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earthless -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/27/2008 7:19:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sue244



You do realize that there is different loves in the Greek. And Euros (romantic love) is not used of God. It is always Agape.



Exactly - the Euros love this guy keeps trying to push is creepy and perverted.. God doesn't love me in a lustful/sexual way.




earthless -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/27/2008 8:38:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AoibhinnGrainne

So, earthless, unless you've read and studied Eldredge and attended RH Ministry events, how can you be sure that he is pushing this particular teaching?

Just curious... If that's true it must have gone over my head, twice in person, and several times in the several books...

Aoi.


I have read enough to know the whole knight in shining armor/damsel thing is corny and a bit odd. Reading up on these things is my ministry (apologetics). [:)]

I am not calling him a false teacher, nor an adherent of heretical teachings, etc.. but like I said a few pages back - there are solid doctrinally sound preachers, teachers, writers out there to have to waste any time on someone whose writings are strange and perhaps problematic.




earthless -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/27/2008 9:05:30 PM)

PM sent.




draexo -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/27/2008 9:35:27 PM)

Cult is a strong term. Cults venerate the leader. Ransomed Heart Ministries certainly is not a cult.

What is Eldredge saying? He is not adding anything to scripture. I have read several of his books.
What is he saying? He is saying that American Christians have become legalistic and need to wake up.
That is my take on what Eldredge is saying. He does his best to do this in a non-legalistic fashion.




SD456 -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/27/2008 10:47:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: earthless

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ORIGINAL: sue244



You do realize that there is different loves in the Greek. And Euros (romantic love) is not used of God. It is always Agape.



Exactly - the Euros love this guy keeps trying to push is creepy and perverted.. God doesn't love me in a lustful/sexual way.


That would definately be creepy. I've never read that kind of love in his books or heard that from the people I know who attended his conferences.

Where did you hear that Eldredge pushes a lustful/sexual love?




SD456 -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/27/2008 10:56:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: earthless

I am not calling him a false teacher, nor an adherent of heretical teachings, etc.. but like I said a few pages back - there are solid doctrinally sound preachers, teachers, writers out there to have to waste any time on someone whose writings are strange and perhaps problematic.


Unless of course God calls some of His children to read Eldredges' books and go to a conference or two - then it wouldn't be a waste of time at all. God placed John Eldredge and his wife in the body of Christ and placed them in the place of leadership and teaching where they now are for a very specific reason.

If God leads one to read his materials, as he did me and thousands of others, then go for it and be obedient and learn what God has placed in his boy Eldredge to impart to the body. I've learned a lot from this godly man. I don't think reading stuff from Jesus' followers is a waste of time - that would mean that God is wasting His time imparting good things to them to pass on to others.




earthless -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 7:59:41 AM)

SD,

Let's admit it - you think anything and everything is good when claimed to be from God. [8D]

I clam to be an Apostle today! You better start reading my stuff! Submit to me woman!



[:D]




crankius -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 11:41:20 AM)

[sm=Llol.gif] Earthless, you are funny.




doinkdom -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 11:54:51 AM)

GroupW...and anyone who gives a rip what I think...[8|][8D]

My thoughts are as follows - it's been a while since I read and did this for Wild at Heart.

First, Eldredge mishandles Scripture badly and that has been shown throughout this thread.

Second, the central theme of the book is not consistent with the teaching of the Bible - again shown by others here.

Third, Eldredge conveys a low, humanistic, and even heretical view of God - this would be the hill for me to die on.

Wild at Heart seems to encourage self-fulfillment——not the appropriate kind that seeks personal fulfillment in Christ, but rather the selfish kind that opposes the consistent message of self-denial and sacrifice contained in the New Testament. Another hill for me.

I've read reviews or condensed synopsis of his other books and nothing so far has convinced me to recommend them or that his personal theology has changed.

Don't get me wrong, I know many people who love his books - I just find that there are more reliable sources which discuss the same topics and I don't have to filter all the "other stuff" out. While I might consider my own discernment "mature" when it comes to these matters, I don't feel it is very responsible for me to pass his books on to others.




crankius -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 12:03:39 PM)

Let's just gather up some of the quotes from Eldredge in this thread so far:


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Okay, we've all been there many times. But what Paul concludes is just astounding: ‘I am not really the one doing it; the sin within me is doing it' (Rom 7:20 NLT). Did you notice the distinction he makes? Paul says, ‘Hey, I know I struggle with sin. But I also know that my sin is not me (italics his)-this is not my true heart.' You are not your sin; sin is no longer the truest thing about the man who has come into union with Jesus. Your heart is good. ‘I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you ...'(Ezek. 36:26). The Big Lie in the church today is that you are nothing more than ‘a sinner saved by grace." You are a lot more than that. You are a new creation in Christ. The New Testament calls you a saint, a holy one, a son of God. In the core of your being you are a good man. Yes, there is a war within us, but it is a civil war. The battle is not between us and God; no, there is a traitor within who wars against the true heart fighting alongside the Spirit of God in us... . (144)


