the belief that God is real and that the folly is on fallible people, not God or the Bible. All information is interpreted as supporting the Bible and a Biblical worldview. Again, all contradictory or conflicting statements are considered either a mystery of God or misunderstood by the reader. Living Harmoniously with a Christian Worldview As stated, those with a Christian worldview believe that God is real, the Bible is correct, and God expects Christians to behave certain ways. If a person strives to behave and live as a Christian should, he or she is living harmoniously with their beliefs. To them, God is real and that individual is striving to live as God intended. Living Discordantly with a Christian Worldview As stated, those with a Christian worldview believe that God is real, the Bible is correct, and God expects Christians to behave certain ways. When a person with a Christian worldview behaves in a way that is discordant with the way a Christian should behave, that person is revolting against the God that he/she believes is real. This is, I feel, the most relevant expression of the term “rejecting God” to this discussion. The Term “Rejecting God” A rejection of God could mean two things. In the paragraph above, this is a personal rejection of God. The person believes God is real yet chooses to live against God. God is real, yet the person lives according to his or her own rules. He/she is rejecting “God” and choosing “Self.” Another meaning of “rejecting God” is not personal. It is the rejection of a concept or idea. This impersonal rejection of the concept of God is only possible if the person does not believe God is real. “Person A” rejects the notion that God exists, but “Person A” may accept or understand that others believe that God is real. Worldview of Non-Christians For some people, God is not real. These people also live in harmony or discordance with what is real to them, but that reality is not Biblically based. All information is interpreted through their world views, which vary from person to person. Changing from a Christian to an Ex-Christian Experiences vary from person to person, so I’ll just talk about my own. I used to have the worldview of a Christian and all that entailed. My mind could not be changed and everything was interpreted through a Biblical/Christian lens. However, at one point I became curious about my faith in a new way. I wanted to try hard to be as objective as I could about the information I viewed about Christianity. At this time, I was in a questioning phase, about as neutral as I could be. For most of the time during this phase, I did still believe in God, but I was open to any result that my questioning would eventually lead to. Basically, I was on a search for truth. When I tried to be open and honest about the information I came across, I began to confront the conflicts and contradictions in Christianity. As I read, the Bible increasingly seemed like it was written by people. It started to seem less divine. Feeling my faith fade, I prayed and called on God to heal my faith. My faith, however, was not restored. Eventually, I came to the realization that God isn’t real. It’s important to note that it wasn’t necessarily the information itself that caused my change to an ex-Christian. After all, information is interpreted according to what a person thinks is real. The catalyst to my change was my loss of faith. To a degree, my deconversion had an intellectual basis, but what really changed everything for me was that revelation, that change in perspective. When I became an ex-Christian I didn’t have any faith because I just didn’t have any faith. Thanks for the breakdown. One thing I want to make clear before I respond is that I think I started from a different viewpoint than you did. I was an agnostic before I was a Christian, a skeptic who was very influenced by reason and science. So I have in a sense already been where you are; much as you feel that you ‘explored’ Christianity objectively, I did the same as an agnostic, except I was equally willing to view a godless life through the same lens; in the end I found it to be empty and meaningless (indeed, in a sense I see now that it really couldn’t be otherwise by definition – any ‘meaning’ we derive for ourselves apart from an external and eternal reality is by definition imaginary). In turn, I experienced Christ – and objectively, that experience was as real as anything else that I might have understood or experienced. And I know, that experience wasn’t a product of ‘Biblical/Christian lens’, because I was an agnostic and I had never read the Bible. So in a very real way, to turn away from my faith now would be to deny objective reality, and turn to what I know to be false. Now I believe you when you say you haven’t had this experience, and without it, I am not sure anyone’s faith can be sustained; but that fact doesn’t change the reality of it. quote:
That's a pretty complex question, but for simplicity's sake I'll say that the Golden Rule is applicable to most situations. I try my best to create an outcome suitable to everyone. Sometimes I miss the mark, but I'm only human. As I see it, that's all we CAN be. I appreciate that, but what I have always found odd is that we have to appeal to any rules at all. In all of nature we see organisms simply acting as they are; Apes don’t follow ‘ape rules’, dolphins don’t follow ‘dolphin standards’. It would be ridiculous to say, “He’s only a dog, sometimes he misses the mark, but tries his best to be a dog” because dogs don’t ‘try’ to be dogs, they just are what they are. Humans, on the other hand, throughout history, have strived to meet a standard of some sort. Morality, laws, appeals to our better natures, all these indicate that we sense we are something less than we should be, and in my mind this is most readily explained by the idea that there exists an external and eternal nature, from which we are derived and have fallen short. In short, that is objective proof of both our divine origin, and fallen nature. quote:
Of course...people often tend to interpret information as evidence for thier worldviews. That's what I wrote. You might want to read about discoveries that provide evidence that is contradictory to the Biblical account of history. It may at least give you an insight into a different perspective. As I said, I was a skeptic before I was Christian, and in many respects, I still am; the difference is that I now am willing to apply that skepticism to science and materialism, and in doing so I find real objectivity.
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