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Seth587 -> RE: What really turns you off in women? (5/9/2008 10:24:15 AM)
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Hi, first time poster here. Many of you guys have already said much of what I would say.
Probably the number one turnoff for me is her being out of shape. I like a girl who knows men are visually oriented and eats right and exercises to keep her self fit. I know many ladies think its superficial for guys to care about looks and that we should love them just the way they are. That's true, but loving someone and physcial attraction are different things. Should she not love us for just they way we are? Which includes our desire to have a fit heathy mate. I think ladies should love the fact that we are visually oriented, it gives them so much power to entice us and attract us if they just take care of themselves. When someone men and women both, don't take care of themselves it seems unloving to me. Physical attraction isn't all there is for sure but I think it is a necessary component to a good marriage.
Other big turnoffs include smokers, excessive drinkers, ultra-feminists, prissy girls that are afraid to get there hands dirty or do anything exciting, girls who are promiscious (chastity is so attractive but almost impossible to find), excessive cussing, no sense of humor, unkindness to other people, unaffectionate personality, stand-offish, uninterested in sex or sexual things. I could probably go on forever, not because there is so much I dont like its that there is so much I can find attractive in a woman and everything has its opposite.
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