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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 8:48:42 AM   
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The problem with this interpretation is that Jesus was NOT contrasting his command against the law, but against the interpretation of the Law by the Jewish Rabbis. In each and every case they had extended the Law to mean something that had never been intended. In the case of divorce, by the first century they had permitted divorce for nearly any reason (based on the teaching of Hillel), and death for adultery was something rarely if ever practiced. Jesus' teaching was a correction of the interpretation of the Law, not an abolishment of it. Jesus himself clearly said "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them." just moments before he spoke about the correct interpretation of the Law.



The fact is that Jesus brought the discussion to CREATION marriage----one man/one woman for life. Then He goes on to say that This GOD created marriage was perverted due to men's hardheartedness. Jesus never speaks of "some" divorces(speaking of the type that nullifies the marriage of two persons who have left father/mother and come together in marriage) being ok.

Adultery was a stonable offense---per the "law". It WAS being practiced in Jesus' day. Jesus came upon such an action...............yet, what did He say to those who were going to stone this woman? YOU who are without sin, cast the first stone. WITHOUT SIN! Yet many today teach that people CAN cast stones, even though they are NOT without sin themselves. Many today teach that Jesus allows for such(in the guise of divorce)..............even though Jesus made it very clear in Mt. 5 that the harsh "laws" were abrogated in favor of forgiveness/grace. He also made it quite clear that even LOOKING upon another with want/desire is ADULTERY! How many of the people who who fight so hard to justify divorce/remarriage for adultery have committed adultery themselves------as defined and juged so by Jesus Christ!??

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 8:55:41 AM   
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However, it is clear from historical records that stoning for adultery was not practiced in the first century; the record of Joseph and Mary is a good biblical example of this. Joseph was worrying about bringing public disgrace to Mary; he was not worried about killing her. Additionally, other writings from the first century also indicate the fact that capital punishment was seldom if ever used during the time of Christ for incidents of adultery.


Joseph didn't care about killing Mary, but he did care about publically disgracing her? How does that work?

The biblical evidence is: not all BETROTHED women who were guilty of fornication were stoned to death. We find in the OT that the ones who WEREN'T stoned were those who were in the country and cried out, but noone could hear them to come to their defense. It is my belief that since Jesus made it clear that divorce was due to hardheartedness on the man's part, and since Joseph was called a JUST man, that his thoughts of putting Mary away privately was
due to his wanting to believe she did not WILLINGLY commit fornication. So, he did not want her either to be stoned, NOR suffer public disgrace through a public accusation.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 10:06:18 AM   
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How many of the people who who fight so hard to justify divorce/remarriage for adultery have committed adultery themselves------as defined and juged so by Jesus Christ!??


wait, Jesus's defition or lastblasts? cause the 351 pages of this thread clearly show they don't line up.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 10:25:16 AM   
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Adultery was a stonable offense---per the "law". It WAS being practiced in Jesus' day.

So, he did not want her either to be stoned, NOR suffer public disgrace through a public accusation.


Lastblast continues to make ridiculous claims like these; however, we know from history that under the Roman Law capital punishment was permitted only by the Roman Government by the declaration of the ruling Roman authority. Among the documents we have from history that makes clear this fact is the story of Christ's crucifixion in our bible. Clearly the Jewish Sanhedrin were powerless to exercise a death sentence and had to plead their case with Pilate. Jn. 18:31


Some additional notes:

In the story of the woman caught in adultery, That stoning would have violated the Law of the Torah, and the Talmudic Law as well.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 10:34:59 AM   
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The word of God is the absolute truth and this is what I stand on. Matthew 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.


Greetings Servant4,

Of course you know that this verse was included in Jesus' Sermon on the Mount. In this section of the sermon Jesus was specifically "contrasting" His interpretation of the Law with that of the Jewish traditional interpretation: Ye have heard it was by them of old." And each time Jesus contradicted the traditional interpretation with the objection "BUT I SAY UNTO YOU.

Mat 5:27 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:
Mat 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

Again:

Mat 5:31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
Mat 5:32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.

Adultery was a capital crime:

Lev 20:10 And the man that committeth adultery with another man's wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour's wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.

Jesus did not come to destroy the Law ... But to fulfill the Law ... the Law did not provide a divorce clause for adultery ... it ONLY offered the DEATH penalty. This was not some form of a "mystical death" of the marriage ... it was the actual "literal death of both adulterer and adulteress."

