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JenP -> Is this rude? (5/6/2008 8:35:24 AM)
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A few years ago, I was friends with a group of people. There were 4 couples and one single girl. Over the past few years, some things happened and we grew apart. I only very recently started talking to them all again, over the past few months. My fiance and I are starting to get closer to one of the couples.
Three of the four couples invited us to their wedding. While we talk to some of them now, we arent really friends anymore and while it seems that its looking like the friendships could be building back up, we cant afford to invite everyone to our wedding, even though three of the couples invited us to theirs.
The couple who we are getting closer with, and were closer with in the past, we really are excited to be starting over a friendship with and really really want them at our wedding.
Wouldl it be rude to only invite them and none of the others, or would it be better to just not invite any?
See, my parents want to invite so many of their friends and family (they are paying for the reception part and at this point its too late to change their minds). There will be so many people, that we decided not to invite any friends, except have bigger wedding party and only have our closest friends there but be in the wedding party, then that would make it easier for us to tell people why they werent invited, because we ddidnt invite friends! Well, we invited my one friend who is moving to Egypt for missions in December, but that's a little different cause I dont know if and when I will see her again!
Would it be rude to invite this ONE other couple?
The wedding is in June. I am afraid everyone will be mad at me. The invites started going out already so it isnt too late to add them but I am pretty sure others will be mad at me if I do this and I dont want that either but really want this couple there.
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