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Deep in a man's heart are some fundamental questions that simply cannot be answered at the kitchen table. Who am I? What am I made of? What am I destined for? It is fear that keeps a man at home where things are neat and orderly and under his control. But the answers to his deepest questions are not to be found on television or in the refrigerator. Out there on the burning desert sands, lost in a trackless waste, Moses received his life's mission and purpose. He is called out, called up into something much bigger than he ever imagined, much more serious than CEO or "prince of Egypt." Under foreign stars, in the dead of night, Jacob received a new name, his real name. No longer is he a shrewd business negotiator, but now he is one who wrestles with God. The wilderness trial of Christ is, at its core, a test of his identity. "If you are who you think you are ..." If a man is ever to find out who he is and what he's here for, he has got to take that journey for himself.

He has got to get his heart back.



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And thus the heart of a man is driven into the high country, into remote places, like a wounded animal looking for cover. Women know this, and lament that they have no access to their man's heart. Men know it, too, but are often unable to explain why their heart is missing. They know their heart is on the run, but they often do not know where to pick up the trail. The church wags its head and wonders why it can't get more men to sign up for its programs. The answer is simply this: We have not invited a man to know and live from his deep heart.


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There are three desires I find written so deeply into my heart I know now I can no longer disregard them without losing my soul. They are core to who and what I am and yearn to be. I gaze into boyhood, I search the pages of literature, I listen carefully to many, many men, and I am convinced these desires are universal, a clue into masculinity itself. They may be misplaced, forgotten, or misdirected, but in the heart of every man is a desperate desire for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue.


And here is more from the chapter 1 link to Wild at Heart that I posted previously:
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Eve was created within the lush beauty of Eden's garden. But Adam, if you'll remember, was created outside the Garden, in the wilderness. In the record of our beginnings, the second chapter of Genesis makes it clear: Man was born in the outback, from the untamed part of creation. Only afterward is he brought to Eden. And ever since then boys have never been at home indoors, and men have had an insatiable longing to explore. We long to return; it's when most men come alive.



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But the soul refuses to be harnessed; it knows nothing of Day Timers and deadlines and P&L statements. The soul longs for passion, for freedom, for life.



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Christianity, as it currently exists, has done some terrible things to men. When all is said and done, I think most men in the church believe that God put them on the earth to be a good boy. The problem with men, we are told, is that they don't know how to keep their promises, be spiritual leaders, talk to their wives, or raise their children. But, if they will try real hard they can reach the lofty summit of becoming ... a nice guy. That's what we hold up as models of Christian maturity: Really Nice Guys. We don't smoke, drink, or swear; that's what makes us men. Now let me ask my male readers: In all your boyhood dreams growing up, did you ever dream of becoming a Nice Guy? (Ladies, was the Prince of your dreams dashing ... or merely nice?)



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But God made the masculine heart, set it within every man, and thereby offers him an invitation: Come, and live out what I meant you to be. Permit me to bypass the entire nature vs. nurture "is gender really built-in?" debate with one simple observation: Men and women are made in the image of God as men or as women. "So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them" (Gen. 1:27). Now, we know God doesn't have a body, so the uniqueness can't be physical. Gender simply must be at the level of the soul, in the deep and everlasting places within us. God doesn't make generic people; he makes something very distinct-a man or a woman. In other words, there is a masculine heart and a feminine heart, which in their own ways reflect or portray to the world God's heart.

God meant something when he meant man, and if we are to ever find ourselves we must find that. What has he set in the masculine heart?


There is a LOT wrong with all of these quotes, scripturally and doctrinally and theologically. It presents an unbiblical view of God, of man, and of what man's purpose is.

The fact that many can't see what is wrong makes me all the more certain that many men and women have failed miserably at studying true apologetics and having a solid grasp of God, man, and truth, according to scripture.

Eldredge has given the wisdom of the world and packaged it in Christian bows, and consumer Christianity has bought it up. His writing contains nothing that the world isn't already selling as truth.




earthless -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 12:31:53 PM)

Crankius,

Thank you for your last post and your comment about believers not bothered by them is spot on.




SD456 -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 1:08:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: crankius

Let's just gather up some of the quotes from Eldredge in this thread so far:


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#1
Okay, we've all been there many times. But what Paul concludes is just astounding: ‘I am not really the one doing it; the sin within me is doing it' (Rom 7:20 NLT). Did you notice the distinction he makes? Paul says, ‘Hey, I know I struggle with sin. But I also know that my sin is not me (italics his)-this is not my true heart.' You are not your sin; sin is no longer the truest thing about the man who has come into union with Jesus. Your heart is good. ‘I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you ...'(Ezek. 36:26). The Big Lie in the church today is that you are nothing more than ‘a sinner saved by grace." You are a lot more than that. You are a new creation in Christ. The New Testament calls you a saint, a holy one, a son of God. In the core of your being you are a good man. Yes, there is a war within us, but it is a civil war. The battle is not between us and God; no, there is a traitor within who wars against the true heart fighting alongside the Spirit of God in us... . (144)