Therefore the word "fornication" in Matt. 5:32 cannot mean "sexual impurity or immorality in full legal marriage" for even the event of looking upon the nakedness of another then the man's true wife was tantmount to adultery.



The problem with this interpretation is that Jesus was NOT contrasting his command against the law, but against the interpretation of the Law by the Jewish Rabbis. In each and every case they had extended the Law to mean something that had never been intended. In the case of divorce, by the first century they had permitted divorce for nearly any reason (based on the teaching of Hillel), and death for adultery was something rarely if ever practiced. Jesus' teaching was a correction of the interpretation of the Law, not an abolishment of it. Jesus himself clearly said "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them." just moments before he spoke about the correct interpretation of the Law.
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Quote Huckfinn: In this section of the sermon Jesus was specifically "contrasting" His interpretation of the Law with that of the Jewish traditional interpretation: Ye have heard it was by them of old." And each time Jesus contradicted the traditional interpretation with the objection "BUT I SAY UNTO YOU.

Quote Benelchi: The problem with this interpretation is that Jesus was NOT contrasting his command against the law, but against the interpretation of the Law by the Jewish Rabbis.

Greetings Benelchi,

It appears to me that you have "repeated" the essence of my post point and then you mark your post as a contradiction to my post. But then you have gone one further by abolishing the Law of Lev. 20:10 death for adultery by your opinion that the Law of Lev. 20:10 was dissolved by the fact that it was "rarely-if-ever-practiced". This is squarely your "pirvate" interpretation and I believe you are in violation of laws of Biblical Interpretation.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 11:27:48 AM   
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Quote Huckfinn: In this section of the sermon Jesus was specifically "contrasting" His interpretation of the Law with that of the Jewish traditional interpretation: Ye have heard it was by them of old." And each time Jesus contradicted the traditional interpretation with the objection "BUT I SAY UNTO YOU.

Quote Benelchi: The problem with this interpretation is that Jesus was NOT contrasting his command against the law, but against the interpretation of the Law by the Jewish Rabbis.

Greetings Benelchi,

It appears to me that you have "repeated" the essence of my post point and then you mark your post as a contradiction to my post. But then you have gone one further by abolishing the Law of Lev. 20:10 death for adultery by your opinion that the Law of Lev. 20:10 was dissolved by the fact that it was "rarely-if-ever-practiced". This is squarely your "pirvate" interpretation and I believe you are in violation of laws of Biblical Interpretation.


Let me first address the ridiculous claim that this is my "private" interpretation. The interpretation I shared is the one most commonly held among Christian scholars, pastors, and laity. Here are just a few references from my bookshelf that all share the same interpretation: "The expositor's bible commentary, Vol 9 (1981)", "The New Bible Commentary: Revised (1953)", "Notes: on The Gospel of John: Explanatory and Practical, John Clark D.D., (1879)"

Second, Hermeneutic principals i.e. the Laws of Biblical Interpretation require one to look at the entire context and culture to which a passage was first addressed before making interpretive decisions. In the case of Jn. 8:1-11 we know that:

1) The OT Law required both parties of adultery to be stoned, yet in the account in John's Gospel only the woman was brought. (Du. 22:22)

2) The OT Law required two witnesses to condemn a person to death (Du. 17:6-7), and apparently no witnesses were present in the account given in John's gospel.

3) The Talmudic Law added to the requirement that two witnesses must be present to condemn a person to death, the requirement that the same two witnesses had to have previously warned those who then still chose to continue in their sin.

4) The Talmudic Law required a trial for all death penalty cases.

5) The Talmudic Law required the witnesses to throw the first stone, but they apparently were absent.

6) The Roman Law did not permit any death penalty sentence to be carried out without the express approval of the Roman government.


Based on what we know from John's Gospel, and from the history of the first century, there is no reason to assume that Jesus was abolishing any Law because the case brought before him did not meet the legal requirement of any Law that allowed for a death sentence, not Laws from the Torah, nor Laws from the Talmud, nor the Roman Law. It is clear that the Jewish Rulers were trying to trap Jesus; they were not interested in following the Law. Jesus' response was not only legal, but it left the Jewish leaders without even the ability to raise an accusation against him.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 11:38:21 AM   
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 12:31:14 PM   
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Quote Huckfinn: In this section of the sermon Jesus was specifically "contrasting" His interpretation of the Law with that of the Jewish traditional interpretation: Ye have heard it was by them of old." And each time Jesus contradicted the traditional interpretation with the objection "BUT I SAY UNTO YOU.

