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pstrdebi -> Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/1/2008 6:08:14 PM)
I'm shopping with my daughter for her wedding... we stop for Japanese food in the mall... and conversation turns to and old familiar one... My death wishes! [sm=icon_smile_yikes.gif] My kids have had many of these conversations with me... and they think I'm a little crazy... but when it comes down to it, they know I'm serious. They all know that I have certain things I want done when it's my turn to go Home to Heaven. (of course... this is only in case something should happen before I'm raptured![sm=angel.gif]) I know where I'm going... so I want them to have a party... a celebration! So, throughout the years we have had lot's of these discussions. We laugh and they make jokes... but they all know the details. So... how about you? Do you have any particular wishes you want your family to fulfill when you go home? Share your details and why. [:D]

delete123 -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/1/2008 6:30:15 PM)
PstrDebi~ I'm suprised you not on your way after eating sushi! Rotfl [8D] Anyhow my family think I am wrong, but I am more of a Job when it comes to death. I arrived naked and without nothing and that's how I want to go. I do not want an wake or open funeral, if those who know me can not say they appreciate me now, then I do not want them at a grave saying things to my family that they couldn't tell me. I want my end to be where I began, so asked that my ashes be spread there and then they can celebrate my life if they choose. I'm a very simple person in a lot of ways, but like my son being very young I am doing a journal for him as well as a blanket from the clothes he wore from birth until..... hopefully this will be a happy gift for him. My soon to be spouse will have my company until God says it's time and hopefully they are something he finds blessed by or vice versa. He wants his ashes spread on the ocean with a party for the farewell. Either way no tears are allowed....[:D] CRH

colliefan -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/1/2008 9:47:33 PM)
To have a proper view of life requires a proper view of death. For a Christian, it is the ultimate healing. When I go to heaven, all that I ask is that my ashes be scattered over the local dog park I frequent. That way people can truly say that I have gone to the dogs.

pstrdebi -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/1/2008 9:53:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crh737 PstrDebi~ I'm suprised you not on your way after eating sushi! Rotfl [8D] Eeeeewwww[:'(]... no thanks, I like "well done".... I had Terriaki Chicken... cooked! quote: I'm a very simple person in a lot of ways Me too! I told my son-in-law (a contractor) just build me a pine box (REALLY!) And if my daughters want it fancy, they can paint it white... and then distress it. You know... like 'shabby chic.' [:D] I do not like spending good money on things that you really can't enjoy... like big diamond jewelry. Why? You hardly wear it and it sits in a box half the time. And you certainly can't enjoy a coffin, now, can you? Why spend the money? I'll be dead... it's not like I can see which one they picked out and if it has a pretty lining... oooohhhh.[&:] quote: Either way no tears are allowed....[:D] CRH Thats why they (my kids) have been told to have a party. They can be sad I'm gone. But don't mourn... I'll be with Jesus! [;)]

Walker311 -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/1/2008 10:00:03 PM)
I want to go literally in a blaze of glory. If God would allow... I would like to be a very old man with one of those new jet powered wings that you strap on with it loaded with explosives. Gas her up somewhere over the desert or mountainous area, drop me from a plane and I fly until I run out of juice and then dive for the ground and blow up when I hit.

pstrdebi -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/2/2008 1:15:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Walker311 I want to go literally in a blaze of glory. If God would allow... I would like to be a very old man with one of those new jet powered wings that you strap on with it loaded with explosives. Gas her up somewhere over the desert or mountainous area, drop me from a plane and I fly until I run out of juice and then dive for the ground and blow up when I hit. Whoa... you took me literally when I said "death wish." [sm=icon_smile_yikes.gif]

SonInMe1 -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/2/2008 2:29:38 AM)
I think my parents have it right. They are going to donate their bodies to science and after they are done, whatever is left is going to be cremated. The only expense is the ambulance ride..something like 200 dollars. As for any ceremony...I would prefer none. I would hate to see from heaven no one showing up. I am not sure I would have to suggest people to party at my passing. As far as wanting to "be dead" I am not sure this is what we, as christians, should want. Sure being with the Lord will be a lot better than being here and that is very attractive however, I think there is plenty to occupy our time, in His service, here to keep our minds....earthly good.

