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mariaangel -> Dating, Transsexualism, and Bisexuality (6/27/2008 5:43:28 PM)
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I am a Male to Female Transsexual and when it comes to dating it is very challenging, I am always scared that the person I am dating might discover that my sexual parts are male or that my breasts arent natural, or if my makeup were to wear off or if I forget to take my hormones. There is a 1 in 12 chance that I will be killed if I am discovered to be transsexual, I guess that is what I am really scared of. But I shouldnt be scared of being who I am and have always been, unfortunately that is the way society works. Some of my ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends discovered that I am transsexual when they tried to turn the relationship into a sexual one, they either attacked me physically, verbally, or just left. I dont believe in or condone pre-marital sex in any way. Sex can only be in the facility of marriage. Also marriage is blind and about love, if you truly love the person you should have the right to be with them. My family doesnt talk to me anymore, many people I have known for a long time no longer talk to me, and because I express who I am. The people who accept me for being transsexual, they are the only ones that deserve to be called family or friends. I am with this girl named Caitlyn and I really love her so I want to be able to tell her that I am transsexual, I just dont know how to do it and how she will react, since my other relationships havent ended well. Can anyone give me advice or suggestions or ideas as to how I can tell her? Because, I really dont know what to do or what to say without causing a bad reaction.
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