Quote Benelchi: The problem with this interpretation is that Jesus was NOT contrasting his command against the law, but against the interpretation of the Law by the Jewish Rabbis.

Greetings Benelchi,

It appears to me that you have "repeated" the essence of my post point and then you mark your post as a contradiction to my post. But then you have gone one further by abolishing the Law of Lev. 20:10 death for adultery by your opinion that the Law of Lev. 20:10 was dissolved by the fact that it was "rarely-if-ever-practiced". This is squarely your "pirvate" interpretation and I believe you are in violation of laws of Biblical Interpretation.


Let me first address the ridiculous claim that this is my "private" interpretation. The interpretation I shared is the one most commonly held among Christian scholars, pastors, and laity. Here are just a few references from my bookshelf that all share the same interpretation: "The expositor's bible commentary, Vol 9 (1981)", "The New Bible Commentary: Revised (1953)", "Notes: on The Gospel of John: Explanatory and Practical, John Clark D.D., (1879)"

Second, Hermeneutic principals i.e. the Laws of Biblical Interpretation require one to look at the entire context and culture to which a passage was first addressed before making interpretive decisions. In the case of Jn. 8:1-11 we know that:

1) The OT Law required both parties of adultery to be stoned, yet in the account in John's Gospel only the woman was brought. (Du. 22:22)

2) The OT Law required two witnesses to condemn a person to death (Du. 17:6-7), and apparently no witnesses were present in the account given in John's gospel.

3) The Talmudic Law added to the requirement that two witnesses must be present to condemn a person to death, the requirement that the same two witnesses had to have previously warned those who then still chose to continue in their sin.

4) The Talmudic Law required a trial for all death penalty cases.

5) The Talmudic Law required the witnesses to throw the first stone, but they apparently were absent.

6) The Roman Law did not permit any death penalty sentence to be carried out without the express approval of the Roman government.


Based on what we know from John's Gospel, and from the history of the first century, there is no reason to assume that Jesus was abolishing any Law because the case brought before him did not meet the legal requirement of any Law that allowed for a death sentence, not Laws from the Torah, nor Laws from the Talmud, nor the Roman Law. It is clear that the Jewish Rulers were trying to trap Jesus; they were not interested in following the Law. Jesus' response was not only legal, but it left the Jewish leaders without even the ability to raise an accusation against him.


Greetings Benelci,


The reference to "private interpretation" means that the person or persons proposing the interpretation cannot support their interpretation "directly" from Scripture. I am familiar with the "Aboliton of the Law of Adultery-Death View" and I find this interpretation as "private' because it cannot be supported by any text of Scripture, i.e. because of "non-practice" the Law is "void". I as well have many scholars (especially) regarding MDR on my library shelves ... and most of my references see "non-practice-law = void" as eisegesis. I believe that John 8 is a "pronouncement" of the death-for-adultery Law of Lev. 20:10 since the Scribes and Pharisees failed to bring the male counterpart to the trail since "the woman was taken in adultery, in the very act." Those who adhere to the adultery-death-void-law whether ancient or modern fail to see the Law as a moral code that is indissoluble.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 12:56:01 PM   
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How many of the people who who fight so hard to justify divorce/remarriage for adultery have committed adultery themselves------as defined and juged so by Jesus Christ!??


wait, Jesus's defition or lastblasts? cause the 351 pages of this thread clearly show they don't line up.


I think Jesus was very clear in Mt. 5:27-28 about how HE defines adultery. Do you believe then, based upon Jesus' view of adultery, that it "fits" with the popular understanding of Mt. 19:9----that one can put away AND marry another based upon their spouse's "adultery"? In other words, Jesus knowing that MOST men/women will be guilty of HIS definition of adultery, gives permission to divorce and marry others----others who will most likely also commit adultery based upon Jesus' definition as well?

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 12:59:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: huckfinn327

quote:

ORIGINAL: benelchi

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Quote Huckfinn: In this section of the sermon Jesus was specifically "contrasting" His interpretation of the Law with that of the Jewish traditional interpretation: Ye have heard it was by them of old." And each time Jesus contradicted the traditional interpretation with the objection "BUT I SAY UNTO YOU.

Quote Benelchi: The problem with this interpretation is that Jesus was NOT contrasting his command against the law, but against the interpretation of the Law by the Jewish Rabbis.

