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_MavericK_ -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/18/2008 3:40:52 PM)

That's no joke, my youth pastor brotha. Blame only leads to bitterness and bitterness to nearly irreparable damage. Both parties have to understand their partner's feelings and stay committed to them even when things get nuts.



ShutterBox -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/18/2008 9:23:25 PM)

well said, Randy.

*applause*



hawknelsonismyfriend -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/18/2008 9:27:07 PM)

bring out the dancing lobsters!



.deborah. -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/18/2008 10:07:10 PM)

...isnt that from the Amanda Show??

haha... i havent watched that in dayz.
=[[



ShutterBox -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/18/2008 10:13:26 PM)

i haven't seen that show in years XD



hawknelsonismyfriend -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/18/2008 10:15:25 PM)

Haha yup. Me neither.



jesusfreak94 -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/19/2008 6:00:19 AM)

i believe that niether should have it harder, as randy said. but i think both deal with stuff. i mean, my really good guy friend AJ broke up with his girl friend cuz he wanted to flirt with other girls and "play the fields" and the same with a girl he only went out with for like a week. then, after that he flirts with BOTH of the girls he dumped. and me. it makes me very aggitated.



GradySizemorefan24 -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/19/2008 5:43:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: violinist_for_jesus

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ORIGINAL: GradySizemorefan24

well I'm going with the girl. sorry boys[8|]......I guess maybe it's because my boyfriend of 3 years (on again off again) dumped me about 2 weeks ago[:(]
Girls sometimes put up with more than they should because they love the guy, at least that's what I did, I do realize not all guys will treat you badly, but all my relationships have had either verbal abuse/manipulation or the guy was using me because there was no other girls for him to date. So I have a hard time trusting guys. Now by no means am I putting you guys down, it's just this has been my experience thus far.

I want to be loved for real! [:(]

ok sorry I just spilled my guts to everyone

How far away do you live?[;)]


I live in akron, Ohio....[;)]



violinist_for_jesus -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/19/2008 10:21:28 PM)

hmmm



GradySizemorefan24 -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/20/2008 6:40:36 PM)

hmm what?



_MavericK_ -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/20/2008 9:04:53 PM)

Hmmm he's a hintin at ya.[;)]



GradySizemorefan24 -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/20/2008 9:43:10 PM)

yay i'm being hit on by a guy who lives miles and miles and miles away in another state[8|]



PrincessButtercup -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/20/2008 10:35:54 PM)

Happens to me alllllll the time. [;)]



GradySizemorefan24 -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/20/2008 10:37:55 PM)

lol mandy



Jesusfreak108 -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/20/2008 10:58:42 PM)

Hey guys.
No one has it harder. Each gender is different. How is a relationship "hard" anyway?



violinist_for_jesus -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/21/2008 2:49:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GradySizemorefan24

yay i'm being hit on by a guy who lives miles and miles and miles away in another state[8|]

Your point?



_MavericK_ -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/21/2008 2:52:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Jesusfreak108

Hey guys.
No one has it harder. Each gender is different.


Yep. And my little rant about my having it hard was just my being a selfish git. Whoops! [sm=blush.gif]



GradySizemorefan24 -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/21/2008 7:18:18 PM)

my point is that oh well nevermind



DreadPirateRandy -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/21/2008 7:23:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Jesusfreak108

How is a relationship "hard" anyway?


Seperate motives pushing for different emotions without good intention.



GradySizemorefan24 -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/21/2008 7:37:04 PM)

a relationship is work.....and sometimes it is hard, because you wont always agree



DreadPirateRandy -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/21/2008 7:47:45 PM)

It doesn't have to be hard, that's just something that society has progressed it to be.

My youth pastor had the ideal marriage. He and his wife disagreed sometimes, sure, but that disagreement wasn't allowed to have a negative influence on their love for each other. And in other times, the arguments were generally playful and ended up in a gigglefest.

That's what a true marriage is. Your day isn't complete unless you see that the other is happy, because their happiness is most important to you.



GradySizemorefan24 -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/21/2008 7:54:32 PM)

right.......but I still think that when you disagree sometimes it can be hard, although it doesn't change your love, it's just hard to work through sometimes



ShutterBox -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/21/2008 7:56:25 PM)

yeah.. it really doesn't have to be hard at all. It wont be a cake walk, but why people disagree about so many SMALL things and then turn it into a huge matter I'll never understand.

My parents do that and it drives me insane. The smallest things make the biggest arguments.

I've made up my mind that if the man is high strung and gets mad over small stuff, he's history. I will not marry a Jekyll and Hyde.



GradySizemorefan24 -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/21/2008 7:57:58 PM)

yeah that;s true.....you cant get mad over ever little thing, its useless



violinist_for_jesus -> RE: Who has it harder? (4/21/2008 7:59:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GradySizemorefan24

my point is that oh well nevermind

You don't have a point, do you?



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