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cindybode -> RE: April Showers Bring Spring Flowers Homeschool Chat (4/27/2008 4:55:42 PM)
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Jen, here's my take on the wheel (but remember that I am not one to be attached to stuff [;)] ). If you and your mom gave it to him without any strings attached, then it's his. If it doesn't do what he needs it to do, then what's the point of making him keep it? If he can trade it for one that will do what he needs it to do, then I would have no problem with that. He is old enough to ask for opinions from people who know more than you (collectively) do and to (hopefully) make a wise trade. The only stipulations I would have are that a) he is not to complain if the wheel he gets doesn't work out for him and b) he is not to beg for funds to get another one if he is unhappy with his trade. Once he makes the trade, you will only listen to positive comments about it. If he's swapping at the festival, I would imagine he'll be able to try out the wheel before he gets it. My bet would be that somewhere inside of you it hurts that he's not 100% thrilled with the one you picked out, and that's why you're having a hard time with the idea of trading it. I can understand that. It's not the same thing, but I make soap and my dh still buys his favorite brand at the store. It bugs me just a little bit that the stuff I make isn't quite good enough for him, KWIM? But in the end I know that he doesn't mean it personally and I let it go. You and your mom gave Brandon something that he wanted and that helped him persue an interest of his, and that's what matters, not exactly which wheel ends up in his room. We went and took a walk by the lake after church, and now the lazy slugs in my family are all passed out on couches. I am cleaning the barn. Anybody wanna come help? [:D]
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