Greetings Benelchi,

It appears to me that you have "repeated" the essence of my post point and then you mark your post as a contradiction to my post. But then you have gone one further by abolishing the Law of Lev. 20:10 death for adultery by your opinion that the Law of Lev. 20:10 was dissolved by the fact that it was "rarely-if-ever-practiced". This is squarely your "pirvate" interpretation and I believe you are in violation of laws of Biblical Interpretation.


Let me first address the ridiculous claim that this is my "private" interpretation. The interpretation I shared is the one most commonly held among Christian scholars, pastors, and laity. Here are just a few references from my bookshelf that all share the same interpretation: "The expositor's bible commentary, Vol 9 (1981)", "The New Bible Commentary: Revised (1953)", "Notes: on The Gospel of John: Explanatory and Practical, John Clark D.D., (1879)"

Second, Hermeneutic principals i.e. the Laws of Biblical Interpretation require one to look at the entire context and culture to which a passage was first addressed before making interpretive decisions. In the case of Jn. 8:1-11 we know that:

1) The OT Law required both parties of adultery to be stoned, yet in the account in John's Gospel only the woman was brought. (Du. 22:22)

2) The OT Law required two witnesses to condemn a person to death (Du. 17:6-7), and apparently no witnesses were present in the account given in John's gospel.

3) The Talmudic Law added to the requirement that two witnesses must be present to condemn a person to death, the requirement that the same two witnesses had to have previously warned those who then still chose to continue in their sin.

4) The Talmudic Law required a trial for all death penalty cases.

5) The Talmudic Law required the witnesses to throw the first stone, but they apparently were absent.

6) The Roman Law did not permit any death penalty sentence to be carried out without the express approval of the Roman government.


Based on what we know from John's Gospel, and from the history of the first century, there is no reason to assume that Jesus was abolishing any Law because the case brought before him did not meet the legal requirement of any Law that allowed for a death sentence, not Laws from the Torah, nor Laws from the Talmud, nor the Roman Law. It is clear that the Jewish Rulers were trying to trap Jesus; they were not interested in following the Law. Jesus' response was not only legal, but it left the Jewish leaders without even the ability to raise an accusation against him.


Greetings Benelci,


The reference to "private interpretation" means that the person or persons proposing the interpretation cannot support their interpretation "directly" from Scripture. I am familiar with the "Aboliton of the Law of Adultery-Death View" and I find this interpretation as "private' because it cannot be supported by any text of Scripture, i.e. because of "non-practice" the Law is "void". I as well have many scholars (especially) regarding MDR on my library shelves ... and most of my references see "non-practice-law = void" as eisegesis. I believe that John 8 is a "pronouncement" of the death-for-adultery Law of Lev. 20:10 since the Scribes and Pharisees failed to bring the male counterpart to the trail since "the woman was taken in adultery, in the very act." Those who adhere to the adultery-death-void-law whether ancient or modern fail to see the Law as a moral code that is indissoluble.

Huckfinn



There are several difficulties with this response:

First, Why is that those on the "no remarriage" side of this debate continue to insist that everyone else's interpretation cannot be supported with scripture when they have provided you with the scriptures to support their point of view? In this case: I provided Du. 16:6-7, Du. 22:22, and (from the previous post) Jn. 18:31

Second, Why do those on the "no remarriage" side of this debate continue to mis-represent what has been said by the other side? In this case I said "Based on what we know from John's Gospel, and from the history of the first century, there is no reason to assume that Jesus was abolishing any Law because the case brought before him did not meet the legal requirement of any Law that allowed for a death sentence". I never said or implied that "non-practice-law = void". All I did was state the fact that a death sentence for adultery was typically not practiced in the first century; I said this because Lastblast had made the false claim that it was; this is far different than what you extrapolated. The idea that simply not practicing a Law makes it void is something I have never seen anyone teach, nor is it something I put forth. Certainly none of the commentaries I referenced teach this!

