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leah777 -> RE: Let's Chat! June 23rd thru June 30th (6/25/2008 7:01:43 PM)
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LOL Barb! Well, 'non-traditional' seems to be the trend these days, so just go for it. I was invited to my first 'pot-luck' wedding last year. I have to admit, it rankled a bit. Seemed a bit much to ask the guests to bring the food when we were also bringing a gift, etc. That particular wedding was held on a raft on the river. And, as it turned out, I didn't go to it (kinda paid for that in more ways than one [:(]) But, I've always had a thing about being invited to a gathering of any kind where gifts would be expected & being asked also to bring a covered dish , so guess it's just me. But, if I were to give advice . . which I'm not cuz it's not allowed on here, ya know [;)], so I'm just giving my opinion [:D] . . I would say the least expensive way to go is the best. I think weddings have gotten a bit out of hand. Many families really can't afford all the falderol & expense of big weddings, yet do it anyway, on credit -- sometimes I wonder if they got that credit card bill paid off before the couple wound up in divorce court [sm=shakinghead.gif] . . . so whatever happened to the simple ceremony -- even in the parent's backyard -- with a cake & punch reception. The other side of that would be that many families travel LONG distances to go to weddings (we never have), so would be more inclined to expect a meal, I guess. If I had my daughter's to do over, I would certainly encourage SIMPLE [sm=icon_smile_bow.gif] Well, not much sewing again today, tho I did manage to get a jacket to the point of a fitting, and even took it by for that fitting on my way home a while ago, as well as delivered 4 other pieces to the lady that I'd completed. But I got a call early this morning to help out with my friend again, so I sat with her for the afternoon. And we both had a good nap! [sm=angelhalo.gif] . . . boy that felt good, after the night I had. And I got the rest of my flowers potted this morning, too, so did get stuff accomplished.
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