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#2
Deep in a man's heart are some fundamental questions that simply cannot be answered at the kitchen table. Who am I? What am I made of? What am I destined for? It is fear that keeps a man at home where things are neat and orderly and under his control. But the answers to his deepest questions are not to be found on television or in the refrigerator. Out there on the burning desert sands, lost in a trackless waste, Moses received his life's mission and purpose. He is called out, called up into something much bigger than he ever imagined, much more serious than CEO or "prince of Egypt." Under foreign stars, in the dead of night, Jacob received a new name, his real name. No longer is he a shrewd business negotiator, but now he is one who wrestles with God. The wilderness trial of Christ is, at its core, a test of his identity. "If you are who you think you are ..." If a man is ever to find out who he is and what he's here for, he has got to take that journey for himself.

He has got to get his heart back.



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And thus the heart of a man is driven into the high country, into remote places, like a wounded animal looking for cover. Women know this, and lament that they have no access to their man's heart. Men know it, too, but are often unable to explain why their heart is missing. They know their heart is on the run, but they often do not know where to pick up the trail. The church wags its head and wonders why it can't get more men to sign up for its programs. The answer is simply this: We have not invited a man to know and live from his deep heart.


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#4There are three desires I find written so deeply into my heart I know now I can no longer disregard them without losing my soul. They are core to who and what I am and yearn to be. I gaze into boyhood, I search the pages of literature, I listen carefully to many, many men, and I am convinced these desires are universal, a clue into masculinity itself. They may be misplaced, forgotten, or misdirected, but in the heart of every man is a desperate desire for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue.


And here is more from the chapter 1 link to Wild at Heart that I posted previously:
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#5
Eve was created within the lush beauty of Eden's garden. But Adam, if you'll remember, was created outside the Garden, in the wilderness. In the record of our beginnings, the second chapter of Genesis makes it clear: Man was born in the outback, from the untamed part of creation. Only afterward is he brought to Eden. And ever since then boys have never been at home indoors, and men have had an insatiable longing to explore. We long to return; it's when most men come alive.



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#6
But the soul refuses to be harnessed; it knows nothing of Day Timers and deadlines and P&L statements. The soul longs for passion, for freedom, for life.



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Christianity, as it currently exists, has done some terrible things to men. When all is said and done, I think most men in the church believe that God put them on the earth to be a good boy. The problem with men, we are told, is that they don't know how to keep their promises, be spiritual leaders, talk to their wives, or raise their children. But, if they will try real hard they can reach the lofty summit of becoming ... a nice guy. That's what we hold up as models of Christian maturity: Really Nice Guys. We don't smoke, drink, or swear; that's what makes us men. Now let me ask my male readers: In all your boyhood dreams growing up, did you ever dream of becoming a Nice Guy? (Ladies, was the Prince of your dreams dashing ... or merely nice?)



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But God made the masculine heart, set it within every man, and thereby offers him an invitation: Come, and live out what I meant you to be. Permit me to bypass the entire nature vs. nurture "is gender really built-in?" debate with one simple observation: Men and women are made in the image of God as men or as women. "So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them" (Gen. 1:27). Now, we know God doesn't have a body, so the uniqueness can't be physical. Gender simply must be at the level of the soul, in the deep and everlasting places within us. God doesn't make generic people; he makes something very distinct-a man or a woman. In other words, there is a masculine heart and a feminine heart, which in their own ways reflect or portray to the world God's heart.

God meant something when he meant man, and if we are to ever find ourselves we must find that. What has he set in the masculine heart?


There is a LOT wrong with all of these quotes, scripturally and doctrinally and theologically. It presents an unbiblical view of God, of man, and of what man's purpose is.

The fact that many can't see what is wrong makes me all the more certain that many men and women have failed miserably at studying true apologetics and having a solid grasp of God, man, and truth, according to scripture.

Eldredge has given the wisdom of the world and packaged it in Christian bows, and consumer Christianity has bought it up. His writing contains nothing that the world isn't already selling as truth.


Crankius, I would have to disagree with you. I find nothing unbiblical about his comments. In fact, I find many of them very biblical. (forgive me for the long post, but it can't be helped.)

Start with quote # 1: In Ezek 36:26, God promises to give us a new heart and put a new spirit in us. I believe that is true at the new birth. Jesus now dwells in this new heart by faith. I don't believe the Holy Spirit will make his dwelling in a place (our hearts) that is depraved and still deceitful above all things. I believe our heart is regenerated and begins the transformation process just as our mind is by the washing of the word. I agree completely with Eldredge that the big lie in the church today is that we are still sinners who are saved by grace. We WERE sinners, but we are now saints and children of God who still fight a battle within us between our new spirit and our old flesh (but I don't believe that our flesh is our heart).