Last, from what I can tell, it appears you have decided that you are the sole authority in deciding what constitutes a "private interpretation" i.e. you have declared that what is understood by almost the entire Christian church is a "private interpretation" and yours (which is rejected by most of the church) is not? There certainly is no basis in scripture for such a declaration.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 1:01:31 PM   
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Lastblast continues to make ridiculous claims like these; however, we know from history that under the Roman Law capital punishment was permitted only by the Roman Government by the declaration of the ruling Roman authority. Among the documents we have from history that makes clear this fact is the story of Christ's crucifixion in our bible. Clearly the Jewish Sanhedrin were powerless to exercise a death sentence and had to plead their case with Pilate. Jn. 18:31



If the Jew was unable to practice stoning, why do we find that example in scripture (the woman caught in adultery)? If God commanded adulterers to be stoned, how is it that the Jews would be guilty in the Lord's eyes? The simple truth is that you stated stoning did not occur in those times. What you said does not line up with what we find in scripture. We do indeed find that Jesus came upon a woman who was about to be stoned and you know what? He didn't rebuke them for carrying out the law, nor going against the Roman Authorities----what He did do what cause them to consider their own GUILT.........and it was THAT, not the fear of breaking a law that caused them to walk away.

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In the story of the woman caught in adultery, That stoning would have violated the Law of the Torah, and the Talmudic Law as well
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The only way it would have violated what God commanded is that the MAN who committed adultery with her was not also brought before them and stoned as well.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 1:36:55 PM   
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benelchi,

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However, it is clear from historical records that stoning for adultery was not practiced in the first century; the record of Joseph and Mary is a good biblical example of this.
Thanks for the info. But if you think this is a good reason to go on practising adultery, then you, like the religious leaders during those times fail to see why Jesus Christ came. He came to set the record strait. Evidently everyone was "doing their own thing." Why do you suppose God sent Jesus Christ? Why do you suppose He came to fulfill the law?

Time and time again, the religious leaders of Jesus Christ's day came to Him with their distorted version of the law, and Jesus Christ corrected them. When you tell me "historically what people practised," you are doing something of the equivalent of what the religious leaders were doing when they approached Christ. Do you remember when you were a kid, and you got into mischief with other children, and in your defense you'd say, "Mom, the other kids were doing it." Your mom would say, "If Jimmy jumped off of a cliff, would you do it too?" It pretty much sealed the argument, and you went right off to punishment. When a majority of people do not follow a law that God has set down, that is not my que to follow them. If Israelites were not following ALL of the law when Jesus came, doesn't that stand to validate why He came to fulfill it? Doesn't it then make sense why Jesus came to establish a NEW Covenant? One written on their hearts? Don't you understand why He said, "if you do not commit adultery, but you murder you're still guilty." That was the point He was trying to get across--if you do not fulfill ALL of the law, YOU ARE DOING SOMETHING WRONG.

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the record of Joseph and Mary is a good biblical example of this. Joseph was worrying about bringing public disgrace to Mary; he was not worried about killing her.
Joseph followed the clear biblical directions for divorcing a woman whom you have been betrothed to. Why would you use this example??? Please see Matthew 1:18-19, Luke 1:26-27. Joseph was simply following the law of divorce/betrothal.

Again, here:
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This one of the best stories that really highlights the practice of first Century Judaism in the case of capital punishment for adultery.
Yes, true . . . but um, THE LAW said an adulterer/adulteress was to be stoned. How does this fact change anything? It doesn't. You have simply driven home the point that the people AND the religious leaders of their day were not following the Law. And I think that is why Jesus Christ came . . .

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First glaringly absent from this story is the presence of the man who had also committed adultery (according to the Torah both he and the woman were to be stoned)
. . . could it be that they were not following the Law?

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Second, the Jewish leaders were clearly trying to trap Jesus by forcing him to either choose capital punishment for the woman and defy the Roman government, or refuse capitol punishment and be accused of defying God's Law.
Exactly! Why was it a trap? It was a trap for Jesus Christ, because the religious leaders KNEW that HE was giving the CORRECT interpretations of the LAW. In fact, this "trap" highlights the religious leaders fear of Roman authority more than their fear of God. Recall Daniel for a moment. This is a man who loved God and to continue obeying his God, gladly went into the lions den. Consider Shadrack, Mechach and Abednego, again, they loved God and His law more than they feared man. They faced the FIRE for God. Only someone who LOVES God can do that. Why are we afraid to face the fire of lonliness to obey Him? The fire of poverty? The fire of trial and tribulation? The fire of rejection and being an outcast for Him? It's a sad commentary indeed.

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This trap would have been meaningless if capitol punishment were regularly being exercised in the case of adultery.
No, this trap would have been meaningless if Jesus Christ was following the practises of the religious leaders of His day.

