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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/15/2008 9:04:22 PM
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crh737
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If in fact you are truly angry at God, first, you gave you the light to know that he even exist, second, don't blame the source of every life since Adam and Eve on you not being able to deal with not being in control, third, if God is love and everything is for the best for us, do we return love with anger? My life as it is, isn't God's fault but planning, and me doing my own thing and blaming God for all my pitfalls. It will interesting to see if anyone when they get to heaven will stand before the throne and give God what for!!!!!.RIGHT.
#1 I did not blame God for my problems. My problems are just that Mine
#2 You do not know why or what I was angry about
#3 I don't believe you were sitting with God when I spoke to Him
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/15/2008 9:24:18 PM
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KissTheSon....please tell your friend, what if he/ she experience what I did today? I got a text message from my big brother early in the morning that my Dad just passed away!!! Did I get angry to Jesus Christ? NOPE! I just washed up & ran in tears (and mixed emotion inside) to my new church ASAP for support & prayed there inside the empty hall, where I could find peace. I believe he's already with Jesus, back together again with my Mom in Heaven above, amen. Just remember, God does love each and everyone of us, amen. Thank you all for reading this.....GBU.
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/15/2008 9:27:02 PM
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crh737: my statement is directed in a general sense, not personal.
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/15/2008 10:07:10 PM
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Whoa. If the woman would have had all green lights, would she have praised Him?
Sounds like she's a little confused about "relationship."
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 12:07:08 AM
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In light of the gospels, the letters of Paul, Peter, James and John etc is it right to get mad at God, express your anger and give him a piece of your mind? I read many comments on different christian forums saying that God doesn't mind when we get angry with him. In fact they seem to encourage fellow believers that this is part of having a relationship with him.
here's an exsample: I have a friend who had a slew of red lights on the way to church and then she got mad at God and told him it was his fault she was late for church.
In the long run does expressing your anger towards God help you to mature spiritaully? Does God mind us giving him a good "what for?"
Isaiah 45:9 says it best. "Woe to him that striveth with his Maker..."
God is our creator. Blaming Him for our problems doesn't make sense. If you don't believe me, ask Adam how far he got blaming God for his sin.
Your answers always make me smile. Short, to the point and right on!!
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 12:09:11 AM
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KissTheSon....please tell your friend, what if he/ she experience what I did today? I got a text message from my big brother early in the morning that my Dad just passed away!!! Did I get angry to Jesus Christ? NOPE! I just washed up & ran in tears (and mixed emotion inside) to my new church ASAP for support & prayed there inside the empty hall, where I could find peace. I believe he's already with Jesus, back together again with my Mom in Heaven above, amen. Just remember, God does love each and everyone of us, amen. Thank you all for reading this.....GBU.
awesome! I am blessed to hear you turned to Jesus in the midst of your pain.
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 12:14:45 AM
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kisstheson
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More excellent sharing guys! I have posted this question on several christian boards and so far you get the gold star!
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 4:05:13 AM
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perfect and everything He allows in our lives is used to perfect us and make us more like Him.
To me, much of this is about the new movement that wants to bring God down to our level...to debase and lower who He really is...to degrade Him and make Him more like us in every way. When this happens, the next step is obviously to treat Him like we do other humans instead of treating Him like God.
KatD~
In no way have I ever debased God or even tried to bring Him to my level. Nor have I think or treat Him like a lowly human.
Do not insinuate that I am part or believe the new age garbage that is out there.
My personal experience when I *was* angry with Him, He already knew I was angry and He did not give me anger back but gently rebuked me, showing me my error, that my anger was displaced.
CRH
Actually, the only part of my post that referred to what you said was the first paragraph (which you omitted when you quoted me here).
I then started a new paragraph and gave my viewpoint on the reason why I think many believe it is acceptable to rant and rave at God. This was not directed at you...it was a general statement and I'm sorry that you made the assumption that it was personal.
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I weep for those who won't experience this because they have been deceived.
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 8:11:43 AM
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I am a little curious...
is there anything that has made "you" angry with God?
Nothing comes to my mind...and I am often angry but can't really think of anything I could blame God for.
99.9% its me.
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 8:21:32 AM
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I think that if we find ourselves, in our heart of hearts, angry with God (and it does happen sometimes but should not be our habitual way of dealing with life) the only thing to do is admit it to Him and get it all out in the open. Yes, God is beyond big enough to handle our anger and much better for us to be honest about it than to deny it and stagnate.
On the other hand, blaming God for making me late to church is ludicrous.
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 8:31:11 AM
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I am a little curious...
is there anything that has made "you" angry with God?
Nothing comes to my mind...and I am often angry but can't really think of anything I could blame God for.
99.9% its me.
Yes. It was mistaken and misplaced anger but it was anger nonetheless.
As an example, anger is one of the stages of grief.
Sometimes we are angry at the one who has left us.
Sometimes we're angry at our circumstances.
But sometimes we are angry at God for having "taken our loved one away".
It is vitally important to recognize who we are specifically angry with and have a sincere heart to heart about it with God. If we deny our anger because it's "wrong", there can never be any moving beyond it.