Quote # 2: There is nothing in this statement that is at all unbiblical. Moses truly did find his identity by going 'out' into the wilderness. Jacob left his home and in the dead of night wrestled with God and discovered who is was meant to be. This idea that we need to be willing to 'journey out' to find out who we are meant to be is very biblical. You may not relate to it at all, Crankius, which it sounds like most of your problem with Eldredge stems from - you simply can't relate to what he's saying - but that doesn't make what he's saying 'untruth' for myriad other men.

Quote # 3: When Eldredge speaks of the 'heart' he is speaking about the core of who we are, the core of our souls and personality. I agree fully with Eldredge that our society and church at large stifle men and try to force them into nice little boys, while ignoring how God truly created men. You can argue this point, but there is nothing unbiblical in believing the way Eldredge believes. And you just have to look around to see the 'absence of men' in church. I think Eldredge hit the nail on the head as to why.

Quote #4: There is nothing unbiblical about Eldredge believing what the 3 desires of men are. Again this is a subject that you either will relate to or not. Obviously you don't. Eldredge shares from his experience in life, and there is nothing wrong with that. Overall, reading through centuries of literature and poems and epic stories, I tend to agree with Eldredge. Men have at the core of their being, created by God himself, the desire for adventure and to fight battles and rescue beauties. The bible is FULL of God giving men battles to fight and ideals to strive for that transcend themselves. That is still needed today.

Quote #5: While this quote I would agree is Eldredge giving us his take of creation and why, in his opinion, men have a need for adventure, I don't believe there is anything unbiblical in it. God definately created men to be explorers (as some women have had this desire also).

Quote #6: This I totally agree with!! And I agree for all humankind that we were not created to be tied to cubicles and run by clocks and engagement calendars. It goes against the very core of who God made us to be - spontaneous, adventuring people who are not afraid to leave the quietness of our homes and 'journey out' to where God would have us go. God created our souls to long for freedom and life, definately very biblical.

Quote #7: Ditto from my comment about quote #3. The church does not offer much of anything but BOREDOM to men (and to women for that matter).

Quote #8: This is very, very biblical IMO. God definately created a masculine heart and feminine heart do go with each gender, just as we have different needs. There is nothing selfish in understanding that a man's heart was created for some very specific purposes, especially when those purposes are so intrinsically tied to a man's place in the kingdom of God and the exploits God wants that man to do in His name.

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ORIGINAL: crankius
There is a LOT wrong with all of these quotes, scripturally and doctrinally and theologically. It presents an unbiblical view of God, of man, and of what man's purpose is.


So what exactly is biblically incorrect with these quotes? Where is this huge unbiblical view of God and man and man's purpose?

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The fact that many can't see what is wrong makes me all the more certain that many men and women have failed miserably at studying true apologetics and having a solid grasp of God, man, and truth, according to scripture.


Or they have a very solid grasp of the bible and God is speaking to them through Eldredge exactly the way they need to be spoken to so they can 'grasp' exactly what God is wanting them to grasp. It's obvious that you can't relate to Eldredge. Which is completely ok, but because you can't relate to him does not make him unbiblical by any means.




SD456 -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 1:21:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: doinkdom

GroupW...and anyone who gives a rip what I think...[8|][8D]

My thoughts are as follows - it's been a while since I read and did this for Wild at Heart.

First, Eldredge mishandles Scripture badly and that has been shown throughout this thread.

Second, the central theme of the book is not consistent with the teaching of the Bible - again shown by others here.

Third, Eldredge conveys a low, humanistic, and even heretical view of God - this would be the hill for me to die on.

Wild at Heart seems to encourage self-fulfillment——not the appropriate kind that seeks personal fulfillment in Christ, but rather the selfish kind that opposes the consistent message of self-denial and sacrifice contained in the New Testament. Another hill for me.

I've read reviews or condensed synopsis of his other books and nothing so far has convinced me to recommend them or that his personal theology has changed.

Don't get me wrong, I know many people who love his books - I just find that there are more reliable sources which discuss the same topics and I don't have to filter all the "other stuff" out. While I might consider my own discernment "mature" when it comes to these matters, I don't feel it is very responsible for me to pass his books on to others.


We all have opinions about teachers we like and don't like. I know mature christians, pastors and leaders who know the bible far better than I do, who would disagree with your take on scripture being used badly in Eldredge's books, but you have a right to your opinion. It seems opinions tend to be formed based on each of our own worldview - or christian view- of things and to what extent we believe we are to live in religious structured lives or in the liberty of the Spirit.

Thank you for sharing.




lw9 -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 2:03:29 PM)

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AoibhinnGrainne: All I can say is, offer some alternatives. JE is problematic. Fine. So who do you'all recommend in his place: authors, books, tapes, ministries, etc. If you tear something down, you leave a vacuum and "Nature" hates a vacuum.