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As far as "fornication" being related to betrothal. We have no records from the 1st - 5th centuries indicating such an understanding, and many that indicate quite the opposite.
Again you make the assumption that if everybody's doing it, it must be OK . . . remember, Jesus Christ not only KNEW the law, He WAS the law. If we can clearly read in Deut 24:1 the only appearance of divorce is for betrothal in the Law, certainly Jesus Christ knew that. He was here to fulfill the law and to correct the Israelites. He IS the very word of God. How can He not know Himself. The religious leaders figured out that much about Him to be able to set traps for Him.

Benelchi, your response simply reflect the religious leaders of the day. Not the heart of God nor His law. This was the problem. It's great to read huge volumes and great resources on Judaic law, but that's about the ONE thing they didn't get right. They were all wrong on the INSIDE. They had hearts of stone--just like the heathen. Jesus came to fix that, and write His law on their hearts. In fact, He went a step further and extended GRACE. We should be ALWAYS aware of grace, for the penalty for just ONE sin (whether in thought or deed) is death. The real penalty for adultery under the law is death. Don't you see the harmony here? How the law tutored for this spiritual Covenant? Whenever you sin, and God doesn't immediately cast you into hell, it's grace. When your wife commits adultery, and you do not divorce her, its grace. Our hearts should look like HIS.

They shouldn't be hard anymore. They should seek to please Him now.

You who partake of God's amazing grace . . . where is yours?
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 1:50:36 PM   
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Yes, God hates divorce. So do we.

Is that so? Do we really hate divorce like He does? I don't think so. Or we wouldn't do it.

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From the beginning it was not so. But neither was sin yet when it happened God took steps to deal with it. Men were hard hearted, they still are.

From the beginning it was not so . . . I think you quote Jesus when He set down His precedent here. Can sin change the word of God? Can sin change the mind of God? Can sin change the heart of God? Nope. If it did, we'd have made a liar of God--"I am the Lord your God, I change not." What then is Jesus saying if He refers back to the Creation Marriage? He's saying this is the way my Father set it up, this is His Heart for marriage, this is the way its suppose to be done.

You see, when God's spirit indwells you, He gives you a heart of flesh. Yes, unbelieving men and women have hard hearts--but God forbid such a thing should be said about a believer--one who claims to know and follow the very Lord and God who says "I hate divorce." Shall we make liars of God or ourselves? Either we really do have a heart of flesh and His Spirit indwells us, or we are hard-hearted unbelieving men. It cannot be both. So, which is it? Do you have a heart of flesh or a hard heart? Is His word written on your heart or is it not?

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Let me make sure you are not saying what this actually says. Are you implying that a couple can't even break their engagement (betrothal)?
I am implying that they should extend grace to each other. Now you tell me, what does that mean?
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 2:17:19 PM   
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Quote Huckfinn: In this section of the sermon Jesus was specifically "contrasting" His interpretation of the Law with that of the Jewish traditional interpretation: Ye have heard it was by them of old." And each time Jesus contradicted the traditional interpretation with the objection "BUT I SAY UNTO YOU.

Quote Benelchi: The problem with this interpretation is that Jesus was NOT contrasting his command against the law, but against the interpretation of the Law by the Jewish Rabbis.

Greetings Benelchi,

It appears to me that you have "repeated" the essence of my post point and then you mark your post as a contradiction to my post. But then you have gone one further by abolishing the Law of Lev. 20:10 death for adultery by your opinion that the Law of Lev. 20:10 was dissolved by the fact that it was "rarely-if-ever-practiced". This is squarely your "pirvate" interpretation and I believe you are in violation of laws of Biblical Interpretation.


Let me first address the ridiculous claim that this is my "private" interpretation. The interpretation I shared is the one most commonly held among Christian scholars, pastors, and laity. Here are just a few references from my bookshelf that all share the same interpretation: "The expositor's bible commentary, Vol 9 (1981)", "The New Bible Commentary: Revised (1953)", "Notes: on The Gospel of John: Explanatory and Practical, John Clark D.D., (1879)"

Second, Hermeneutic principals i.e. the Laws of Biblical Interpretation require one to look at the entire context and culture to which a passage was first addressed before making interpretive decisions. In the case of Jn. 8:1-11 we know that:

1) The OT Law required both parties of adultery to be stoned, yet in the account in John's Gospel only the woman was brought. (Du. 22:22)

2) The OT Law required two witnesses to condemn a person to death (Du. 17:6-7), and apparently no witnesses were present in the account given in John's gospel.

3) The Talmudic Law added to the requirement that two witnesses must be present to condemn a person to death, the requirement that the same two witnesses had to have previously warned those who then still chose to continue in their sin.