But, having once recognized that we were actually angry with our Creator, it is to be hoped that we will have a much more rational response in the future which causes us to run to Jesus rather than rail at God.
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 8:47:57 AM
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I think is is unfortunate that the OP asked such an important question, but used such a silly example. Some peoples response seem to be directed at the example, while others are directed at the question.
"In the long run does expressing your anger towards God help you to mature spiritaully? Does God mind us giving him a good "what for?"
This is a valid and important question.
What God wants from us is honesty and genuineness. He wants this not for Himself, but for us...He already knows the truth about us, whether we acknowledge it to ourselves or not.
The alternative to honesty and genuineness is pretending...acting. Jesus harshest words were always reserved for the pretenders. God deals in reality, not fantasy. If you are angry with God, that is the reality.
It is okay to be real with God. It is better then okay, it is what He wants.
Peace
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 5:26:03 PM
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I've had cancer. I've been through two broken engagements. I've been laid off from a couple of jobs. I've had my share of difficulty in this life.
Through it all, I've never blamed God for any painful thing in my life. It just doesn't make any sense, in my opinion, to get angry at God. He's always good, always loving. If I experience any difficult times, it's the result of my sin or someone else's, and/or is something the Lord is using to discipline me for good.
I've never understood why anyone would be angry at God, in effect accusing Him of sinning.
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 6:37:16 PM
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I never got angry at my dad mainly because I have always had great respect for him. It used to upset me when I disappointed him or caused him to be angry at me.
This is the way I feel about God but multiplied to infinity.
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 6:38:26 PM
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I never got angry at my dad mainly because I have always had great respect for him. It used to upset me when I disappointed him or caused him to be angry at me.
This is the way I feel about God but multiplied to infinity.
Excellent point! (And bookmarked too!)
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 6:43:59 PM
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The thing is, not all of us had dads. And those that did, not all of those dads were good parents. Many of us learned that dad is vindictive, hurtful and hateful. Someone who would much rather give us a snake than a fish (is that how it goes?) Because our idea of our Heavenly Father is very much influenced by our earthly father, many of us grew up warped and with a skewed view.
It takes a long time, under those circumstances, to come to a more truthful view of what God is really like.
Those who have gotten angry with God are not bad people. They are people who are misplacing their anger or who have a twisted view of who God is.
That said, those who habitually blame God and remain angry really need to get honest about themselves with God.
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 6:53:39 PM
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On that note, I do believe I owe an apology. I do not want it to seem as though I was saying anyone that gets angry with God is a bad person for it. Thank you for the gentle reminder my dear friend.
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 6:58:59 PM
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((((Dude))))
I really didn't mean that you had. More like I was trying to give some idea of the mindset for those who honestly cannot comprehend being angry with God.
And, again, I cannot stress strongly enough that, IMHO, blaming God for making you late for church is really out of whack.
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 7:00:05 PM
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((((Dude))))
I really didn't mean that you had. More like I was trying to give some idea of the mindset for those who honestly cannot comprehend being angry with God.
And, again, I cannot stress strongly enough that, IMHO, blaming God for making you late for church is really out of whack.
True... Especially when just leaving a few minutes earlier would probably take care of that.
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 8:10:16 PM
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crh737
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I am a little curious...
is there anything that has made "you" angry with God?
Nothing comes to my mind...and I am often angry but can't really think of anything I could blame God for.
99.9% its me.
Yes. It was mistaken and misplaced anger but it was anger nonetheless.
As an example, anger is one of the stages of grief.
Sometimes we are angry at the one who has left us.
Sometimes we're angry at our circumstances.
But sometimes we are angry at God for having "taken our loved one away".
It is vitally important to recognize who we are specifically angry with and have a sincere heart to heart about it with God. If we deny our anger because it's "wrong", there can never be any moving beyond it.
But, having once recognized that we were actually angry with our Creator, it is to be hoped that we will have a much more rational response in the future which causes us to run to Jesus rather than rail at God.
Thank you
CRH
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RE: Hitting God between the eyes... - 5/16/2008 9:38:06 PM
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CoeurdeLeon
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People get angry at God because they do not truly know Him. Once you truly know God, you can't help but love Him and anger is a rare thing.
Of course, I agree with this. The only problem I have is with implying that a poor soul who doesn't truly know Him ought to know better than to ever experience that anger.
We can only 'know better' when we learn to know Him. Sometimes that takes a very long time and requires overcoming many enormous obstacles and unlearning an awful lot of things we've been taught.
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I am so sorry to hear the news about your pop. 
)... many folks just do not have a holy and reverent fear of God anymore. There is such a thing as righteous anger... an anger that demonstrates our feelings regarding an injustice done. I don't think "red lights" qualify as righteous anger. Even though we do not control the lights, we do control how we drive; all she needed to do was slow to an acceptable speed (or speed up) and re-adjust her driving to the timing of the lights. However, blaming God is easier for people. Why? Because then they eliminate themselves of "responsibility." 