I don't know... how 'bout the Bible? It's a book. And it's written by God. Bonus!!

Nature is inanimate. It does not 'hate'. If a ministry indulges in bad theology, then it's to be rejected, period. There is no such thing as a law of nature where a vacuum is created and needs to be filled. There are sound churches and ministries out there. Didn't earthless already give you alternatives via PM? Were those not acceptable to you?

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Because I haven't read that anyone else is doing anything else with any real practical application to helping men be men. And helping women be women.


Wow. Who knew that for centuries upon centuries mankind was left completely helpless until John Eldredge came along to restore the gospel of romance, beauty, and hero adventure warriors, and to teach us all how to be men and women.

The Bible offers just that kind of help and real life application for any who desire to seek it out.

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Jesus taught that when He taught about casting out demons: if you leave a room swept clean, seven worse demons will come to fill in it's place.


Do you have any idea how completely out of context that is?? Seriously. You have created a non-existent 'law of nature', and now you are desperately searching for a scripture - any scripture - that will remotely fit that concept. So far, you are not doing yourself or the Eldredge's any favors in the way you defend their teachings.

Yes, by all means, lets not upset nature and create a void by rejecting false teachings. That makes perfect sense, and we certainly do not want to cause nature to hate and possibly implode or something. [8|]




landabee -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 2:03:57 PM)

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You have created a non-existent 'law of nature', and now you are desperately searching for a scripture - any scripture - that will remotely fit that concept. So far, you are not doing the Eldredge's any favors in the way you defend their teachings.



Huh?

Okay, I'll play.....





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if you leave a room swept clean, seven worse demons will come to fill in it's place.

So...

What say ye?


In the absence of sound doctrine and a firm grasp of apologetics (and polemics [;)] ) seven insidious schools of theological misinterpretation will come to fill the vacuum.




earthless -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 2:35:40 PM)

SD456,

I am now an Apostle - Apostle earthless!

Submit to me woman! Pay heed to the words that leave my lips, for they are from up above!




lw9 -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 2:48:37 PM)

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AoibhinnGrainne: Some need to be ferreted out through prayer and study. But they are there. Why aren't we offering them? Why, for example, is the divorce rate, in the Church, close to 50%? Why are close to 60% of Men in the Church addicted to pornography?


The churches that remain faithful to God's word are teaching and offering real life help and application, but the problem is that many today do not want to hear that particular truth. They want fame, fortune, power, ego stroking, attention, adventure, romance, fantasy, emotional highs, their desires granted, and an easy path. Many want to call themselves Christians but chase after the things of the world, and there are any number of churches that will happily cater to those demands and desires.

It is for these reasons that ministries like the Eldredge's will continue to spring up and fulfill the demands. The only way to stop the current plague of bad and deceptive theology is to stop supporting and defending it. Get back to the true gospel of Jesus Christ and a reliance upon His word - rather than a reliance on hot new ministry 'X' or best selling author 'Z' - and I believe the result would be a true transformation of hearts.

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I probably got it wrong...pleeeeease forgive me, okay?


No worries.




doinkdom -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 3:32:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SD456
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ORIGINAL: doinkdom

GroupW...and anyone who gives a rip what I think...[8|][8D]

My thoughts are as follows - it's been a while since I read and did this for Wild at Heart.

First, Eldredge mishandles Scripture badly and that has been shown throughout this thread.

Second, the central theme of the book is not consistent with the teaching of the Bible - again shown by others here.

Third, Eldredge conveys a low, humanistic, and even heretical view of God - this would be the hill for me to die on.

Wild at Heart seems to encourage self-fulfillment——not the appropriate kind that seeks personal fulfillment in Christ, but rather the selfish kind that opposes the consistent message of self-denial and sacrifice contained in the New Testament. Another hill for me.

I've read reviews or condensed synopsis of his other books and nothing so far has convinced me to recommend them or that his personal theology has changed.

Don't get me wrong, I know many people who love his books - I just find that there are more reliable sources which discuss the same topics and I don't have to filter all the "other stuff" out. While I might consider my own discernment "mature" when it comes to these matters, I don't feel it is very responsible for me to pass his books on to others.

We all have opinions about teachers we like and don't like. I know mature christians, pastors and leaders who know the bible far better than I do, who would disagree with your take on scripture being used badly in Eldredge's books, but you have a right to your opinion. It seems opinions tend to be formed based on each of our own worldview - or christian view- of things and to what extent we believe we are to live in religious structured lives or in the liberty of the Spirit.

Thank you for sharing.


It's not just my take...but the take of most reformed theologians, which may or may not mean anything to anyone. [sm=icon_smile_blush.gif]

I also strongly believe as does my husband that there are much better books for men to be reading about being a man than Wild at Heart.

But, like you said...everybody has an opinion. [;)]




lw9 -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 4:00:05 PM)

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AoibhinnGrainne: Look around: Ransomed Heart is obviously answering a need in the Church or it wouldn't be on the Best Seller's List. So if it is so doctrinally wrong, why isn't there someone stepping in and taking the idea of a real, Christian Manhood, basing it more solidly on Scripture, and running with it?