mvic -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/2/2008 2:15:55 PM)
I think coffins should be painted with adverts from various sponsors: hamburger bars, soft drinks etc ... That would be a fitting tribute to the commercial society we live in. When it's time for me to go; and I'm lying there in my coffin nicely painted with adverts, I would like at least one mourner to say: "I've just seen him move !!!"

pstrdebi -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/2/2008 2:27:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mvic I think coffins should be painted with adverts from various sponsors: hamburger bars, soft drinks etc ... That would be a fitting tribute to the commercial society we live in. When it's time for me to go; and I'm lying there in my coffin nicely painted with adverts, I would like at least one mourner to say: "I've just seen him move !!!" HA!!! Mine would have to have "Bryers Ice Cream"... "The Olive Garden"... "In and Out Burger"... "Dallas Cowboys"... and "Indianapolis Colts" (for my hubby). [:D]

4IMPersuaded -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/2/2008 5:11:47 PM)
I'd like a party, too. My parents insist on having this conversation nearly every visit (we live across the country and visit about 4 times/year). This visit mom showed me the card in her wallet with all of the crematorium information on it! Ugh! I know it is important to them to have everything squared away-- they don't want us to worry about anything. We finally had to agree to go through the house and ask that our name be taped to the bottom of certain things that really mean something to us. There will be no fighting over "stuff." I was creeped out at first, but I get it now. Death is a part of life (unless you are Enoch or Elijah, I guess).

designed -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/2/2008 6:58:20 PM)
I have told my husband that if I should pass before him, that my most important request be that our pastor speak a bold and clear gospel message at the service. I think funerals can be wonderful opportunity for the saved and unsaved to reflect on the meaning, truths, uncertaintys and cycle of life. All glory to God [:)].

SonInMe1 -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/2/2008 7:35:00 PM)
quote: that our pastor speak a bold and clear gospel message at the service. I don't know if it was my mil's request that the pastor present a gospel message at her funeral but he did....I wasn't there ( 1500 miles away ) but my wife said...it offended people greatly. Maybe it was the presentation...I don't know.

Walker311 -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/2/2008 8:58:46 PM)
quote: I think funerals can be wonderful opportunity for the saved and unsaved to reflect on the meaning, truths, uncertaintys and cycle of life. All glory to God I have yet to be impressed by any gospel flavored message at a funeral. I do not believe a funeral is the place for it because by all means and purposes, most people get it. The message that impresses most is the life the person lived whether it was for Christ or not. Again, everyone pretty well has a good idea where the dead person went. When a speaker can effectively draw a life summary of a true saint of God, it speaks volumes to souls.

Focusing -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/2/2008 10:45:47 PM)
When my Aunt Nancy was still living, she declared that she wanted no tears at her funeral, and everyone was to wear bright and happy colors! I wasn't able to fly across the country to attend her service, but I certainly did wear bright colors that day, and smiled in her memory. She had such an amazing love for life and for the Lord ... and it rubbed off on everyone she met. She was one of my favorite people in the entire world. To this day, and I'm sure for the rest of my life, whenever I see bright pink and pretty flowers I will think of her and smile. [:D] I think I want that too! I want a big celebration when I go Home! No tears ... smiles, music and dancing!

pstrdebi -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/3/2008 12:35:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: 4IMPersuaded We finally had to agree to go through the house and ask that our name be taped to the bottom of certain things that really mean something to us. There will be no fighting over "stuff." I was creeped out at first, but I get it now. Death is a part of life (unless you are Enoch or Elijah, I guess). Wow... are we related?... my mom had all of us do the same thing... many years ago. I have a little blue glass basket that still has the little piece of tape on it with my name. [:D]

pstrdebi -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/3/2008 12:48:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: designed I have told my husband that if I should pass before him, that my most important request be that our pastor speak a bold and clear gospel message at the service. I think funerals can be wonderful opportunity for the saved and unsaved to reflect on the meaning, truths, uncertaintys and cycle of life. All glory to God [:)]. quote: ORIGINAL: SonInMe1 I don't know if it was my mil's request that the pastor present a gospel message at her funeral but he did....I wasn't there ( 1500 miles away ) but my wife said...it offended people greatly. Maybe it was the presentation...I don't know. quote: ORIGINAL: Walker311 I have yet to be impressed by any gospel flavored message at a funeral. I do not believe a funeral is the place for it because by all means and purposes, most people get it. The message that impresses most is the life the person lived whether it was for Christ or not. Again, everyone pretty well has a good idea where the dead person went. When a speaker can effectively draw a life summary of a true saint of God, it speaks volumes to souls. An old pastor of mine used to always integrate the Gospel message into his funerals... and he did a wonderful job... very tactful. (Hope we can do that good[:)]). In fact, I've seen a lot of people receive Christ from God touching them through those messages. On the flip-side... my husband and I had an unusual meeting... and we knew beyond a doubt that God put us together. Before our wedding, God spoke to me and told me He wanted an alter call at our wedding. My pastor at the time, was thrilled... plus it was the first time anyone ever requested that of Him. So after a beautiful testimony about mine and my husbands life with Christ, we had the alter call. And a guest who came with someone from our church, received Christ. Sooooo Cool!!! [:D]

