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OneOfHisJewels -> RE: Daily Life, take 4 (4/16/2008 1:45:26 AM)
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You really are funny![:D] The way you asked that cracked me up. My mom is here, at my house, for the literal answer..or I guess I should say her house, it's her house, and my dad's house, I just live here. Now as to the long answer... WAY BACK IN THE DAY, 1996, to be exact, I became very very ill with lyme disease, so I had to go home from college, and not get to graduate in '97, like I was supposed to. For a while there, I couldn't work at all, then went up to part time, and finally to full time. I've done various jobs including retail, preschool teaching, tutoring, and child care during that time. My last preschool job was very stressful, mostly due to my boss, and my mom could see I was getting more and more stressed out, and I could also see that she was getting more and more stressed out after years of taking care of her youngest child (my parents have 4 girls total), as my sister is still at a 4 month level at age 28..she was 26 at the time I'm referring to, so she hired me to take care of my sister, and my hours were 9 am to 3 pm Mon-Fri, with my mom still taking care of my sister in the evenings, although I would also watch my sister any evening or weekend that my parents wanted time together, and it was working out great. I got paid through In Home Supportive Services by the state of California. Everything was going well, and then my mom got breast cancer, and I had to basically take over doing my sister full time, plus try and take care of my mom, too. My sister does come by and help, and our church provides meals once a week, and when my mom was at her sickest, they provided them twice a week, so that's nice. My mom is now in her recovery stages, so she is gradually taking on more, but it is an uphill process, and I still have more hours with my sister than I did before.
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