Again and again you keep throwing these illogical non-Biblical defenses out.

Since when is every need or desire valid??? Just because people feel the need to focus on their desires, romance, passion, fantasy adventure, and beauty doesn't mean a ministry should spring up to cater to those needs.

Since when does a book making the best seller list mean it contains sound doctrine??

Since when does anyone *have* to run to an author or a ministry to find out what God has to say about manhood??? Why isn't the Bible enough?

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Church is not about what you get out of it. But neither does a Bible-teaching, doctrinally sound church necessarily mean that Men will be taught how to correctly lead their families and everything will be hunky, dory, fine. There are real problems in the Church and they are NOT being addressed.


If problems are not addressed in your church, then that is a problem with your church. You are free to change churches. If people feel the need to run to a ministry that bases it's teachings on non-Biblical concepts that leads into serious danger zones, then that is a problem with the people and a reflection of the times.




lw9 -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 5:16:05 PM)

AoibhinnGrainne:

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And, since the Bible has all the answers we will ever, only need, why do you read anything else, ever???


Read something in lieu of the Bible as a spiritual guide type thing? Actually, I don't. Just haven't felt the need. If I do run across a book by a Christian pastor or teacher that I know to be sound and addresses a particular topic I'm interested in, I might give it a read someday... maybe. I honestly just haven't been interested in stuff like that. But I can say that I will not sift through an off base author and bad/false theology to try to find something good in it.

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You have offered nothing, as a fellow Believer, to help me, seeing as how I am so misguided and in such danger of error. Nothing. Just pointed out the errors of my ways in a manner closely resembling an almost personal attack and walked a very fine line between sarcasm and arrogance.


What I've seen so far from you here is many desperate attempts to divert the discussion and justify the Eldredge's ministry in every way possible, even to the point of abusing scripture. Your last post is just another in the series of diversions off the topic. I'm sorry, but your arguments do not hold up.

I have addressed your questions and your statements, and I've addressed the problems with the teachings of the Eldredge's - which is the topic of this discussion. Many others have provided the scriptural answers quite well so they beat me to it. If you see discussions and challenges that oppose your views as attacks, then perhaps these kinds of threads are not for you.

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You assume I "ran" to Ransomed Heart. I didn't. I found it quite by happenstance and it aided in a specific area for a specific season. I will repeat myself again:


I believe you have misunderstood. I have been answering in general terms to questions you have asked and statements you have made, so when I use the term 'they' and 'people', or say that getting back to the gospel will result in a true transformation of hearts [plural], I mean exactly that. These were general statements, not personal ones directed towards you.




crankius -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 5:18:21 PM)

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What say ye?


A. There is sin in the world
B. Yikes--there is sin and apathy in the church at large as well
C. So then, let's give men sex, war, and thrill seeking. [:'(] That'll please the Lord and get us back on track!

Does sloppy theology lead to correct thinking and action?

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Apologetics defends the Truth of Christian beliefs to the world.

Polemics defends the Truth of Christian beliefs to the Church.

What we have been engaged in here, primarily, is polemics.

But I digress...


No, what we've been in engaged in here is called demeaning the poster in an effort to undermine their statement. If you can show that I used the wrong term, then you can throw the discussion away from the flaws of Eldredge's bad theology.

I used the term apologetics purposefully. A solid study in apologetics would help a believer recognize open theism when they see it.


I'm sorry you have had a difficult time finding a good church. The church I attend is full of men devoted to being leaders in their families and in the church, and they are filled with a great passion for knowing, understanding, and spreading the Gospel. Correct scriptural understanding is very central to our studies. The kids are taking over and we are running out of room. Are good churches hard to find? Yes--but books like Eldredge's are in plenty.

And of all the men I know who are devoted to the Lord, not one of them is "wild at heart" but rather, they have a heart for the Lord. They are not in an identity crisis--their identity is grounded solidly in the Lord.

See this post for help with one of the quotes, if you are really interested in discussing the bad theology and why it is wrong.




SD456 -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 8:31:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aoi
Right doctrine cannot save you. Right thinking cannot save you. Right practice can become a habit but ONLY if the Holy Spirit truly changes the heart. A truly transformed heart and mind and spirit does...but ONLY if it is found in Christ and illumined by the Spirit who opens our eyes and ears and understanding to what is in Scripture.


Amen! excellent comment and very true.

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ORIGINAL: lw
There are sound churches and ministries out there.


Yes, and thank God He raised up a lot of them so we can glean from lots of different views and different styles of teaching like John Eldredge. God is very good. He always fills all the bases and gives us good teachers like His boy Eldredge to choose from.

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ORIGINAL: lw
The churches that remain faithful to God's word are teaching and offering real life help and application


This is true. There are some churches I know of who use many different wonderful teachers, Eldredge included, in their bible studies. You just have to look very hard to find them.

