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Casper22 -> RE: linkin park (4/5/2008 4:20:10 PM)
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ORIGINAL: ckskman
[8|] Wow! You guys are great! Thanks so much for your in put. I really think we are heading in the right direction as parents. Our request is that the boys keep the volume down so we do not have to listening to it. [;)] Although, I also request periodically to know who they are listen to so I can look up lyrics.
[&:]Example of some bands they like: Haste the day, Bullet for my Valentine, Amonamarth, As Citys Burn, As I lay Dying, August Burns Red, Becomming the Archetype, Chasing Victory, Darkest Hour, Emery, Iorn Maiden, Killswitch Engage, Mortal Treason, Top Heavy Crush, Puddle of Mud, Queens of the Stone Age, Red, Shaihulud, The Show Down, A Shylit Drive, Spoken, A Static Lullaby, Still Remains, Subseven, To No Avail (not labled), Underoath, War of Ages, Yngwie Malmsteem, Seven Horns Seven Eyes (Not labled), Arch Enemy, The Agony Scene, Behemoth, In this Moment, Pariamore, Within Temptation. There are many more that the older son listens too as well, this will give you an Idea of their taste.
[sm=aside.gif]We find that the hardest thing is monitoring. Today, with IPODs, MP3s, etc, music can come from such easy downloads, and be in the IPOD without us even realizing it. Years ago, records were not so easy to camouflage from the parents. Trusting in God is key. We have leaned into the arms of His Spirit, and we know that the foundation has been laid. Both of our sons truly are neet people, respected by others and our relationship is better than many other parent teen relationships we have observed. Thank you God!
I commend you for not just writing it off as Satanic and ungodly simply because of the sound and style. I went thru this with my dad back in the days of Stryper Petra and Bloodgood. If wasnt Southern Gospel it was of the devil. It caused a huge rift between us to the point I was asked to move out at one time because he was so strongly against anything that didnt have a nasal snort and a country twang ; ) Just keep doing what your doing stay involved with your kids lives. If you ever feel the need to forbid them to listen to some groups (be aware of Behemoth) Dont be condesending about it as my dad was or talk down to them show them the evidence you found and give them an alternative to what there listening too. For instance lets pick on Behemoth here if you dont want them to listen to them then find a christian group that sounds similar to them like Crimson Thorn, Crimson Moonlight, or even Antestor especially there new cd. Music is just so important to a young persons life it was to mine it was what helped me thru so many trials like the death of my mom. Anyway take care and hope this helps
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