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Annie64 -> RE: Tithes and Offerings - One Stop Thread (10/17/2008 4:41:36 AM)
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You have a great testimony! Thanks for sharing it. I have a story to share, too. It covers a longer period of time, and doesn't involve an actual crisis, but it's pretty awesome, I think. Toward the beginning of 2007, my husband and I were looking at and praying about the possibility of my going back to work and putting our kids in a Christian school, as opposed to the homeschooling we were doing. Shortly after we checked with the school where we wanted to enroll them, and where my daughter especially wanted to go, and found out what the tuition would be, we got our yearly report the church always gives us on our giving. To my surprise, our total giving was approximately the same as the tuition for the two children we wanted to enroll. The thought briefly crossed my mind, "If we didn't tithe, I wouldn't have to go back to work." That was only a brief thought. I didn't really entertain it. After a five month employment roller coaster, I didn't get just any job, but the exact one I wanted. I wanted to go back to the job I had before I quit to homeschool, but didn't expect them to rehire me since I had quit twice before. (I had tried to go back once before, while I was still homeschooling, and found it too difficult to work while trying to homeschool. I know some people do it, but I couldn't.) And at the beginning, they didn't have any openings anyway. When I did get the job, it happened in such a way that it was completely clear that God gave it to me. So the kids got to go to their school for the 2007-2008 school year, and it was a great move for our family, for the most part. Then came last spring, when the last thing we expected came on us. My husband, along with 300 of his co-workers, was called to a meeting and told that their department was being sent to Germany and they would all be losing their jobs within six months to three years. Because we didn't know what would happen, we made plans not to send the kids back to their school, which my daughter especially loved, and to bring them back to homeschool. The only way this could be prevented was for my husband to be able to change jobs within his company before the end of July (first month's tuition was due at the beginning of August, and we needed to have made our decision by then.) We didn't see how it would be possible for him to make such a move within such a short period of time, with so many others looking to do the same. If he got another job somewhere else, even if it was the same job, he would lose his seniority and wouldn't make nearly the money he was making at the company where he has worked for several years. Long story short, he was able to move to a new job within the company over the summer and the kids went back to their school with no interruption. What if we had yielded to the temptation to stop tithing, to use our tithes to pay for our kids' school? After all, we could have argued, it was a Christian school we'd be supporting with that money. I can't be certain of this, of course, but my guess is that whenever I did decide to go back to work, I wouldn't have gotten my old job back that I liked so much. Nor would my husband have been able to change jobs in the company in time so we could know he had a stable job and could send our kids back to their school. And maybe the school itself wouldn't have proven a blessing. I really believe that we were blessed because we tithed. This was not a need. This was a luxury for us, to send our kids to Christian school. It's true that we do it because we want our kids to have a Christian education, and want to honor God with what our kids are taught, but still, private school is a luxury. God didn't have to do this for us. Not that He has to do anything for us. Jesus already gave His life for us. My question to those who don't believe in tithing is this: why not tithe? Isn't it possible to not have to do it, but do it anyway to honor God, and because you are grateful to Him? God has given me so much more than I deserve, so much more than I have any right to expect. What's ten percent compared with what Jesus did on the cross?
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