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ORIGINAL: doinkdom
I also strongly believe as does my husband that there are much better books for men to be reading about being a man than Wild at Heart.


Personally I believe it's a matter of style and that's all. John Eldredge speaks in terminology that he can relate to. The men who can relate to his terminology are the ones who get the most out of what he teaches, the ones who can't go somewhere else. All cool.

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ORIGINAL: lw9
Since when does anyone *have* to run to an author or a ministry to find out what God has to say about manhood??? Why isn't the Bible enough?


*L*. I think that's an argument you'll have to take directly to our Papa in heaven since He's the one who gives men giftings and purposes in their lives; and He's the one who imparts truths to people to impart to the body. God is the one who has decided to give mankind more than just the bible because He's the one who leads His children to create, write, teach, etc., about ALL kinds of subjects.

So are you going to actually say that God didn't raise up John Eldredge but it's all satan's idea to take God's boy, while God is holding Him safely in His hand of course, and use Eldredge for some huge diabolical plot to destroy the church? Nah, I don't think so.

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ORIGINAL: Aoi
I am not allowed to offer anything but reasonable, Biblical defences (by your personal assessment, as yet undelineated, of what is reasonable and Biblical).


Welcome to the crazy, lopsided, illogical forums, Aoi!! Isn't it fun? (If not insanely frustrating at the same time? *L*)

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ORIGINAL: Aoi
You repeatedly draw conclusions from my posts that I am not drawing:


Yes, that has risen to a high art on these forums. Some are extremely good at projecting negative intents and motives into EVERYTHING one says. (and some are better at it then others because they've gone to bible college to study how to do it!)

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ORIGINAL: Aoi
You obviously write with a great deal of hyberpole (all or nothing); seeing things in clear-cut shades of black and white. This is a good thing for me to know.


I think there's a major out there in Hyperbole somewhere! I could swear that many here have taken that course. It is ALL or NOTHING - EXTREMES are very favorite things around here.




SD456 -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 8:47:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: crankius

I'm sorry you have had a difficult time finding a good church. The church I attend is full of men devoted to being leaders in their families and in the church, and they are filled with a great passion for knowing, understanding, and spreading the Gospel. Correct scriptural understanding is very central to our studies. The kids are taking over and we are running out of room. Are good churches hard to find? Yes--but books like Eldredge's are in plenty.

And of all the men I know who are devoted to the Lord, not one of them is "wild at heart" but rather, they have a heart for the Lord. They are not in an identity crisis--their identity is grounded solidly in the Lord.

See this post for help with one of the quotes, if you are really interested in discussing the bad theology and why it is wrong.


Wow, that sounds exactly like the church I attend. And the church I attend teaches the Wild at Heart book (plus many other awesome teachers) and they truly love the prophetic and walk in Jesus' supernatural power. There are miracles and healings that happen regularly. The life of Jesus is very evident and abundant at my church and most of the men would describe themselves as WILD AT HEART because they have hearts that are WILDly in love with our savior and they BOLDLY (some would say 'wildly') go forth to spread the gospel. I think that's truly cool.

And we have hundreds of kids there, too. The kids (teenagers) take the gospel to the streets and malls one night a week, prophecying over people, praying for healings and leading many to Jesus. They get so excited when they see miracles happen before their eyes and when they hear people say that the prophetic word given was exactly what that person needed to hear - and when they lead them to Christ, that is the best of all!! They cry.

It's so cool that God has a body where unique functions are being manifested and the Holy Spirit is moving through them with His giftings.

Thanks for sharing about your church. I love to hear praise reports.




crankius -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/28/2008 11:22:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Kat_D

All this romancing stuff...so lame and so low. Jesus is NOT like us. He will not ever be on our level...some can try and pull Him down, but it will never be so. He is God! People need to get over themselves. Jesus is not our boyfriend, or our romantic lover...He is God and deserves our honor and our awesome respect...we should tremble at His Name.

Try and feed me that romance garbage, and you'll be romancing a stone![sm=growlwarning.gif]


Kat,

Here is a quote from Captivating that I thought you would enjoy. [:D]

“Think of one of the most romantic scenes you can remember, scenes that made you sigh. Jack with Rose on the bow of the Titanic, his arms around her waist, their first kiss. Wallace speaking in French to Murron, then in Italian: “Not as beautiful as you.” Aragorn, standing with Arwen in the moonlight on the bridge in Rivendell, declaring his love for her. Edward returning for Elinor in Sense and Sensibility, and professor Behr returning for Jo at the end of Little Women. Now, put yourself in the scene as the Beauty, and Jesus as the Lover” (page 114).


And another:

“you are meant to fill a place in the heart of God no one and nothing else can fill. He longs for you” (page 120).




SD456 -> RE: RANSOMED HEART MINSTRIES & JOHN ELDREDGE: CULT? (4/29/2008 12:50:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: crankius
“you are meant to fill a place in the heart of God no one and nothing else can fill. He longs for you” (page 120).


