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IMA_CHRISTIAN -> RE: What makes you angry? (Multiple Selection) (7/18/2008 9:35:00 AM)
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I lose my temper for a minute when like something happens that causes me pain. i.e. when i was moving to a new apartment, something caused me physical pain and it made me very uncomfortable and stuck for a couple of minutes, and the pain was too hard to bear and i was aggravated that the pain happened. its like a "oh darn it" but to the extreme. fortunately, when the pain was over, the anger also went over. it was like huge frustration, pain, mental anguish all rolled into one and it showed itself by me getting angry. the other thing that gets me angry is when i really want to tell you something and you either - walk away not caring or you tell me "i dont care about your opinion" but if its something I really really want them to hear, a button turns on in me, and I cant let them go till they've heard me. its like my adrenaline gets to running and I JUST HAVE TO tell them what i want them to hear. this happened in real life when my ex-husband's family was over on Fathers Day and this one guy was taking his poor little skinny 3 year old and making him lay his face on the dirty floor as punishment, without even putting a towel inbetween his face and the dirty floor, meanwhile they had about 3 dogs there, so when i saw that, i said "hey thats pretty mean you putting your kids face on the floor like that.. and he said "i dont care waht you think about it" well that made me mad and I followed him around teling him what i thought. they all got mad with ME because it was fathers day and I was spoiling their fun, meanwhile I was witnessing what i thought was child abuse but no one was saying anything about that kid who really did not do anything to deserve that. but his father is a big jerk and one who beats people anyway.. i haven't heard from that family in many many years.
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