designed -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/3/2008 3:06:32 AM)
quote: pstrdebi- An old pastor of mine used to always integrate the Gospel message into his funerals... and he did a wonderful job... very tactful. (Hope we can do that good ). In fact, I've seen a lot of people receive Christ from God touching them through those messages. I too have seen the message integrated beautifully. My fervent hope would be that my life, which should reflect my faith, reflect the good news that Jesus gave to us.

Walker311 -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/3/2008 1:50:38 PM)
quote: integrate the Gospel message into his funerals I think the integration is fine but not everyone is fully capable/qualified to do the integration. Last year my neighbor died and requested the speaker preach the gospel message with invitation. It was botched by an attorney who was also involved in an adulterous affair. I was sick to my stomach.

pstrdebi -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/4/2008 1:15:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Walker311 quote: integrate the Gospel message into his funerals I think the integration is fine but not everyone is fully capable/qualified to do the integration. Last year my neighbor died and requested the speaker preach the gospel message with invitation. It was botched by an attorney who was also involved in an adulterous affair. I was sick to my stomach. Ouch... [:o] Not all can do it... I've seen bad ones too. On the lighter side... Does anyone remember the little toy aliens in the claw machine on Toy Story? Well, I told my kids to stand a picture up of me at the entrance to the church with a little springy arm on it that waves... and a recording that says, "farwell my friends, I'm off to a better place!" (little alien guy going up in the claw on Toy Story).[:D] My kids just shook their heads. [8\|]

buckifn -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/4/2008 7:55:22 AM)
I believe my funeral is being preached by the life I live every day. So of course I want the pastor to give a message that invites everyone there to accept Jesus because there really won't be anything important left to say besides that imo. My kids know exactly what I want they have it in writing and I know my oldest son will handle everything. Instead of feeding my family afterwards (a tradition around here) I would much rather them serve a free dinner to those in need in our community. And instead of flowers I have requested they give gift certificates for groceries to a family in need. That is if anyone wants to give anything. I think it is cruel to tell your family and loved ones not to have tears..as long as we live in the flesh we are going to feel pain, and losing a loved one is one of the most painful experiences on this earth.

Bridgitt -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/4/2008 8:49:11 AM)
I too told my children that because I will be home with Jesus, they should have a party when I die. It will be a going home party! I don't want any wake or funeral. I just want my ashes to be spread in the wind so that nobody will have to come to a plot in a graveyard and cry over a stack of bones.

jbow -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/4/2008 8:54:31 AM)
My only death wish is to suffer and die for Jesus. He has to do some more work on me to get me ready but I pray that He will find me worthy of this. J

pstrdebi -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/4/2008 11:56:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: buckifn Instead of feeding my family afterwards (a tradition around here) I would much rather them serve a free dinner to those in need in our community. And instead of flowers I have requested they give gift certificates for groceries to a family in need. That is if anyone wants to give anything. This is cool... great idea! [;)]

Kat_D -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/4/2008 12:08:48 PM)
One day my father told us his death wish was that he wanted us to cremate him, put his ashes in a one pound Folger's Coffee can and bury it in the backyard. My Mother responded by saying, "Me too," to which he replied, "She'll need a five pound can." He slept on the couch that night.[sm=raisedbrows.gif]

pstrdebi -> RE: Do You Have A Death Wish??? (7/4/2008 12:35:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kat_D One day my father told us his death wish was that he wanted us to cremate him, put his ashes in a one pound Folger's Coffee can and bury it in the backyard. My Mother responded by saying, "Me too," to which he replied, "She'll need a five pound can." He slept on the couch that night.[sm=raisedbrows.gif] HA!!!![:D]

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