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CoeurdeLeon_ -> RE: Are we really sane? (4/23/2008 10:15:49 AM)
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"My feeling is that sanity is actually a pretence, a way we learn to behave. We keep this pretence up because we don't want to be rejected by other people-and being classified insane is to be shut out of the group in a very complete way. I don't think sanity is a pretense but I think that most people think (their own) behavior is a pretense. We think that other people are well-behaved, according to society's dictates, because that's how they are and experience difficulty (to a greater or lesser degree) being well-behaved ourselves. Which makes us worry that we're 'worse than' everyone else and will be ostracized because of it. And, as stellaluna said, many people brag about their non-conformance to good behavior as an attempt to achieve "specialness". For the record, I prefer to think of myself as "interestingly quirky".[8D]
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