4) The Talmudic Law required a trial for all death penalty cases.

5) The Talmudic Law required the witnesses to throw the first stone, but they apparently were absent.

6) The Roman Law did not permit any death penalty sentence to be carried out without the express approval of the Roman government.


Based on what we know from John's Gospel, and from the history of the first century, there is no reason to assume that Jesus was abolishing any Law because the case brought before him did not meet the legal requirement of any Law that allowed for a death sentence, not Laws from the Torah, nor Laws from the Talmud, nor the Roman Law. It is clear that the Jewish Rulers were trying to trap Jesus; they were not interested in following the Law. Jesus' response was not only legal, but it left the Jewish leaders without even the ability to raise an accusation against him.


Greetings Benelci,


The reference to "private interpretation" means that the person or persons proposing the interpretation cannot support their interpretation "directly" from Scripture. I am familiar with the "Aboliton of the Law of Adultery-Death View" and I find this interpretation as "private' because it cannot be supported by any text of Scripture, i.e. because of "non-practice" the Law is "void". I as well have many scholars (especially) regarding MDR on my library shelves ... and most of my references see "non-practice-law = void" as eisegesis. I believe that John 8 is a "pronouncement" of the death-for-adultery Law of Lev. 20:10 since the Scribes and Pharisees failed to bring the male counterpart to the trail since "the woman was taken in adultery, in the very act." Those who adhere to the adultery-death-void-law whether ancient or modern fail to see the Law as a moral code that is indissoluble.

Huckfinn



There are several difficulties with this response:

First, Why is that those on the "no remarriage" side of this debate continue to insist that everyone else's interpretation cannot be supported with scripture when they have provided you with the scriptures to support their point of view? In this case: I provided Du. 16:6-7, Du. 22:22, and (from the previous post) Jn. 18:31

Second, Why do those on the "no remarriage" side of this debate continue to mis-represent what has been said by the other side? In this case I said "Based on what we know from John's Gospel, and from the history of the first century, there is no reason to assume that Jesus was abolishing any Law because the case brought before him did not meet the legal requirement of any Law that allowed for a death sentence". I never said or implied that "non-practice-law = void". All I did was state the fact that a death sentence for adultery was typically not practiced in the first century; I said this because Lastblast had made the false claim that it was; this is far different than what you extrapolated. The idea that simply not practicing a Law makes it void is something I have never seen anyone teach, nor is it something I put forth. Certainly none of the commentaries I referenced teach this!

Last, from what I can tell, it appears you have decided that you are the sole authority in deciding what constitutes a "private interpretation" i.e. you have declared that what is understood by almost the entire Christian church is a "private interpretation" and yours (which is rejected by most of the church) is not? There certainly is no basis in scripture for such a declaration.



Greetings Benelchi,

The position that death-for-adultery is not relevant to Matt. 5:32 and 19:9 is my pirmary objection to your posts. I understood you to say that this was so because of Jewish commentary and the presence of the Roman empire. Many, as you have published, believe these authorities (Jewish commentary and Rome) dictated that capital punishment for adultery among the Jewish community was rare or non-existent during the life of Christ. Although this is true; it cannot be used to interpret Jesus' doctrine of marriage in Matt. 5:32 and 19:9. . The idea that since the Lev. 20:10 and Deut. 22:22 text was not practiced at the time of Christ means that it is not relevant to Matt. 5:32 and Matt. 19:9 is teaching that the Law of Moses on Death for Adulery was dissolved; which then permits the eisegesis that divorce was taught by Christ. Thus in the mind of those who believe this they dissolve the adulery-death-law in Matt. 5;32; 19:9 ... what I referred to as "non-practice-law = void."

I belive Jesus fully exposited Deut. 22:2, and Lev. 20:10 in the Sermon on the Mount and in Matt. 19 and that fact must be nailed to the text of Matt. 5;32 and 19:9. If one does this then divorce is a myth as Carl Laney states.

