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DreadPirateRandy -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:13:22 PM)

That you don't have one.



hawknelsonismyfriend -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:13:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RatherDashing

It's unjustified.


That made me think of a song "Undignified" by David Crowder Band



violinist_for_jesus -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:16:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RatherDashing

That you don't have one.

Your point?



Konstantinos -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:17:15 PM)

we all have some experience in some way.

teenagers might have relationships when they are 13. i doubt they know more about how to have a serious relationship than me that i never had a gf. well not a real one anyway



violinist_for_jesus -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:20:02 PM)

lol I do in fact have some experience...but this last girl kinda has made me a little unsure about getting serious about any girls...To think that it's been about a year since our relationship ended...



Konstantinos -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:23:26 PM)

fickle?



violinist_for_jesus -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:28:51 PM)

Not really. It's just...I was in love with her for 6 months, and she felt the same way. But...her parents did not approve of a pentecostal with a baptist(ULTRA conservative baptists...oh my goodness, lol) And well...she went with her parents, and then her 'best' friend (who was a guy, and only 15) And yeah...it was hard, we had many arguements about it. I guess now we are civil, but it has since made me quite afraid to even really think about liking a girl...



Konstantinos -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:31:56 PM)

denominations are stupid. Jesus never said anything about denominations. paul yelled at people that tried to have denominations.

and that is fickle... if she chooses her parents even if they are wrong.. unles she didnt think so [sm=aside.gif]



violinist_for_jesus -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:34:42 PM)

(if we believed the exact same thing, she would still go with her parents(her mom has had a list of 2 suitable guys for marriage for her for a long time)
I guess I can't fault her dad for anything...he seems nice...but I had always been scared of her mom. I understand why I was nervous about her, I mean, the family has been thru more then most, but...



Konstantinos -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:37:43 PM)

doesnt matter. we all go through things, that doesnt excuse us when we are wrong. pretty much every grandpa and grandma here in greece has lived under the german occupation in world war 2.. that doesnt mean much to me if they are wrong about something.

oh well *Shrugs*



DreadPirateRandy -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:43:12 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: violinist_for_jesus

Your point?


To construct a molecular structure of absolute inequality of intelligence subtracted from the mind of reality.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Konstantinos

denominations are stupid. Jesus never said anything about denominations. paul yelled at people that tried to have denominations.


I would high five you.

Denominations seperate the body of Christ, the bride. If the human anatomy is seperated from itself, such as a missing limb, then it is dismantled and cut off from everything else. Same way with the church.



violinist_for_jesus -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:48:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RatherDashing

quote:

ORIGINAL: violinist_for_jesus

Your point?


To construct a molecular structure of absolute inequality of intelligence subtracted from the mind of reality.


An opinion is a thought, that belongs in the realm of metaphysics. An opinion or point CANNOT in any way form a molecular structure.



DreadPirateRandy -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:56:36 PM)

Hence 'subtracted', as in, 'take away', from reality.



violinist_for_jesus -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 7:58:27 PM)

You still cannot form a molecular stucture from a metaphysical act.



DreadPirateRandy -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 8:02:48 PM)

... your point?



violinist_for_jesus -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 8:03:36 PM)

I won't answer



GradySizemorefan24 -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 9:29:44 PM)

well I'm going with the girl. sorry boys[8|]......I guess maybe it's because my boyfriend of 3 years (on again off again) dumped me about 2 weeks ago[:(]
Girls sometimes put up with more than they should because they love the guy, at least that's what I did, I do realize not all guys will treat you badly, but all my relationships have had either verbal abuse/manipulation or the guy was using me because there was no other girls for him to date. So I have a hard time trusting guys. Now by no means am I putting you guys down, it's just this has been my experience thus far.

I want to be loved for real! [:(]

ok sorry I just spilled my guts to everyone



.deborah. -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/15/2008 11:19:39 PM)

hmm... i honestly disagree.
i get boys can be dumb and controling/miniputlative. BUT so can girls.
i know girls that do stuff like that, worse then i have seen guys do.
in my opinon i say its the same.

but i also think its harder for the guys.
i hang out with mainly guys, and girls are just mean.
and its not like you girls can really disagree.
most girls are mean, or whiney.
there are some who are kick back.
but most are just terrible.



rae_of_light -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/16/2008 8:46:11 AM)

Hmm, I have thought it over, and I think that guys probably have it harder. From what I've seen, girls like to play games with guys, and it's just really upsetting. As a member of the female race, I've determined that if I'm ever in a relationship, I'm not going to do that sort of thing. [&:] Now if the guy is abusive, that is a whole different thing altogether... but usually, I'd say the guys have it harder.



LJ17 -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/16/2008 5:26:01 PM)

I really don't know. Guys and girls both have it hard. I can't say which one really does have it harder. Hmm...



violinist_for_jesus -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/16/2008 9:24:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GradySizemorefan24

well I'm going with the girl. sorry boys[8|]......I guess maybe it's because my boyfriend of 3 years (on again off again) dumped me about 2 weeks ago[:(]
Girls sometimes put up with more than they should because they love the guy, at least that's what I did, I do realize not all guys will treat you badly, but all my relationships have had either verbal abuse/manipulation or the guy was using me because there was no other girls for him to date. So I have a hard time trusting guys. Now by no means am I putting you guys down, it's just this has been my experience thus far.

I want to be loved for real! [:(]

ok sorry I just spilled my guts to everyone

How far away do you live?[;)]



PrincessButtercup -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/17/2008 8:17:26 AM)

Playa. [8|]



LJ17 -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/17/2008 12:25:39 PM)

Haha!



_MavericK_ -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/17/2008 1:29:58 PM)

It's definitely hard on both ends. Cuz the letter I'm writing is gonna be just as hard to read as it is to write.[8|]



DreadPirateRandy -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/18/2008 3:09:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: rae_of_light

As a member of the female race, I've determined that if I'm ever in a relationship, I'm not going to do that sort of thing.


After being transformed into the likeness of Christ, I also vowed that same position. I honestly cannot stand to see men, those that I share the same DNA structure with, treating girls as a piece of meat off the market.

and girls who treat guys like a piece of cotton candy glued to their arm are equally as bad.


Since I never really posed my answer to the question, here goes:

Who has it harder? Neither.

At least, that should be the answer. A relationship is based upon a foundation that is constructed of two things:
- Jesus Christ.
- unity.

A relationship is like a house; built firm, steady, and remaining constant. As that house is divided against itself, the layers slowly begin tumbling. That happens when the house is without the two elements I mentioned before.

This is how it's supposed to be:
18 The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."

24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.

It's how God made it to be. Our vast, corrupt society has a way of twisting it into this compelling argument of blame.

Quit placing blame on the opposite sex and put effort into making it work.



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