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RE: Cursing in church - 7/5/2008 6:35:56 PM
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TrustingGod
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Who decides what are curse words? I believe God looks at the heart and not the words. Although I agree that it was in poor taste. What about the word so many people are using that is close but describes another bodily function "I'm p__s__d off". I hate that word and cringe when I hear Christians (including youth pastor) use it. It is the same as the "s" word to me.
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RE: Cursing in church - 7/5/2008 6:58:29 PM
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McFatty
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TrustingGod You have to realize that so many Christians follow what they're told and not what they read. There's not a single verse in the Bible which even suggests that there are certain words which are never okay to say, never mind an indication of what those words might be. If someone decides for themselves that they don't like certain words, I will respect them, but I hope they can take a moment and understand that it's their personal decision: they need not judge every single person who uses a word they've decided is "taboo". It's one of those Pharisee overly legal things, in my opinion.
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RE: Cursing in church - 7/5/2008 9:32:47 PM
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ORIGINAL: McFatty TrustingGod You have to realize that so many Christians follow what they're told and not what they read. There's not a single verse in the Bible which even suggests that there are certain words which are never okay to say, never mind an indication of what those words might be. If someone decides for themselves that they don't like certain words, I will respect them, but I hope they can take a moment and understand that it's their personal decision: they need not judge every single person who uses a word they've decided is "taboo". It's one of those Pharisee overly legal things, in my opinion. It's a good thing we don't have to go by our opinions, but by Gods Word. If we all went by our "opinion" we would have anarchy, wouldn't we? Profanity, A Bible Study, part 1 First, the data gathering phase. Ephesians 4:29-32 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. What does the context suggest that “corrupting” or “unwholesome” means? Here’s the entry in BAGD Greek-English lexicon for the word translated “corrupting” or “unwholesome” “sapros”(‘make putrid’) 1. lit. of such poor quality as to be of little or no value, bad, not good A. in the prim. sense spoiled, rotten (of spoiled fish Antiphanes Com. [IV BC] fgm. 218, 4 K. [in Athen. 6, 225f]) of rotten fruits (PFlor , 9 figs; Theophr., HP 4, 14, 10 of worms that infect olives) of grapes that lie on the ground and rot Hs 2:4. B. of poor quality bad a) of living matter, fish Mt 13:48 (s. BAR 19, ’93, 52; it is of semantic significance that these fish have just been caught and would therefore not be rotten or spoiled, whereas Antiphanes in the ref. cited above [1a] declaims about fish that have been in the marketplace too long).—Of plants and their products (Aristoph., Theophr. et al.; PFay 119, 4; 6) that are of inferior quality: trees, Mt 7:17f; 12:33a; Lk 6:43b; fruit Mt 12:33b; Lk 6:43a. Unless the proverb contains hyperbolic diction, ‘rotten’ would be an inappropriate rendering, since ‘rotten’ trees would either not bear any fruit at all or at the most fruit of such poor quality as to be inedible. b) of stones unusable, unfit, bad, stones of poor quality 2. bad or unwholesome to the extent of being harmful, bad, evil, unwholesome, in a moral sense an evil word, evil speech Eph 4:29 Ephesians 5:3-5 But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints. 4 Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving. 5 For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous ( that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. All of the words in bold above occur only here in the NT. Again, what does context suggest they mean? Depending on your translation, the English word “profane” occurs about 75x in the Bible, usually of desecrating a holy place or blaspheming the name of God. All but once or twice it translates this Hebrew word: (chalal) vb. pollute, defile, profane; – Niphal 1. reflex. pollute, defile oneself a. ritually, by contact with dead. b. sexually. 2. Passive, be polluted, defiled, of holy places, name of God and even God himself. Piel 1. defile, pollute: a. sexually, (the father’s bed); a woman. b. ceremonially, profane, the altar by a tool; sacred places; the holy land; sacred things; the sabbath; and so the sanctity of the prince of Tyre who made himself God, and his holy places. c. the name of God, God himself. d. defiles or profanes his inheritance by giving it over to Babylon; the princes of the sanctuary by giving them to Chaldeans. 