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ORIGINAL: colliefan

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This person was speaking of a widow or widower I can't remember which one. I was married for almost 20 years and I have three young children. Would it be assumed that I am in love with a ghost? Or, that a widow or widower can't move on and have a healthy relationship, because they lost one they loved so dearly?

I think that being in love with a ghost simply comes from a movie. In terms of a relationship, the guy has to know he can't do anything about your past - even though it was good. And you can do nothing about his; all you have is the present and the future. I assume that both of you would be Christians; with the help of the HS all is possible. Doesn't mean that it will be easy but God will help through the rough times.

You don't give the the age of your children. How are they doing with the loss of their father?