You must be familiar with the volume: Jesus and Divorce by Bill Heth and Gordon Wenham. Regardless of Heth's new position ... Professor Wenham continues to support this thesis where they discover that the Christian Churhc for 1500 years believed that there is No-Remarriage-This-Side-Of-Death. Where Augustine warned against Adulterous-Marriages. 1500 years of testimony may mean that Huckfinn may be on the right track regarding No-Remarriage-This-Side-Of-Death.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 3:15:55 PM   
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I think Jesus was very clear in Mt. 5:27-28 about how HE defines adultery. Do you believe then, based upon Jesus' view of adultery, that it "fits" with the popular understanding of Mt. 19:9----that one can put away AND marry another based upon their spouse's "adultery"? In other words, Jesus knowing that MOST men/women will be guilty of HIS definition of adultery, gives permission to divorce and marry others----others who will most likely also commit adultery based upon Jesus' definition as well?


lastblast - this is what follows the scripture you refer to:
If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.

do you believe Jesus is actually commanding us to pluck out our eyes and cut off our hands? because by what you said "Jesus knowing that MOST men/women will be guilty of HIS definition" means that we will be a nation of blind amputees. the way i have always heard it taught is that Jesus is emphasizing the seriousness of the offense - even possibly using sarcasm to get his point across. and to answer your question, yes i take Matthew 19:9 at face value.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 6:28:22 PM   
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Let me make sure you are not saying what this actually says. Are you implying that a couple can't even break their engagement (betrothal)? I am implying that they should extend grace to each other. Now you tell me, what does that mean?


I have no idea what you mean by that. You need to explain it better if you are trying to make a point.

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 7:55:29 PM   
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the way i have always heard it taught is that Jesus is emphasizing the seriousness of the offense - even possibly using sarcasm to get his point across. and to answer your question, yes i take Matthew 19:9 at face value.


So, you do agree then that when Jesus spoke Mt. 19:9, what He really meant was that a spouse could divorce their spouse just for looking with lust at another person..........and since we both know that is VERY common among ALL people, you then believe Jesus really doesn't hate divorce, but gives an out to almost everyone who is married today. Is this what you believe?

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/15/2008 9:03:37 PM   
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Since we have been taking verses by them selves to "prove" that remarriage is adultery, I noticed one verse (or at least a part of a verse) that you all do not use.

Mat 5:32a but I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except for the reason of unchastity, makes her commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

Without dragging a bunch of other stuff into it, how does just divorcing someone MAKE them commit adultery?


In those days a woman would have an extremely difficult time trying to survive alone, so by divorcing her the man was essentially condemning her to a life of adultery by marrying someone else. That's also why it says that the one who married her is committing adultery also. That proves that she is still bound to her original husband even though he divorced her, so divorce cannot separate the marriage covenant, and all who do so and remarry are committing adultery because they are bound to their original spouse.


Except it nowhere says that a remarriage was involved. A plain reading of the text seems to indicate that just the fact of being divorced caused her to commit adultery, with or without remarriage.


My point is that it would make her commit adultery, because in that culture since she would be compelled to remarry as a form of survival. The text implies that she would remarry by saying she is being made to commit adultery. Logically if she were to remain alone there could not be an issue of adultery, so it is assumed that she would join to someone else after the divorce.


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If you want to bring culture into it, you may wish to also look to the common opinion of the day that female sex drive was much stronger than the male drive (and that in marriage sex was a wife's right and husband's responsibility) and that it referred to the inevitable lusting from unfulfilled desires.


I don't want to bring culture into the issue, but was stating a fact about that culture which is implied in the text. Realistically today divorcing a wife in most western countries would not make her commit adultery because it is common for women to support themselves without a husband, but Jesus knew that the Jewish men of His day who divorced their wives, were putting them in a position where they would almost certainly marry again for survival.


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He told us in the sermon on the mount that to lust after someone (not your spouse) was committing adultery in your heart.

If she has a strong need for her now-divorced husband (who is no longer her spouse), could it be that she is committing adultery in her heart for him?


No, that doesn't fit what the text says, because it goes on to say that the man who married her is also committing adultery by marrying her. It is also absurd and reading a lot into the text to suggest that a woman who lusts after her own husband is committing adultery in doing so, after he just divorced her unjustly. Who would she be committing adultery against if the divorce made her single?

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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/16/2008 9:22:25 AM   
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So, you do agree then that when Jesus spoke Mt. 19:9, what He really meant was that a spouse could divorce their spouse just for looking with lust at another person..........and since we both know that is VERY common among ALL people, you then believe Jesus really doesn't hate divorce, but gives an out to almost everyone who is married today. Is this what you believe?


no where do you get all that from and stop skipping around please. have you never looked at another person in lust or used a body part to commit a sin? if you feel so strongly about remarriage after adultery, why don't you feel as strongly about the surrounding verses and started cutting off body parts.
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RE: Remarriage After Divorce - One Stop Thread - 4/16/2008 12:13:33 PM