2. violate the honour of, dishonor, or this Greek word: (Bebelow) to cause someth. highly revered to become identified with the commonplace, violate sanctity, desecrate, profane the Sabbath “Obscene” occurs once and translates this word: (aischrologes) speech of a kind that is generally considered in poor taste, obscene speech, dirty talk (Aristot., EN 4, 8 [1128a], contrasts the preference for obscenity in older drama with the more refined taste of later times and argues that obscenity, can be expected from those of servile nature but not from a cultured gentleman. Clem. Al., Paed. 2, 6, 52 might properly be defined as story-telling involving such unseemly deeds as adultery or pederasty. aivscro,j=obscene: Ps.-Demetr. Eloc. 151). Obscene expressions would also be used to flavor derogatory remarks (s. Aristot. above); hence the rendering scurrilous talk (Polyb. 8, 11, 8; 31, 6, 4; BGU 909, 11f ) is pertinent Col 3:8, esp. since blasphemy (=‘defamation) immediately precedes. The gener. sense dirty talk fits D 5:1, which could apply to ribald stories as well as scurrilous talk. And now, here’s the context to constrain the lexicon: Colossians 3:5-15 Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. 6 On account of these the wrath of God is coming. 7 In these you too once walked, when you were living in them. 8 But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth. 9 Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices 10 and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator. 11 Here there is not Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free; but Christ is all, and in all. 12 Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, 13 bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. 14 And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. 15 And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful.
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RE: Cursing in church - 7/5/2008 10:10:32 PM
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zoebob
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Those of you who don't find this problematic would you deliberately use that word in front of your young children or neices or nephews? Would you be OK with hearing it come out of their mouths?
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RE: Cursing in church - 7/6/2008 8:39:38 AM
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everjoyful
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I once heard a sermon (can't rememeber when but it stuck in my head.) someone was talking about something and used a forbidden word. They then went on to talk about some totally amazing stuff that ought to be heard and finished there speech off and then said something about the fact that most of us would have missed the important message because we were still seething about the fact he had said that word. I can't remember what the talk was but I remember a lot of sheepish looking people when he said that. What that man said in your church was innapropriate sure but was his testimony something worth hearing? I am sure someone must have said to him afterwards about it. I wouldn't come down hard on someone who swears. (it is something I am currently working through myself.) we are all at different stages of the journey and some of us need to refine our manners somewhat--please teach us and be patient with us.
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RE: Cursing in church - 7/6/2008 8:52:41 AM
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Even in the book of the revelations of John... when Jesus says that He wishes the church was hot or cold, not luke warm... because of that He "spits you out of His mouth"... an old way to say "vomit". Now we would say something to the effect of "you make me sick" and some would even get more descriptive. Always taylor your speech for your audience. I don't like to hear profanity and seldom use it. I can usually flavor my speech without using it, but I don't get bent out of shape over it either. It isn't the words themselves, but the heart behind them. When you read all the definitions posted by Sonrise, that becomes even more apparent. Folks can say the most rotten things in the sweetest way.
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RE: Cursing in church - 7/7/2008 8:21:03 AM
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Jet_A_Jockey
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this one is easy, something so obvious to make your brother(s) stumble should not be permitted. Is a man in church giving is testimony to glorify God or to glorify his own ego? If the pastor condones this type of behavior then I suggest looking for a new church.