That's a good one and so very true. We each touch a place in God's heart that no one else could ever touch or replace. Just like how we feel for each of our individual children. We love them each separately and not one of them could replace the other one in our hearts and each one touches our heart in a unique way. God definately longs for us or else He would never have pursued us with His love or sent His only son. That's the greatest love story that ever has been and ever will be.

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ORIGINAL: lw9
Many others have provided the scriptural answers quite well so they beat me to it.


Whoa Nelly, stop the bible train for just a moment. What exactly are these great scriptural answers, lw, that you believe people have given in this thread that denounce Eldredge? You yourself have not used any scripture thus far. Here are two of the scriptures that have been used in this thread which do not rebuff Eldredge at all:

From Kat: "The heart is deceitful above all things, And desperately wicked; Who can know it? 10 I, the Lord, search the heart, I test the mind, Even to give every man according to his ways, According to the fruit of his doings."
- Jeremiah 17:9


God had an answer that would transform our heart. In Jer 33: I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people. and also Rom 2:29 circumcision is circumcision of the heart, by the Spirit.

From Kat: Matt 15: But those things which proceed out of the mouth come from the heart, and they defile a man. 19 For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies. 20 These are the things which defile a man,

Absolutely true for those who are unregenerated and unsaved (like the Pharisees Jesus was speaking to), but those are the works of darkness that Jesus was speaking about and we are children of light who walk in the light. We are transformed and no longer do the works of darkness. Those who commit such things (regularly and unrepentant) shall not enter heaven. Here is the truth about God's children's hearts:

Mt 5:8
"Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.
Our hearts are purified by Christ

Mt 6:21
For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
If our treasure is in Jesus then that is where our heart shall be, not in some depraved, evil place committing adulteries.

Mt 22:37
And he said to him, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.
Our new heart is able to overflow with love for God.

Lu 6:45
The good man out of the good treasure of his heart produces good
Our hearts are made good (as Eldredge clearly stated) by the good treasures of Christ that fill it and we can produce good out of the good things that fill our heart. Whereas conversely in regards to an unregenerated man Lu 6:45b the evil man out of his evil treasure produces evil We are no longer evil men, thus our hearts are no longer depraved.

In fact our hearts are now so far away from that deceitful, wicked heart we once owned that Jesus says: Joh 7:38 He who believes in me, as the scripture has said, 'Out of his heart shall flow rivers of living water. Not only are our hearts now filled with goodness, but the living waters of Christ Himself fill our hearts and overflow out of them in such abundance that it's like rivers.

Ac 8:21
You have neither part nor lot in this matter, for your heart is not right before God.
Our hearts can actually be made 'right' before God so that they are no longer desperately wicked.

Ro 10:10
For man believes with his heart and so is justified.
It is in our hearts where faith resides.

Jas 1:26
If any one thinks he is religious, and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this man's religion is vain.
Suddenly the opposite thing can happen. Our hearts no longer deceive us (once we are redeemed) but we can deceive our hearts and make ourselves think that we are doing good when we are actually being hypocrites.

1Ti 1:5
whereas the aim of our charge is love that issues from a pure heart and a good conscience and sincere faith.
Again, our once deceitful, depraved heart has been made pure by Christ.

Heb 10:22
let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, with our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience.
And yet again, our hearts are washed clean and made true - NO LONGER DECEITFUL and wicked.

And there is many more verses that speak about our heart being made righteous, clean and good in Christ. John Eldredge had it right in the comment that Kat quoted and attempted to rebuff (below). In fact, Eldredge has it far more right than Kat or any of you thus far. Yes we still have a sin nature, but that is our flesh, not our heart and it is a battle, according to Paul, that is NOT coming out of our new nature/heart/spirit/mind but is the sin working in us and fighting against our new spirit:

Too many Christians today are living back in the old covenant. They’ve had Jeremiah 17:9 drilled into them and they walk around believing my heart is deceitfully wicked. Not anymore it’s not. Read the rest of the book. In Jeremiah 31:33, God announces the cure for all that: ‘I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people.’ I will give you a new heart. That’s why Paul says in Romans 2:29, ‘No, a man is a Jew if he is one inwardly, and circumcision is circumcision of the heart, by the Spirit.’ Sin is not the deepest thing about you. You have a new heart. Did you hear me? Your heart is good. … The Big Lie in the church today is that you are nothing more than ‘a sinner saved by grace.’ You are a lot more than that. You are a new creation in Christ. The New Testament calls you a saint, a holy one, a son of God. In the core of your being you are a good man. Yes, there is a war within us, but it is a civil war. The battle is not between us and God; no, there is a traitor within who wars against the true heart (see Heb 10:22 above where our hearts are now true) fighting alongside the Spirit of God in us” (Eldredge, Wild at Heart, pp. 133, 134, 144




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