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RE: Cursing in church - 7/11/2008 2:00:50 PM
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McFatty
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ORIGINAL: Sonrise quote:
ORIGINAL: McFatty TrustingGod You have to realize that so many Christians follow what they're told and not what they read. There's not a single verse in the Bible which even suggests that there are certain words which are never okay to say, never mind an indication of what those words might be. If someone decides for themselves that they don't like certain words, I will respect them, but I hope they can take a moment and understand that it's their personal decision: they need not judge every single person who uses a word they've decided is "taboo". It's one of those Pharisee overly legal things, in my opinion. It's a good thing we don't have to go by our opinions, but by Gods Word. If we all went by our "opinion" we would have anarchy, wouldn't we? Profanity, A Bible Study, part 1 First, the data gathering phase. Ephesians 4:29-32 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. What does the context suggest that “corrupting” or “unwholesome” means? Here’s the entry in BAGD Greek-English lexicon for the word translated “corrupting” or “unwholesome” “sapros”(‘make putrid’) 1. lit. of such poor quality as to be of little or no value, bad, not good A. in the prim. sense spoiled, rotten (of spoiled fish Antiphanes Com. [IV BC] fgm. 218, 4 K. [in Athen. 6, 225f]) of rotten fruits (PFlor , 9 figs; Theophr., HP 4, 14, 10 of worms that infect olives) of grapes that lie on the ground and rot Hs 2:4. B. of poor quality bad a) of living matter, fish Mt 13:48 (s. BAR 19, ’93, 52; it is of semantic significance that these fish have just been caught and would therefore not be rotten or spoiled, whereas Antiphanes in the ref. cited above [1a] declaims about fish that have been in the marketplace too long).—Of plants and their products (Aristoph., Theophr. et al.; PFay 119, 4; 6) that are of inferior quality: trees, Mt 7:17f; 12:33a; Lk 6:43b; fruit Mt 12:33b; Lk 6:43a. Unless the proverb contains hyperbolic diction, ‘rotten’ would be an inappropriate rendering, since ‘rotten’ trees would either not bear any fruit at all or at the most fruit of such poor quality as to be inedible. b) of stones unusable, unfit, bad, stones of poor quality 2. bad or unwholesome to the extent of being harmful, bad, evil, unwholesome, in a moral sense an evil word, evil speech Eph 4:29 Ephesians 5:3-5 But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints. 4 Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving. 5 For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous ( that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. All of the words in bold above occur only here in the NT. Again, what does context suggest they mean? Depending on your translation, the English word “profane” occurs about 75x in the Bible, usually of desecrating a holy place or blaspheming the name of God. All but once or twice it translates this Hebrew word: (chalal) vb. pollute, defile, profane; – Niphal 1. reflex. pollute, defile oneself a. ritually, by contact with dead. b. sexually. 2. Passive, be polluted, defiled, of holy places, name of God and even God himself. Piel 1. defile, pollute: a. sexually, (the father’s bed); a woman. b. ceremonially, profane, the altar by a tool; sacred places; the holy land; sacred things; the sabbath; and so the sanctity of the prince of Tyre who made himself God, and his holy places. c. the name of God, God himself. d. defiles or profanes his inheritance by giving it over to Babylon; the princes of the sanctuary by giving them to Chaldeans. 2. violate the honour of, dishonor, or this Greek word: (Bebelow) to cause someth. highly revered to become identified with the commonplace, violate sanctity, desecrate, profane the Sabbath “Obscene” occurs once and translates this word: (aischrologes) speech of a kind that is generally considered in poor taste, obscene speech, dirty talk (Aristot., EN 4, 8 [1128a], contrasts the preference for obscenity in older drama with the more refined taste of later times and argues that obscenity, can be expected from those of servile nature but not from a cultured gentleman. Clem. Al., Paed. 2, 6, 52 might properly be defined as story-telling involving such unseemly deeds as adultery or pederasty. aivscro,j=obscene: Ps.-Demetr. Eloc. 151). Obscene expressions would also be used to flavor derogatory remarks (s. Aristot. above); hence the rendering scurrilous talk (Polyb. 8, 11, 8; 31, 6, 4; BGU 909, 11f ) is pertinent Col 3:8, esp. since blasphemy (=‘defamation) immediately precedes. The gener. sense dirty talk fits D 5:1, which could apply to ribald stories as well as scurrilous talk. And now, here’s the context to constrain the lexicon: Colossians 3:5-15 Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. 6 On account of these the wrath of God is coming. 7 In these you too once walked, when you were living in them. 8 But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth. 9 Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices 10 and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator. 11 Here there is not Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free; but Christ is all, and in all. 12 Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, 13 bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. 14 And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. 15 And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. So your biggest problem with my post was the semantics involved in the word "opinion"? Come on. Argue the rest of the text if you will, but zeroing in on one word isn't the way to do it. I am a linguist, so I understand the background of these words very well. Nothing indicates that there are specific words which are, no matter in what context they are used, sinful to say. That's man-made legalistic control, (dare I say it) in my opinion.
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